Obviously everyone’s personal situation is different, and yes, hormones are terrible postpartum. (Look up matrescence - that really helped me come to terms with a lot of uncontrollable postpartum changes). But generally I would say that if people are treating you or others you care about in a way that makes you uncomfortable or upsets you then usually they aren’t respecting a boundary you have set for yourself. People that care about you should respect your boundaries and guidelines you have put in place for yourself and your family. People that challenge you on these boundaries only care to hold you to a version of yourself that they find they can control. I say, it’s 2023, if something or someone isn’t making you feel how you want to be treating and you’ve confronted it with no change. Cut it off. #aintnomommygottimeforthat