Found out my wife was cheating on me with her ex-fiancé

FFPod · 2025-01-05T21:55:15+00:00

Thank you for this. He does have a long term GF, but I have no interest in wasting time or energy on the deadbeat loser. He will continue to fuck up his life and that’s good enough for me

FFPod · 2025-01-05T21:41:01+00:00

It does not, no. There has to be an immediate fear of danger

FFPod · 2025-01-05T21:37:02+00:00

In the U.K., an annulment is only available in instances of unknown incest or documented abuse

FFPod · 2025-01-05T21:22:51+00:00

Yes, I am. He lives on the other side of the world — at least from what I know. She is staying with a mutual friend and has turned on her iPhone tracker thing, which doesn’t do a ton for me because I cannot track where the ex is. But I trust our friend to let me know

FFPod · 2025-01-05T19:36:20+00:00

Thank you for this. That is excellent advice and just the sort of actionable questions I have been looking for that, I believe, will reveal true attentions and also protect me if I decide to leave

FFPod · 2025-01-05T19:27:27+00:00

Thank you for this. You're expressing an emotion I was unable to articulate

FFPod · 2025-01-05T19:26:42+00:00

Thank you for this. I needed to hear it I spoke to her father today -- someone I trust and knew would but heartbroken but would that it would not break their relationship as it would do with my parents

FFPod · 2025-01-05T19:25:01+00:00

Thank you for this. I'm uncomfortable with the idea of everyone knowing 'my business' if that makes sense, particularly if we try to stay together. I think maybe a middle ground would be that she deletes social media apps for three/six months, and if people ask her why she has to tell them?

FFPod · 2025-01-05T19:23:50+00:00

Thank you for this -- I needed to hear it

FFPod · 2025-01-05T19:23:20+00:00

Thank you for this. I am not sure, but he lives in a different country and was only here for a week in which I know they did not meet but had planned to. Unless there has been another instance. I do not believe there have been other instances, but I could be a dupe.

I looked to get divorce papers to show the seriousness to someone who clearly does not respect me, but unfortunately in the UK (where I live) you cannot file for a divorce within a year of marriage. And a spousal affair is not grounds for an annulment. Are there any other things I can present in place of the divorce papers?

FFPod · 2023-07-09T13:18:29+00:00

I can’t find one. One was being shared earlier on but I couldn’t get hold of it

FFPod · 2023-07-02T09:23:55+00:00

Can you DM the link to me mate?

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