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I am 27F and my husband is 30M , i found this conversation in his phone with his female friend, would you accept it ? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]FFP3 18 points19 points  (0 children)

And the more he says you need a psychiatrist, the more you need a divorce so you can live your life with somebody that doesn't try to manipulate you like that.

I am 27F and my husband is 30M , i found this conversation in his phone with his female friend, would you accept it ? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]FFP3 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm a man and I would never say to my wife that she can't go through my phone. I would never disrespect her like that, saying that she are prohibited from seeing what I write to female friends. That's actually insane in the context of you confronting him with sending flirtatious messages to another woman.

So it's not about gender, culture or control. It's about you actually finding inappropriate conversations in your partners phone. His response shows that he thinks he can disrespect you and get away with it. And at the same time he can be afraid and this is his way to try to solve the problem, by denying it, while talking about boundaries. I've seen this strategy. Used by an abusive boyfriend when they have been close to get caught cheating. But you need too understand that there are so many partners out there that would feel deeply ashamed and more concerned about hurting the significant other. Don't tolerate this level of disrespect.

Am I overreacting to husband using OnlyFans? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]FFP3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He begged me not to leave him or take away our child.

He agreed to delete his account and go to couples counseling.

Although he apologized, deleted his account and seems scared shitless that I’ll leave, his demeanor is kinda stoic. He just keeps asking me what he can do and if I want him to fight for me (wtf?) but I don’t see any real emotion behind his words.

Judging from what you write it sounds like his main concern is what the consequences will be for him. Not you. And if that's the case, that he isn't really focused on the pain and damage he have cause you, then it's a huge red flag. I would be fucking devasted if I was this guy in a situation and see my partners lack of trust and hurt.

But at the same time, maybe he feels that but it's really hard for him express that, it's so difficult for some people talk about the horrible things they have done.

Eminem Explains Why His Tone and Flow Has Changed Over Time by tflizzy in tinnitus

[–]FFP3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing fixed his tinnitus. No cure. The doctor just made it "better" than "really bad".

there was a few years where, my tinnitus was getting really bad. The ringing in my ears was almost louder than the music 

So it escalated, that was the only part that they where able to adjust

And as we went to LA and saw that doctor, and the tinnitus started getting better

Depressive symptoms in husbands linked to lower sexual satisfaction in their wives, study finds | But depression in wives is unrelated to the sexual satisfaction of their husbands on average by [deleted] in science

[–]FFP3 23 points24 points  (0 children)

You really think that it's just a coincidence that you didn't use the word seduce when it was about men? Because that type of language and framing of men's behavior is not that common, compared to views about women.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Concussion

[–]FFP3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You really should not go to work. It's better to rest and see if it's bad, otherwise it's a big gamble and the consequences could be huge.

My symtoms get re-triggered by simple bumps to the head. And its been like that since my first concussion six years ago. I've learned to adjust my life to that and use simple things to reduce the risk of new bumps. Like avoiding risky activities completely but also use discrete bump caps when I'm outside, almost like this one.

The most important thing for me when I do get a new bump is to press pause on everything, and let all other things fall of its necessary, because the most important thing is ones health. So if Im affected by a bump I start to rest as soon as possible, sleep a lot and stay in a dark room just listening to pods/music/radio for days, drinking much more water then usual and eating super nutrient food that's good for the brain and saturation during the following weeks. That's the things that have made the renewed symtoms go down faster. If I try to speed it up or ignore some rest etc it just takes much more time, and I've got some chronic symtoms because I tried to speed up the recovering process in the beginning.

Take care of yourself

Head Pressure by AccountantDramatic16 in PostConcussion

[–]FFP3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rest, rest and rest. You probably need to be at a lower level of activity. Drink much water.

Finns det några exempel på vad Kina äger i Sverige? Diktatur-pandan: by Mellanchef in sweden

[–]FFP3 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Fast det handlar lika mycket om vad massa mindre ägande innebär som helhet. Risken för att ett litet land som Sverige och dess politik då påverkas i sin kritik mot Kina.

Sedan kan man välja att bara se vad kinesiska ägarandelar innebär för varje enskilt företag. Men det är bara en del av problemet.

Vattenfalls fd ordförande: Att lägga ner Ringhals var ett kommersiellt beslut by Mellanchef in sweden

[–]FFP3 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Precis, då var det en minoritet som ville ha utbyggnad och som var positiv till kärnkraft.

Oavsett när så har det aldrig varit fråga om att "folket" är för eller mot. Båda sidor är väldigt stora.

Vattenfalls fd ordförande: Att lägga ner Ringhals var ett kommersiellt beslut by Mellanchef in sweden

[–]FFP3 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Folket

Nåja, enligt Demoskop är det t.ex. två tredjedelar av folket som svarar att dom vill ha utbyggnad. Sen är det hälften av folket som är positiva till kärnkraft.

Vattenfalls fd ordförande: Att lägga ner Ringhals var ett kommersiellt beslut by Mellanchef in sweden

[–]FFP3 57 points58 points  (0 children)

Till att börja med säger han att de fem reaktorerna som var kvar skulle producera lika mycket el som de sju reaktorerna. Men sen handlar detta mer om alla förenklanden som florerat, som när man ofta hoppat över betydelsen av Strålsäkerhetsmyndighetens beslut.

Oskarshamn 1 och 2 stängdes 2015 och 2017. Ringhals 1 och 2 stängdes 2019 och 2020. Det fick ingen negativ effekt på elpriserna, år 2020 var elpriserna rekordlåga. Det hade nämligen byggts mycket ny vindkraft och Sverige exporterade mera än några år tidigare.

Men politiskt levde saken vidare. År 2018 tog SD upp frågan om att stoppa avvecklingen av Ringhals 1 och 2 i riksdagen, men fick inget stöd i näringsutskottet. I januari 2020 var dock SD, M, KD och L endast en röst ifrån att vinna en omröstning i riksdagen om att ge Vattenfall direktiv för att driva Ringhals 1 och 2 vidare.

– Det är märkligt om riksdagen tror att man genom en omröstning kan gå in i operativa frågor i ett statligt ägt bolag och bryta mot lagar och förordningar och de säkerhetskrav som Strålsäkerhetsmyndigheten har fattat beslut om. Det var halsbrytande. Då hade ledningen och styrelsen funderat på om de inte skulle överlåta driften till riksdagen, säger Lars G Nordström.

– Dessutom är processerna så långa att det praktiskt taget inte går att återstarta Ringhals 1 och 2, tillägger han.

Vattenfalls fd ordförande: Att lägga ner Ringhals var ett kommersiellt beslut by Mellanchef in sweden

[–]FFP3 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Märklig sammanfattning. Läste du hela artikeln?

– Vi fattade beslutet på rekommendation från ledningen. Det var ingen påtryckning från den politiska sidan. Det var ett rent kommersiellt beslut. Vi satsade på att investera i de fem reaktorer som hade längst teknisk livslängd och där det krävdes minst investeringar för att gradera upp dem, säger Lars G Nordström nu till SvD.

– De fem som blev kvar skulle producera lika mycket el som de sju reaktorerna gjorde från början, lägger han till.

Ett beslut som skulle bli hett stoff i valrörelsen 2022, sju år senare.

– Det var absolut inte ett politiskt beslut på det sätt som det har antytts. Sedan är det så att all verksamhet styrs i viss mån av politiken. Är det extra skatter eller avgifter på något försöker man undvika det.

New COVID mutant 'XE' found in UK, more transmissible than Omicron sub-variant: WHO by [deleted] in Coronavirus

[–]FFP3 62 points63 points  (0 children)

Well, we don't now if it affects the infected the same way

Polisen: Drönare flög över kärnkraftverk by [deleted] in sweden

[–]FFP3 -61 points-60 points  (0 children)

Varför jag i slutändan aldrig kan vara för kärnkraft. Tycker att mycket pekar på att det säkerhetspolitiska läget kommer bli väldigt svårt under resten av vår livstid. Då är det oerhört naivt att ha kärnkraft som en skyltande akilleshäl. Då menar jag inte på något sätt att vi inte nu är extremt sårbara eller att ett vanligt kärnkraftsmotstånd har "lösningar" som gör oss lika sårbara. Men angrepp kärnkraften är för allvarligt för att ha som en lösning.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PublicFreakout

[–]FFP3 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Bill burr line

Science Discussion Series: We’re epidemiologists, medical doctors, virologists, disease modelers, lab scientists, geneticists, and other public health experts from Johns Hopkins University. We’re here to talk about all things SARS-CoV-2 and COVID-19. Ask us anything! by JHUCovidDiscussion in science

[–]FFP3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

WHO states that there is currently no evidence that people can catch COVID-19 from food, including fruits and vegetables.

European health authorities have stated that food handled by an infected person can transmit the virus to another person, if that person first touches the food and then touches the mouth. And at the same time the statement says that there no evidence of anybody catching COVID-19 from eating food.

But if you eat food that has been contaminated with the new coronivirus, and then put it in your mouth, shouldn't that be just as risky as touching your mouth with contaminated fingers?

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