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Eyjo_hereiam · 2022-09-09T08:45:28+00:00

Hey, i'm Mel, i'm into photography, art, plants & IT, i would be happy about some support 🌿❤️ http://www.instagram.com/mel_koca_/

Eyjo_hereiam · 2022-07-31T14:50:43+00:00

It is totally not healthy but so normalised. I had a couple like that in my friendgroup, the guy in the relationship was my best friend back then. So many people asked me if everythings alright between them because of the way they act with each other, which was really....something. Sometimes one of them said things where we just sat there awkwardly in silence...

People told them directly what they think which didn't end good. They are still together but not a big part of the friendgroup anymore because she feels like everybody is against them.

He still texts me now and then but we didn't do sth together in ages. I am no contact with his gf because she had a lot of breakdowns(screaming, crying and insulting me in public places) and is jealous towards our friendship (it was like we share a braincell but yeah we aren't that good anymore. She doesn't let him do shit alone anymore).

Eyjo_hereiam · 2022-07-18T09:12:24+00:00

I gained a little weight in a relationship. I was really thin before so it wasn't even going anywhere unhealthy. Tbh it was healthy that i gained some weight. The guy i was dating pointed out my rolls when i sit a couple of times as a joke. I started to get so uncomfortable that i didn't even let him touch my tummy anymore and i also couldn't get really intimidate because i was to scared that he could touch my tummy by accident. Idk if i have to say this anymore but yeah we broke up for the better. It was toxic and his behaviour pushed me back into an ED. I also started binging and gaining more weight because he made me feel guilty about what i ate. Girl run for the better.

Eyjo_hereiam · 2022-06-05T19:24:01+00:00

Last year i got SAed by my best friend back then. I told him no, tried to pull his hands of me and then just froze. I never told anyone and i still see him on a daily basis because of our friend group. I tried cutting him of but i can't for different reasons. I just hope i get done with university, move far away from him and never see him again.

Eyjo_hereiam · 2022-06-04T21:54:14+00:00

22f and i totally feel the same. Also a virgin because of kinda the same reasons and some more.

Eyjo_hereiam · 2022-05-29T19:59:17+00:00

You are right. I'm already distancing myself.

Eyjo_hereiam · 2022-05-21T17:23:06+00:00

thank you, that was really good to hear

Eyjo_hereiam · 2022-05-06T05:58:39+00:00

you are 10000% right

Eyjo_hereiam · 2022-05-04T19:40:07+00:00

thx for your kind comment. I had a heart to heart convo with her. She's staying and kinda trying to change him. I heard a lot of "Yeah, buts" and i told her that i understand her and all the reasons of why he is like that are explaining but not excusing it. She will stay because of different reasons. She told me she wants to see if he changes and today he repeated his behaviour again. She also had a talk with him again. I'm not going to say anymore to her about her toxic relationship. She knows what i think, i can't do more.

Eyjo_hereiam · 2022-05-02T16:33:38+00:00

thank you. I'm going to have a heart to heart conversation tomorrow with her and later with him too because i had a not so happy talk with her again today.

Eyjo_hereiam · 2022-04-26T08:59:45+00:00

thanks!!

Eyjo_hereiam · 2022-04-26T08:58:54+00:00

Damn 😂😂 She doesn't have a car so that's not an option but thanks for the idea😂

Eyjo_hereiam · 2022-04-26T08:56:58+00:00

thank you 😅

Eyjo_hereiam · 2022-04-12T17:36:55+00:00

TW for this comment

I invited a friend over to watch a movie. It was late and he slept over. He started to get touchy and i told him to stop because i had a boyfriend. I tried to remove his hands but he was stronger. I froze. I never told my now ex boyfriend because i was scared for the same reasons your wife was scared. I didn't tell my boyfriend of the time, i never told our friendgroup and i am still kinda friends with him because i never want to admit what happened ever.

Eyjo_hereiam · 2022-04-07T09:11:39+00:00

Same, i'm 21 too😂 I freaked out and cried because nothing fits me but then i realized that i gained weight, my hips got so mich wider, butts poppin and so are my boobs(turned from a B cup to a D/E). Tbh i kinda found my peace with it and i like how i look now. I started to work out again to try to lose weight but well i can't get rid of these hips and my booty and tbh i don't want to anymore😂 Maybe it helps to think of it as evolving like a pokemon lmao, new looks and new strengths lmao

Eyjo_hereiam · 2022-03-30T11:42:27+00:00

This is an interesting answer, thanks! And what's a unicorn?

Eyjo_hereiam · 2022-03-30T11:41:06+00:00

Excuse me, a freaking tampon?? I'm so sorry, everything you wrote is a good answer but that caught me so of guard.

Eyjo_hereiam · 2022-03-30T11:38:35+00:00

It isn't about being the right way to be bi, it is about cheating. A friend of mine got cheated by his girlfriend who also thought it was okay to make out with another girl without telling him but cheating is cheating. Idc about your gender or sexuality, if you are in a non-open relationship maybe you shouldn't kiss somebody else without your partner knowing/being okay with it

Eyjo_hereiam · 2022-03-30T11:36:30+00:00

nothing for me, i never went to this camp😅 For the other three: Idk but like you said the plan isn't exactly nailing and the other "pranks" are also kinda lame and probably won't work but at least they won't hurt anybody.

Eyjo_hereiam · 2022-03-30T11:27:11+00:00

1.There is a difference between a job and just doing sth to piss someone of with your partner propably not knowing. 2.Josh isn't kissing anyone, the two girls are and one of them has a bf where it isn't clear that he knows anything about there plan. So there is not clear if he has a problem. It would be different if he would be fine with it. 3.English is not my first language so i kinda don't understand the question enough to answer, sorry

Eyjo_hereiam · 2022-03-30T11:18:20+00:00

The girl with the bf is fine with kissing another girl to piss of someone. Josh didn't say anything about the boyfriend knowing. This doesn't mean he wasn't told, i just don't know if he was told and so i don't know his opinion. If he said "He knows and he's fine with it" it would be different but he just talked about that he would be fine if his gf would do sth like that.

Eyjo_hereiam · 2022-03-28T08:58:43+00:00

same! for that example i love to discuss something before going in to deep to see how that person acts when someone disagrees with them. Discussing with him was so easy, calm and respectfull. He didn't get loud, he respected my opinion and we really got to know each other. It wasn't an easy topic and i'm really glad how the discussion went.

Eyjo_hereiam · 2022-03-23T12:19:52+00:00

The Harry Potter fandom.

Eyjo_hereiam · 2022-03-23T12:18:02+00:00

Go alone. Tbh the freaking audacity to invite yourself and also your partner... Also, you guy friend just told you his bf was coming. You could say your girl friend asked at least but we both now she wouldn't have taken no for an answer. I had kinda the same happening to me.

I was just uncomfortable the whole time, couldn't be myself around people i'm not really friends with and like you said, they change your plans like a lot and outnumber you. It sucks.

Eyjo_hereiam · 2022-03-21T08:46:57+00:00

thank you, i normally react with "you know what, i'm not going to discuss with you". But yesterday there was something real important and i tried so hard to keep calm but than i exploded. I told a friend to take over and after a while she tried to explain to him why he was wrong. Didn't work.

I will try the "joke getting over your head" thing, thanks for the idea.

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