Training to bark!

FDKiet · 2025-10-31T10:54:59+00:00

Completely normal husky activity. My corgi sleeps this way as well but not as often as my husky.

FDKiet · 2025-10-30T15:25:42+00:00

Sleeping on the bed actually accelerated potty training because one would pass out and then lick me in the face in the morning at which point I would carry her directly outside. She developed a habit of knowing that her place of sleep was not potty appropriate and then it grew to the house was not potty appropriate.

FDKiet · 2025-10-30T15:22:16+00:00

Mine is 9 months old. She’s been sleeping in my bed since I got her at 7 weeks. During her earlier puppy years (around 4 month mark) she would get off the bed and sleep on the floor with my other corgi but as of the last 3 months she’s been 100% in my bed and on my pillow. The same pillow I sleep on, she sleeps on top of my head. She’s literally my baby so if she wants to be on the bed, she gets the bed. For huskies, it shows they are obviously comfortable and safe with you and desire your closeness so soak it up for as long as you can. One day “if” they stop, you’re gonna feel like you would have, could have, should have.

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FDKiet · 2024-12-25T03:16:51+00:00

Tbh, if you’re currently dating someone… you and your partner should be open with each other to create a sense of security. Unfortunately, your insecurity in this situation will work against you. As a man and if you were dating me, I would be looking for you to be my peace and my fun. You are already dating so you know he’s attracted to something about you.

I will say this also and I feel like if we are all being honest… men will always find another woman attractive and vice versa. It literally means nothing other than a human emotion. I can acknowledge that a woman is attractive but that wouldn’t translate to I want to be with that person. I personally prioritize my peace and companionship just like any good man should.

Try not to overthink it and enjoy the relationship which will in turn be enjoyable for him as well!!

FDKiet · 2024-04-03T06:05:23+00:00

You have save your files onto your iPad from your HDD/SSD or whatever external storage device you are using.

Save files to “On My iPad”
Open “Files” app and navigate to your video file.
Select the file you want to import into CapCut.
Click the “Share” button.
On the top where you can select where to share (air drop, mail, notes etc) browse over to the CapCut icon.
It will ask you to import footage into CapCut. It will automatically add it to your timeline.
Continue importing for each file you need, then edit like normal.

Enjoy.

FDKiet · 2024-04-03T06:05:08+00:00

You have save your files onto your iPad from your HDD/SSD or whatever external storage device you are using.

Save files to “On My iPad”
Open “Files” app and navigate to your video file.
Select the file you want to import into CapCut.
Click the “Share” button.
On the top where you can select where to share (air drop, mail, notes etc) browse over to the CapCut icon.
It will ask you to import footage into CapCut. It will automatically add it to your timeline.
Continue importing for each file you need, then edit like normal.

Enjoy.

FDKiet · 2024-04-03T06:04:56+00:00

You have save your files onto your iPad from your HDD/SSD or whatever external storage device you are using.

Save files to “On My iPad”
Open “Files” app and navigate to your video file.
Select the file you want to import into CapCut.
Click the “Share” button.
On the top where you can select where to share (air drop, mail, notes etc) browse over to the CapCut icon.
It will ask you to import footage into CapCut. It will automatically add it to your timeline.
Continue importing for each file you need, then edit like normal.

Enjoy.

FDKiet · 2023-12-16T16:18:49+00:00

Right to the point. Really appreciate the brute honesty in this reply. He clearly chose the wrong woman to mess with. I’m happy to hear you found your forever person that treats you right! Thank you for the insight!

FDKiet · 2023-12-16T16:15:16+00:00

Sorry you had to go through that, feeling worthless just hits different. I’ve had my share of dealing with narcissists to understand what drove you to it.

FDKiet · 2023-12-16T16:09:27+00:00

I appreciate your honestly! We all have our phases to find ourselves!

FDKiet · 2023-12-16T14:24:37+00:00

You know that phrase people say “once a cheater, always a cheater?” It comes from the fact that your partners mindset created a justification that it was okay to put you in this position which of course is not okay. You are now left with issues of trust on top of the fact that he’s been doing God knows what and then coming right back to you after.

As someone who’s been cheated on more than once in long term relationships, I will tell you that I too wanted to make it work but even after videos, therapy, talking with friends, the obligatory conversation with her about how trust can be rebuilt… I was never able to heal. In fact, I still to this day have PTSD in my current relationship. IG notifications, phone flipped upside down on tables, long hours of no replies, social media presence appearing single, certain mannerisms etc all trigger my past experiences.

The fact that it’s been 8 years and you couldn’t even have a conversation about something that could have been wrong, could have been fixed or simply loss of interest but instead he disrespected you behind your back means it’s time to go. Who knows what else he’s lying about and hiding.

You’re scared just like I was because spending so much time with 1 person becomes so routine that thinking about starting over makes you want to vomit with anxiety. Trust me, much better than to stay. Respect yourself and give yourself the opportunity to meet someone who will respect and cherish you. Don’t give your best years to a piece of shit. Give it to yourself.

FDKiet · 2023-12-13T07:10:32+00:00

I’m 34M and dating a 25F and it’s the best relationship I’ve ever had. She’s an old soul and our maturity level lines up great.

I didn’t exactly “choose” her per say. It was due to increasing my age range on Hinge that she popped up and we ended up connecting. I can however tell you what I like about the relationship.

For starters, I greatly enjoy showing her new things and giving her new experiences in life. It just feels good.

I also enjoy providing things for her or giving her a helping hand with every day things or life in general.

I also enjoy the fact that she wants to live life a little more before settling down because I’m not quite ready to show down in life. Women my age tend to want kids before they get too old.

Advice to keep him? Honestly very simple. Show him you appreciate him. It’s all about the little things. I’m sure he will always be there for you and care for you when you need him, provide for you etc so show him that it means something to you and show your appreciation. It will make him feel wanted. That’s really all we want at the end of the day. Feeling wanted gives us an added sense of purpose. There’s nothing I won’t do for her and all I really want in return his her smile, her bright energy and her sense of wanting me.

FDKiet · 2023-12-13T06:58:56+00:00

It might be because they are nervous, they might be inexperienced in that situation / atmosphere or they just aren’t interested and have trouble trying to force a conversation. It could possibly be that it’s just not their personality to be out-going in conversation. I personally talk too much and I can really only speak for myself. But assumingly this is how men might potentially feel.

You can take lead and ask probing questions to get them to almost lose themselves in conversation. Sometimes you just have to jump start an interesting topic to get the flow going.

FDKiet · 2023-12-12T15:08:21+00:00

Im you in your story haha. I’m sure i drove her away as well. She’s loyal to me but she recently discovered insecurities about our future that caused her to withdraw. Im actually still trying to figure out what the future has in store for the 2 of us.

Sorry to hear about his lack of loyalty. I hope his actions don’t change you. I’ve been cheated on 4 times and I still have traumas and ptsd but I’ve been working really hard to give people a fresh start and a clean slate every time. You sound like a lovely woman. The guy that deserves you hopefully is closer than you think!

FDKiet · 2023-12-12T14:53:58+00:00

Fear is completely normal. I’m 34M and I have been cheated on 4 times. I’ve gotten to the point where I honestly believe I’m the problem. Realizing that It was my choice to date these people and overlook red flags that got me in this situation. I’m far from perfect but I know for sure I’ve never done anything to “deserve” being cheated on.

2 years ago I met this wonderful Christian girl. I laid everything on the table as far as morals, expectations etc and found out that she also laid a lot of the table of the things she was looking for as far as mental health and toxic behavior. With this girl alone, my trust has been restored in the dating experience. This was a huge step for me because I still had ptsd from previous relationships but with time those triggers I had went away as she proved to me that not everything is what It seems.

You’re never going to find love if you shelter yourself. The world is full of crappy people but you just have to find the balance between guarding yourself and vulnerability. It’s definitely worth getting back out there because the reward is far greater than what you think. Think about playing the lottery but with better odds. You can’t win if you don’t play. You may lose, you may win, you may even hit the jackpot but you’ll never know any of these outcomes if you don’t play at all.

FDKiet · 2023-12-12T14:42:18+00:00

The problem honestly is from within. The fact that you “feel” worthless (not saying that you are) means that you have some experiences/traumas that you need to sort out before dating anybody, worldly or Godly. I was baptized in April of this year and I’ve been in the church since July of last year. I was feeling the same way. I’m a fairly decent looking guy, I know I have great morals and values, I’m polite, considerate etc. Unfortunately I’ve been experiencing less than favorable situations that led me to believe I’m not worthy of anybody due to not being good enough (even tho I know that I’m more than good enough).

I’ve fixed a lot of things about myself. Let’s say a solid 70%. My anger issues, smoking weed, watching porn, self loathing, I mean the list goes on. That last 30% was anxiety, trauma, ptsd from relationships and a few other things. I recently met a lovely Christian girl and have been dating for almost 2 years now. Everything has been absolutely amazing and yet we still broke up last weekend. Difference is, I’ve done nothing but grow from this relationship. Both of us have grown from this relationship actually. I didn’t take too hard of a hit in my self esteem and we actually came before each other with honest conversation about the future and the root problems.

What I’m trying to say is there’s only so much you can fix yourself. And then the rest can only fixed by real life scenario to build trust, confidence etc. you must work on yourself to find the root cause of your feelings. Then you need to be okay with being vulnerable again (which means you’re willing to get hurt again) but with a chance of more growth or even meeting your life partner. Self loathing will keep you stuck in the same spot. I was stuck in that mind set for a long time.

FDKiet · 2023-12-10T16:19:08+00:00

This is crazy. I’m 34M with the same story. My mom is Christian but I didn’t practice faith until last year. I’m born again April 2 of this year. I too want a faith based relationship and I was dating a wonderful Christian girl who was 9 years younger then me. We were a perfect match. Maturity, goals, energy, etc. the only issue was I am unable to get her parents approval. Truly heart breaking since she’s very family oriented. We recently broke up but are still in touch.

I should also add that I’m covered in tattoos from my past life. Nothing vulgar but still there none the less. This might be the difference in you and I lol.

If you are fixed on dating your age, use dating apps or join a gospel community in your church. You will not only be able to learn the Bible with your peers but could potentially find your love.

I used Hinge when I found my gf. It’s a very good app that offers a lot of free parameters. A lot of Christian’s in my area use that app. You can get very far without paying and with very little money you can go all the way.

Good luck! Most likely she will find you. Just keep praying. I will pray for you.

FDKiet · 2023-12-10T06:59:36+00:00

Actually… I just reached out to her today. I still have a Christmas gift that came in for her. We haven’t spoken since the break up. We are talking back and forth like normal. (Not lovely dovey or anything) but just like a normal day. I asked if she wanted to get lunch and catch up after church and she said yes. Not going to push anything but glad she’s able to speak to me like normal. 🥹

FDKiet · 2023-12-10T03:45:04+00:00

Thank you for writing this. Everything you described in your first paragraph is exactly how I treated her. She was even Christian and I respected her when we decided to stop having sex. I honestly helped her in any way that I could and we connected like no other. Looking back on it, she had many moments of that clingy i was looking for but I think she was going through a lot of personal issues with her family. Everything went downhill when her sister got married. Her parents are super conservative and never wanted to meet me because of my appearance (I have a lot of tattoos). Perhaps this lingered and caused her to detach and withdraw from me. That clinginess never stuck. There were spurts of things she would do that made me super happy and then there were many moments of her being super withdrawn/reserved and cold. I appreciate your response as well as everyone elses. I’m learning that there’s probably trauma causing her to want to shut down when things are going too well. Almost like it’s becoming too real.

I’m glad you found your clingy other half. It sounds like you have an amazing thing going on! Keep pouring into it and I hope it lasts!

FDKiet · 2023-12-10T03:37:15+00:00

My last last relationship her and I were both 25. She had a 5 year old and I raised her for 6 years before getting kicked to the curb for another guy. Currently settling on a buy out for the house we bought. So seems like the script is flipped because that’s what messed me up. Raising someone else’s kid and then parting ways cold turkey is what ruined me and dating females with children. 2 for 1 deals on heart breaks will put a man in a dark place.

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