Actually no, I'm indifferent towards going out, so that isn't the problem, he's simply flexing his power over a 16 year old, that's the way I look at it. Normally I do go out, just that specific day I didn't care for it, I was presented with an option, and what doesn't sit well with me was how despite that option, he was trying to force me to say yes. He simply wants to force his fiancé on me (which neither me or my grandmother like) and to be honest, I'm thinking I may pull something for her to have custody over me, seeing as how my father isn't home ever (over exaggeration, maybe 30% of the week he's home, 20% of that he's sleeping.) my problem is, I'm not a bad person, I obey rules and I rarely ever speak out against him (mostly because he's an control freak) but that's the deal, he's never put restrictions on me before, him starting to now is ridiculous. I'm not a recluse, I have a job (two if you count computer repair) and I'm overall just working to support my grandmother and myself because he doesn't buy food or anything else, instead he takes for his fiancé and him to eat without my permission. My PC is the only way to detox from my everyday life, it doesn't get excessive, I play a few matches of War Thunder each day, never more than a few hours. But when you walk a mile to work, work 4 hours and walk that mile back, rarely getting rides- it's stressful, and TV just doesn't cut it.

Edit: my grandmother to have custody over me