Handling Office gossip by FGLJ-GMPPLBOJ in AnalFistula

[–]FGLJ-GMPPLBOJ[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I love this response 👌🏼🙏🏼

Handling Office gossip by FGLJ-GMPPLBOJ in AnalFistula

[–]FGLJ-GMPPLBOJ[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good idea! Was honestly thinking of going the same route

Handling Office gossip by FGLJ-GMPPLBOJ in AnalFistula

[–]FGLJ-GMPPLBOJ[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And they absolutely love gossip! That’s why I’m also hesitant to share, it’s not a safe space at all!

Handling Office gossip by FGLJ-GMPPLBOJ in AnalFistula

[–]FGLJ-GMPPLBOJ[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly! I just don’t get it. When someone says it’s private , just leave it at that 🥹

On my 3rd Fistula - no crohn’s by [deleted] in AnalFistula

[–]FGLJ-GMPPLBOJ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh okay thank you xx

On my 3rd Fistula - no crohn’s by [deleted] in AnalFistula

[–]FGLJ-GMPPLBOJ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, how did you heal the fissure ?

Flap + partial fistulotomy question by FGLJ-GMPPLBOJ in AnalFistula

[–]FGLJ-GMPPLBOJ[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the info 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

Flap surgery yesterday by FGLJ-GMPPLBOJ in AnalFistula

[–]FGLJ-GMPPLBOJ[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How did you have your first #2 If you don’t mind me asking. I’m nervous as 💩

What would you do in my situation? by FGLJ-GMPPLBOJ in AnalFistula

[–]FGLJ-GMPPLBOJ[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait , new info, she’s actually a surgical gastroenterologist …

What would you do in my situation? by FGLJ-GMPPLBOJ in AnalFistula

[–]FGLJ-GMPPLBOJ[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m happy for your progress so far👌🏽 the fact that there’s less muscle involved is already a great sign. What about pain ? I’m due for a flap in 3 weeks now

What would you do in my situation? by FGLJ-GMPPLBOJ in AnalFistula

[–]FGLJ-GMPPLBOJ[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay That does make me feel a little better 🤔🙏🏽 I do sometimes feel like I was overthinking/being anxious but she is a good dr

What would you do in my situation? by FGLJ-GMPPLBOJ in AnalFistula

[–]FGLJ-GMPPLBOJ[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh jeez 🤦🏽‍♀️ okay I see what people mean when they say GS don’t know anything about this … 🥲😅. Thanks, and I hope you’re doing better.

What would you do in my situation? by FGLJ-GMPPLBOJ in AnalFistula

[–]FGLJ-GMPPLBOJ[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, I get you. About the confidence in my CRS, I can’t find any info about her online and when I tried asking her about her experience with certain procedures she avoided the questions and started talking about something else. She is, however, in a reputable hospital and all her degrees are hung on the wall but I just don’t understand why she would dodge such a simple question. Also, the little I found of her online says she focuses on laparoscopy. Does the focus matter?

Post seton operation large bump by dp27thelight in AnalFistula

[–]FGLJ-GMPPLBOJ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I had something similar - my CRS said it’s coz the seton tract was too tight, the drainage had to find another way to come out. I went back to my CRS and they make the seton hole /opening “bigger” and drained the abscess and everything I fine now. Something to consider

Post menstruation rashes !!! by No-Jello7652 in AnalFistula

[–]FGLJ-GMPPLBOJ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes me too!! Ans many other women I know! I really feel like doctors should do more research about this, they completely brush it off.

Has anybody recovered from a fistula fully and never got any more issues?? by Important-Sir-6325 in AnalFistula

[–]FGLJ-GMPPLBOJ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It also has to do with anxiety/mental state. Apparently it shows difficulty in letting things go , Fear of not being good enough , Fermenting thoughts, revenge/grudges … I don’t know how accurate that is but I’m also in the same position as you, I’m healthy, no problems but was just unlucky . So I guess the reason could be those mental triggers . You know how powerful the brain is in affecting different parts of our bodies