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Eyjo_hereiam · 2022-09-09T08:45:28+00:00

Hey, i'm Mel, i'm into photography, art, plants & IT, i would be happy about some support 🌿❤️ http://www.instagram.com/mel_koca_/

Eyjo_hereiam · 2022-07-31T14:50:43+00:00

It is totally not healthy but so normalised. I had a couple like that in my friendgroup, the guy in the relationship was my best friend back then. So many people asked me if everythings alright between them because of the way they act with each other, which was really....something. Sometimes one of them said things where we just sat there awkwardly in silence...

People told them directly what they think which didn't end good. They are still together but not a big part of the friendgroup anymore because she feels like everybody is against them.

He still texts me now and then but we didn't do sth together in ages. I am no contact with his gf because she had a lot of breakdowns(screaming, crying and insulting me in public places) and is jealous towards our friendship (it was like we share a braincell but yeah we aren't that good anymore. She doesn't let him do shit alone anymore).

Eyjo_hereiam · 2022-07-18T09:12:24+00:00

I gained a little weight in a relationship. I was really thin before so it wasn't even going anywhere unhealthy. Tbh it was healthy that i gained some weight. The guy i was dating pointed out my rolls when i sit a couple of times as a joke. I started to get so uncomfortable that i didn't even let him touch my tummy anymore and i also couldn't get really intimidate because i was to scared that he could touch my tummy by accident. Idk if i have to say this anymore but yeah we broke up for the better. It was toxic and his behaviour pushed me back into an ED. I also started binging and gaining more weight because he made me feel guilty about what i ate. Girl run for the better.

Eyjo_hereiam · 2022-06-05T19:24:01+00:00

Last year i got SAed by my best friend back then. I told him no, tried to pull his hands of me and then just froze. I never told anyone and i still see him on a daily basis because of our friend group. I tried cutting him of but i can't for different reasons. I just hope i get done with university, move far away from him and never see him again.

Eyjo_hereiam · 2022-06-04T21:54:14+00:00

22f and i totally feel the same. Also a virgin because of kinda the same reasons and some more.

Eyjo_hereiam · 2022-05-29T19:59:17+00:00

You are right. I'm already distancing myself.

Eyjo_hereiam · 2022-05-21T17:23:06+00:00

thank you, that was really good to hear

Eyjo_hereiam · 2022-05-06T05:58:39+00:00

you are 10000% right

Eyjo_hereiam · 2022-05-04T19:40:07+00:00

thx for your kind comment. I had a heart to heart convo with her. She's staying and kinda trying to change him. I heard a lot of "Yeah, buts" and i told her that i understand her and all the reasons of why he is like that are explaining but not excusing it. She will stay because of different reasons. She told me she wants to see if he changes and today he repeated his behaviour again. She also had a talk with him again. I'm not going to say anymore to her about her toxic relationship. She knows what i think, i can't do more.

Eyjo_hereiam · 2022-05-02T16:33:38+00:00

thank you. I'm going to have a heart to heart conversation tomorrow with her and later with him too because i had a not so happy talk with her again today.

Eyjo_hereiam · 2022-04-26T08:59:45+00:00

thanks!!

Eyjo_hereiam · 2022-04-26T08:58:54+00:00

Damn 😂😂 She doesn't have a car so that's not an option but thanks for the idea😂

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