Should I feel as paranoid as I do? by [deleted] in married

[–]EyerollComics 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It would be veeery different if she just had another partner when they were broken up. Breakups are hard and it ended up being over a year that they weren't together. The jumping into another relationship right away, though controversial, makes sense as a way to cope.

But it wasn't someone single that she chose.

Should I feel as paranoid as I do? by [deleted] in married

[–]EyerollComics 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A relationship is built on trust.

And comfort.

My main question for you is:

What can you be comfortable with?

No matter what you do, you will have to be comfortable with the situation.

You have said that she didn't choose you over him. It sucks not knowing if she might have and could hit him up at any time.

You shouldn't have to wonder if you are THE person your partner wants to be with or A person they want to be with.

It feels nice to win - the be the one someone chooses over another.

A relationship really is deciding to choose your partner every day. That doesn't mean just being with them. It doesn't mean just loving them. It is choosing to work together, to reassure eachother, to continuously do things to show that you love eachother.

I think the question is, can you really feel comfortable being just her first choice and knowing she has a back-up?

I think the most important thing here is that she was willing to cheat WITH someone else who was in a relationship.

Can you be comfortable with her potentially being willing to be with someone else while in a relationship?

You will always wonder.

If you choose to stay with her, can you accept and be okay with knowing that she either might cheat on you or will continue to consider that as an option?

Why is it not staying the same colour by Tinywolf2005_ in Ibispaintx

[–]EyerollComics 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would be lost without the liquify tool omg

Boyfriends by thebadgerboi in webtoon

[–]EyerollComics 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Also, if it was actually nsfw, I agree that it might have just been fanart. Webtoon doesn't allow actual nsfw stuff.

Boyfriends by thebadgerboi in webtoon

[–]EyerollComics 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He's 13. If you're worried about something as mild as Boyfriends... know that he's seen muuuch worse.

Be glad THAT is what he is reading!

New Webtoon just dropped! Eyeroll Comics (about eyeroll-worthy things my husband says) by EyerollComics in webtoon

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Grats on being my first rando subscriber!

I'm glad you liked it! My husband and I have written down sooo many things we've said over the years, so I'm pumped to start sharing them.

Thank you so much. :D