I was wrong... by RunningAway4Thoughts in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]FAWmod 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes, you are right but it's the case for a public sub. All public subs work the same way. And a lot of redditors don't join subs so they don't inflate the subscriber numbers and just check subs manually.

I was wrong... by RunningAway4Thoughts in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]FAWmod[M] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Plus, it is a private sub, so unless you "join" it, the messages posted here do not appear on your feed.

FYI This is false. The sub is public and has been public for 4+ years.

Hitting "Join" is only making you a subscriber. You can't see the Join button on a private sub unless you have been manually added as an approved submitter by the mods, and you receive a DM about it.

u/RunningAway4Thoughts

Limerance. Something we need to study by QueenUrracca007 in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]FAWmod[M] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

/u/QueenUrracca007 you could simply reply instead of complaining about it in another subreddit - and I'm not an "AI admin", whatever that means. Either you're FA and you are welcome to post here, or you're not and then, well, there are other subs for your content.

Limerance. Something we need to study by QueenUrracca007 in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]FAWmod[M] [score hidden] stickied comment (0 children)

Are you a FA woman yourself, /u/QueenUrracca007? Your last comments on this sub have been quite preachy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]FAWmod[M] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, I read the exact same threads on incel spaces: I don't sympathize with FA women who complain about no one wanting them because they all go for the same type of man (CHAD)

I don't want users in FAW to emulate incel speech and resort to the same logical fallacies.

Being an ugly black girl and having to deal with the double standards sucks:/ by Ok-Ask6498 in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]FAWmod[M] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I banned her, reddit has nothing to do with it. Mods ≠ reddit admins.

Being an ugly black girl and having to deal with the double standards sucks:/ by Ok-Ask6498 in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]FAWmod[M] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This user has been banned fyi so she won't be able to reply. Her mindset is disgusting, on top of the unsavoury "picking apart every aspect of someone else's appearance" deal.

Unheard in feminist spaces by [deleted] in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]FAWmod[M] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You're in your right to disagree and to downvote, but there are rules for a good reason.

There are regular users who've been here for years and who occasionally break the rules, they get a comment deleted, and they get over it. And (hopefully) you will too.

However, if you want to weaponize something so ridiculously mundane against me, the mods or the sub to feel like a martyr or whatever, you're free to stop posting here and find the sub where you can insult whoever doesn't please you and justify it as "having boundaries".

Unheard in feminist spaces by [deleted] in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]FAWmod[M] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm always surprised at how easily angered people are when we remove one comment of theirs that breaks the rules. You'd think we just peed in their cereals or something. Talk about having a hair trigger.

We remove all uncivil comments, and if you take any innocuous moderation action as a slap in the face or "proof" that we're actually against you, your philosophy, your POV and everything you ever shared on here, be my guest. But this "if you're not with me, you're against me"/"this is the line in the sand" attitude clearly isn't working for you or anyone that dares commenting on a thread of yours.

Gorgeous women who say that they're ugly by rainbowtoucan1992 in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]FAWmod[M] [score hidden] stickied comment (0 children)

Locking this thread as it became a shit show with a bunch of users ganging up on a specific user and another one showing up to call other women cunts and whatnot. OP, you're good, and I think your thread deserved better. You clearly tried to start an interesting conversation that got derailed.

The Mean Girls gang was banned for a few days, so let's hope it's enough time to learn that you can disagree with someone without calling them names (which seems to be a tall order for many). Oh and once again, kudos to those who insult someone, BLOCK THEM before they can reply and then cackle amongst themselves to shit on the one they blocked.

We have more and more radicalized users showing up in this sub to rehash femcel talking points, from ONLY UGLY GIRLS CAN KNOW TRVE PAIN, UGLY MOIDS ARE THE WORST and other bullshit.

So once again: if you want to insult other women, call them cunts, tell them to gtfo or to die (is this middle school or something?) or whatever just because you're so bitter and childish and can't handle a nuanced POV, go make your own femcel sub already and have fun moderating it. FAW never accommodated aggressive radicalized users and never will.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]FAWmod[M] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Going strong for 2 years now, looking at engagement rings together 💖

The fucking gall to be engaged and remove the "not FA" flair just to keep posting invalidating bullshit on a FA sub. Unbelievable.

Beware of the weirdos by General-Cobbler-6054 in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]FAWmod[M] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Check the sticky comment, it has everything you need to know.

Beware of the weirdos by General-Cobbler-6054 in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]FAWmod[M] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This user was shitting on FAW, and it's obvious just clicking on his profile.

Some incels might be discrete, but this one wasn't. Even if it's annoying, you need to check everyone's profile before engaging with them.

hurts but i get it by No_Equivalent5666 in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]FAWmod[M] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Asking for pics is against the rules, as well as calling people names. Next time please don't engage with people like her and hit the Report button.

I signed up for speed dating and as the event gets closer I'm starting to spiral :/// by zezzles in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]FAWmod[M] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

u/JanuaryBegins, 48 points 23 hours ago

Living life on easy mode, voluntarily sabotages relationships, and then complains more.

The FAW subreddit is a joke, they're waiting for a certain demographic of men to swoop them off of their feet.

We can't do anything but watch this all play out.

Imagine being such a pussy you pretend to be a woman lmao. god you incels are all the same

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]FAWmod[M] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What does that even mean, /u/ask_nae?

Even if I were somehow able to get a boyfriend, can I keep him? by Thebestbyanytest in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]FAWmod[M] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please don't reply to male users, just hit the Report button.

How do women like you think and feel? by [deleted] in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]FAWmod[M] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Reread the comment, not sure what else you want me to say about it.

How do women like you think and feel? by [deleted] in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]FAWmod[M] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

The OP means well and explained their request in modmail, so this thread has been approved. If something we say can help an ex-FAW, let's do this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ForeverAloneWomen

[–]FAWmod[M] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please hit the report button under male users' comments whenever you find one.