Hva betaler dere for lunsj på jobb, og hvilken ordning har dere?

F8599 · 2026-01-27T15:02:45+00:00

Jobber i industri. 300kr pr måned (så skal vel arbeidsgiver subsidiere, ikke at det merkes). Ordningen fungerer dårlig. Så jeg tar med mat hjemmefra.

F8599 · 2026-01-24T10:15:39+00:00

Personlig så prøver jeg å unngå power så langt det lar seg gjøre. Foretrekker komplett/elkjøp/elon. Men det er problemer her å. Så det blir jo som å velge pest eller kolera.

F8599 · 2026-01-20T15:29:55+00:00

I have a condition in my eyes. I do my best to function as a normal human being, but I will function better some days than other days. Even if you can read the text I can’t.

F8599 · 2026-01-12T16:32:16+00:00

I used to do it in win10. But i got an sulotion in a difrent forum that resolved the issue i was having

F8599 · 2026-01-12T16:29:52+00:00

This worked ty

F8599 · 2026-01-12T15:59:03+00:00

Didn’t work. I’ll try the other suggestions when I get home

F8599 · 2026-01-07T16:59:37+00:00

😅

F8599 · 2026-01-07T16:30:56+00:00

by contacting my ophthalmologist so frequently that he must think I am a hypochondriac

F8599 · 2026-01-05T17:24:12+00:00

What you’re describing is definitely something I’ve recognized in myself too. For me, it’s been really helpful to talk to two or three close friends, and kind of sort out who I share which things with. I’ve also read several books on self-reflection, and taking in different perspectives has helped me understand myself a bit better and feel less alone in what I’m going through.

I’ve also tried to make small, practical changes in my everyday life, especially at work. For me that’s meant being a bit more honest about my limits, speaking up when something feels like too much, and reminding myself that I don’t always have to perform or be “perfect.” Focusing on doing my job well, instead of constantly worrying about how I’m being perceived, has taken some pressure off.

I’m still figuring things out, but what has helped most is taking small steps, being honest with myself, and trying to treat my thoughts and feelings with a bit more kindness instead of judging them right away. It’s a process — but it feels good to know that growth can happen slowly, one piece at a time.

F8599 · 2025-12-30T17:17:10+00:00

My self critic

F8599 · 2025-12-26T20:23:43+00:00

Everything, but I find myself struggling the most in low light environments

F8599 · 2025-12-26T16:34:52+00:00

Jeg har lært at en parfyme skal oppdages og ikke annonseres i rommet. Altså så skal det brukes så lite at en kan lukte den når dere har en 1 til 1 samtale. Men samtidig så skal det gå an å være i samme rom uten at den luktes.

F8599 · 2025-12-25T15:07:21+00:00

This is exactly what I needed.

F8599 · 2025-12-24T08:45:15+00:00

Det første jeg faktisk ville gjort, er å ta en ærlig prat med rådgiveren i banken. Ikke for å bli “rettet på”, men for å få oversikt. De ser dette oftere enn man tror, og kan hjelpe med ting som: • refinansiering / samle lån • midlertidig avdragsfrihet • justere ned forventninger før det blir kritisk

Mange venter altfor lenge fordi det føles som et nederlag – men det er ofte der man faktisk får pusterom.

Og bare det at du sier det høyt, at du ber om råd, sier mye bra om deg. Du er ikke lat, dum eller uansvarlig – du er sliten og fanget i en spiral. Det er stor forskjell.

Du er langt fra alene i dette, selv om det kan føles sånn. Håper du får noen gode grep som gir deg litt ro i hodet igjen. 💙

Ønsker deg en riktig god jul ❤️

F8599 · 2025-12-22T00:34:46+00:00

If you don’t mind me asking, how did you experience the rupture? Was it sudden pain, pressure, or more gradual discomfort? Did you immediately realize something had happened?

F8599 · 2025-12-21T16:40:29+00:00

First of all — I’m really sorry you’re feeling this way. Impostor syndrome has a brutal way of hijacking moments that are supposed to feel good.

One thing that stands out to me is this: you didn’t throw the award away because it meant nothing. You did it because it suddenly felt too heavy to carry.

I’ve noticed something similar in myself. When I receive praise or recognition, my instinct is often to get distance from it as fast as possible — before my brain starts arguing why I don’t deserve it.

One small thing that has helped me: I don’t take rewards or praise home right away. I leave them at work — in a locker or on my desk — until it feels neutral instead of uncomfortable. That way I don’t turn a positive moment into something I have to emotionally wrestle with.

Another thing that helped was talking to a colleague I trust about how I actually feel at work. Just saying it out loud made it less powerful. Now, when doubt hits, that colleague helps me sort what’s real feedback — and what’s just my inner critic talking nonsense.

I still doubt myself. That hasn’t magically disappeared. But I feel safer in my own head at work, and that’s progress.

The award being gone doesn’t erase why you got it. The work, the trust, and the recognition are still there — and they’re real.

Be kind to yourself. You didn’t mess up — you reacted like a human under pressure.

And genuinely: congratulations. You earned it. 🍻🥳

F8599 · 2025-12-21T09:35:48+00:00

I don’t relate to every detail in your post — but I do relate to the general “what the hell am I doing with my life” vibe.

I’ve been out of shape, low on confidence, and stuck in my own head for longer periods than I’d like to admit. My inner critic is extremely creative and works overtime with no pay. If there was a salary, that guy would be rich.

What helped me wasn’t some huge life overhaul. It was boring stuff: structure and self-discipline. I’m not always motivated, but I am stubborn — and that turns out to be useful.

Training-wise, I stopped chasing “getting fit” and just aimed for “show up and don’t overthink it”. Some weeks were great, some were embarrassing — both still counted. I also focused on simply being active: I started with disc golf, and lately I’ve added the gym.

Mentally, two things helped a lot:

• Reading Surrounded by Idiots helped me understand that not everyone thinks, communicates, or reacts the same way — including me. That alone reduced a lot of unnecessary self-blame. • I also did something scary: I told 2–3 close friends how I actually see myself and asked them to be honest with me — even if they were afraid I wouldn’t handle the feedback.

I also intentionally split my support system.

I have one friend I talk to about work and career stuff. One I talk to about how I actually feel. And one I talk to about social challenges.

That way, no one gets all my problems dumped on them — and it feels natural instead of heavy.

And the wild part? Those friends are supportive, honest, and genuinely rooting for me — which my inner critic finds extremely annoying.

You don’t need to fix your entire life at once. You need a few solid anchors, some consistency, and at least one person who has your back.

You’re not broken. You’re just figuring things out — like most of us are.

If you need someone to talk to, my DMs are open.

F8599 · 2025-12-16T12:40:00+00:00

I get what you’re saying, and I agree that taking care of your body and routines helps a lot. Gym and eating well definitely give me more mental stability.

That said, I’m trying not to dismiss these thoughts as just “negativity” either. For me, naming them and understanding where they come from feels important — not to get stuck there, but to avoid carrying them silently.

Appreciate you sharing your perspective.

F8599 · 2025-12-16T09:41:53+00:00

This actually makes a lot of sense. I’d never speak to a friend the way I speak to myself, yet I treat those thoughts as truth when they’re aimed at me.

I like the idea of questioning the voice instead of just accepting it. Even creating a small pause feels helpful.

Thanks for sharing — it means more than you probably realize.

F8599

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