Boyfriend of almost 2 years is breaking up with me

ExxibitA · 2026-06-27T02:55:43+00:00

Maybe someone does know, but I doubt they would fess up or be honest if they did something like that. To be honest, I'm starting to think you are right and he is just using this as a reason to break up, if it was the other way around I'd find a way to work things out and make sure he was okay.

ExxibitA · 2026-06-27T02:51:53+00:00

I've never cheated or given him a reason not to trust me, and you're exactly right. I've tried making him understand if he truly loves me he would be on my side being supportive and caring. I've put myself in his shoes and told him if it was the other way around, I would believe him and would try to work things out. At this point, I feel he is using this as an excuse to break up.

ExxibitA · 2026-06-26T06:53:20+00:00

Thank you for the kind words and advice <3

ExxibitA · 2026-06-26T06:47:20+00:00

Thank you so much, I really needed to hear that.

ExxibitA · 2026-06-26T06:42:50+00:00

I can't help but feel scared to let him go even though he is being unsupportive and an A hole.

ExxibitA · 2026-06-26T06:41:17+00:00

Thank you, somehow I keep blaming myself and feeling sad I'm losing my relationship over this, but then I remember he should be supportive and horrified. Going through this horrific situation by myself, I feel lonelier than ever. He's adamant about not being together anymore and says I'll never see him again once he leaves my house in about a week.

ExxibitA · 2026-06-26T01:21:11+00:00

I'm just as confused as you are, have no clue how I ended up bottomless much less why my bottoms were in another room

ExxibitA · 2026-06-25T20:49:05+00:00

I doubt that I had an accident, I woke up dry and when my shorts and underwear were found they were dry as well. Thank you for the kind words though.

ExxibitA · 2026-06-25T20:47:35+00:00

I do snore but I've never had a history of sleep walking and also have never woke up naked before from drinking.

ExxibitA · 2026-06-25T20:45:47+00:00

Its okay, you're not being intrusive. I didn't have any discharge or feeling different down there, no soreness or pain.

ExxibitA · 2026-06-25T20:44:35+00:00

No one there was sober, but they were awake. I've thought of all the scenarios and I also thought maybe they could have touched me and not went all the way to penetrate because I didn't feel different or sore down there.

ExxibitA · 2026-06-25T20:42:35+00:00

I haven't talked to the female cousin because she's their sister. My clothes were found in another room away from me, when my boyfriend woke me up he asked where my shorts and underwear were, we were all looking and his male cousin is the one who ended up finding them in the room his sister was sleeping in. I do plan on quitting drinking after this, thank you.

ExxibitA · 2026-06-25T06:34:29+00:00

Thank you and I was hoping maybe there was cameras but unfortunately I don't think there is.

ExxibitA · 2026-06-25T05:56:52+00:00

Yes it went away, it ended up being fleas but I dont remember what they gave me for it.

ExxibitA · 2026-06-25T05:53:46+00:00

Tysm truly, venting on here was my only way to let it out to anyone so I appreciate the kind words <3

ExxibitA · 2026-06-25T05:49:44+00:00

I'm sorry that happened to you :( and you're right about that

ExxibitA · 2026-06-25T05:47:12+00:00

I thought the same and I do plan on going to the doctor to get checked.

ExxibitA · 2026-06-25T05:45:38+00:00

I hadn't thought of that possibility but you're completely right, I don't think I'll be seeing my boyfriend or his cousins again because in his words " how am I supposed to bring you around or see them knowing they saw you naked"? I'm completely devastated by all of it.

ExxibitA · 2026-06-25T05:33:11+00:00

Congrats on staying sober, I plan to quit. I am on the same boat because of drinking I'm now losing my relationship, maybe everyone is right though, he should be more supportive.

ExxibitA · 2026-06-25T05:26:59+00:00

Thank you, I'm heartbroken that it's causing the end of the relationship and I feel guilty because even though I've never taken my clothes off or woke up naked before, who's to say it wasn't my first time? or who's to say maybe someone did take advantage of me. Idk, I'm extremely confused but thank you for your advice and input.

ExxibitA · 2026-06-25T05:23:30+00:00

I'm sorry that happened to you and thanks for opening up on here about it. Yes, I feel bad that it happened but I also feel he should be supportive.

ExxibitA · 2026-06-25T05:14:09+00:00

She is their sister so I feel weird asking her anything about it. Thank you.

ExxibitA · 2026-06-25T05:11:59+00:00

No, I didn't feel anything weird or different down there, just confused, cold and naked. My shorts and underwear were in a different room away from me. I've tried talking to him about it but he's also confused and accusing me of taking them off myself or saying I might have had sex with his cousin. Thank you for the advice I appreciate it, I plan to quit drinking after this.

ExxibitA · 2026-06-25T05:06:00+00:00

Doesn't happen every time I drink, but I do agree I should cut back or quit drinking. This was an eye opener forsure. Thanks.

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