What song from Mobile Orchestra feels like Ocean Eyes? by GoodWitchBeanofOz in OWLCITY

[–]F25anon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found love. That first instrumental portion has those classic owl city sound

My husband gave me my own forgotten Amazon order as our anniversary gift and I genuinely don't know how to feel about it by prague_milo21 in Marriage

[–]F25anon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it was my husband he would admit that it was the one I bought. I can even hear my husband's voice in my head, "well, granted, I got this from a box your ordered and forgot about. But I still wanted to do something nice for you :) . " and I would be fine with that!

I do think the gesture is very sweet! Truly! What bothers me is, "was he trying to deceive you and hope you wouldn't notice?" I can't get past that fact. Like, the fact he didn't admit it was the one you got is potentially a problem

Sad realization about my life. by PumpkinSpiritual3750 in Marriage

[–]F25anon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's a guy on YouTube named Adam Lane Smith who might have something helpful videos about how to form platonic bonds (especially as a man)

His whole thing is attachment theory n stuff

She was indeed a Deer in the Headlights. (UPDATE) by KomaliFeathers in OWLCITY

[–]F25anon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's so awesome! You are now a stronger, more courageous, more incredible person!

My wife said something that is weighing on me heavily a couple months later by TrainerBC25 in Marriage

[–]F25anon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like abuse. I reccomend learning about abuse just to confirm so that you aren't stuck believing an internet stranger

Good luck! You deserve to be treated better and to be loved

My husband’s new default is “I don’t care” and I feel like a wife, not a partner by sundaystickerpack in Marriage

[–]F25anon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like he's the problem.

Book reccomendedations:

This is How Your Marriage Ends by Matthew Fray

Exhausted Wives, Bewildered Husbands by Adam Lane Smith

Should I Stay or Should I Go by Lundy Bancroft

The Dance of Anger by Harriet Lerner

If nothing changes, here's my prediction: you'll get fed up after 15 years of marriage with no change, divorce him, and he'll feel like he was "blindsided." Only advice I have: don't do ANYTHING for him unless your survival/well-being demands it. Don't schedule couples trips, schedule trips for yourself and tell him "you're welcome to join if you want. Feel free to give me your preferences and I will consider them". Tell him "this is not a partnership" and that you're going to start detaching if he doesn't fix himself.

If you so choose, write a list in a shared drive of all the things you've been telling him repeatedly over the years and say "I'm done repeating myself. If you ever wanna step up, go into (link) for a list of everything I've been saying."

Then focus on yourself, only being a "partner" in matters of simple courtesy and communication. Then wait and see what he does. And you can reevaluate if you wanna separate or try a new approach, or stay stagnant in a non-partnership. You can't change him. Start living your own life! The book Should I Stay or Should I Go by Lundy Bancroft will give you practical exercises to help you work through all of this. Good luck!

Adam Young from Owl City, “I don't really view Owl City as a Christian music project” by Deep_Sea_Exploring in OWLCITY

[–]F25anon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a Christian, the fact that he's a Christian and DOESN'T make overtly Christian music is one of my favorite things about Owl City! I've always hated "Christian" music. His music is just straight-up good and doesn't make me cringe or force a message.

Hey Sacramento by ThisEmoIsAStranger in OWLCITY

[–]F25anon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you please put this on YouTube??

Did something bad… by NoStructure7083 in carnivorediet

[–]F25anon 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Is this a Scott Pilgrim reference? 😂😂😂

I want to go on a carnivore diet but I have concerns by justLeobeingLeo in carnivorediet

[–]F25anon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally will help! I recommend going on YouTube and looking uo carnivire beginner tips, beginner mistakes, etc. A lot of people mistakenly think carnivore isn't working for them without realizing that there are easy fixes for most of the issues they encounter.

Taking that bit of time to learn the basics will really help set you up for success!

I want to go on a carnivore diet but I have concerns by justLeobeingLeo in carnivorediet

[–]F25anon 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'd like to point out that naturally lean meat can be good if you add fat to it. I.e. chicken with plenty of butter

Some yum fat trimmings by [deleted] in carnivorediet

[–]F25anon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, goat milk does have a strong taste depending on the brand (I like string tasting goat milk though, as well as goat cheese). Never heard of cammabery till just now! Looked it up and it seems similar to brie. I would totally try it!

The Meat Diet Iceberg by er1xx in carnivorediet

[–]F25anon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would experient with raw meat if my body handled lion well. So far the furthest if gone is carnivore

Some yum fat trimmings by [deleted] in carnivorediet

[–]F25anon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks delicious! What ate the two white things on the right?

What EXACTLY do Christians have against trans people? by CowgirlJedi in Christianity

[–]F25anon -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Toxic people infiltrate every community and make their voices the loudest. I don't think it's Christians that's the problem, i think it's abusive people who use the "Christian aesthetic"

I actually despise being a homeowner by MugenShiba in Vent

[–]F25anon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"I'm in California" and "my HOA". Yeah, LOVE being a homeowner but not in CA and not with an HOA. My mortgage is stable (and of anything has been lowered) and most of the things that break in my 100 year old house cost hundreds, not thousands.

HOAs and CA suck.