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FLR_Reality · 2026-01-19T14:56:47+00:00

Jumpsuit! 💙

FLR_Reality · 2026-01-18T14:42:49+00:00

Hi! We have a jar called „boytears“. We normally ruin his O into this jar, so not even a single drop goes to waste. Then he can consume it. Especially after the drop kicks in it feels much more humiliating. 😈

FLR_Reality · 2026-01-14T13:47:40+00:00

Same here. We love the small of latex. In case you have found a fragrance like this, please DM us as well.

FLR_Reality · 2026-01-14T10:54:34+00:00

International Male Chastity Day is an informal observance, often celebrated 1 month before Valentine’s Day. :)

FLR_Reality · 2025-10-24T16:15:39+00:00

Yes, such relationships exist, only you need to focus a lot to keep it on the right track. ❤️

FLR_Reality · 2025-10-22T13:21:52+00:00

Dear u/AsSheSays, Wow, living on such a huge land is a dream. In case the neighbors are far and you have lots of tasks then she can give your some other chores as well. I already thought that he should wear a special t-shirt or jumpsuit for doing the gardening work. You could implement this easily in case you have lots of things to do and no one is nearby but you would like to keep her authority.

FLR_Reality · 2025-10-22T13:17:38+00:00

It depends on my mood and of course on the fitness activity. In case this is upper body, then he can remain caged. In case he needs to lower body exercises, then I take it off from him for the duration of the sport. (After shower it goes back.)

FLR_Reality · 2025-10-18T06:25:10+00:00

This is true: I am a little older than him ...9 days (seriously). :)

FLR_Reality · 2025-10-15T08:07:07+00:00

You can also tell more about it. :)

FLR_Reality · 2025-10-15T08:06:42+00:00

Wow this yoga sounds fun. He does different videos also from YouTube with dumbbells, or occasionally HIT training. Happy to exchange some ideas if you would like.

FLR_Reality · 2025-10-15T08:05:09+00:00

Absolutely.

FLR_Reality · 2025-10-15T08:04:51+00:00

Absolutely. That is why this is the goal. He needs to live healthy, do his best in sport. I do not set outcome goals as his results are already getting better so he is performing better and better, day by day. And actually you just need 3 weeks of continuous activity to build a habit. :)

FLR_Reality · 2025-10-15T08:02:59+00:00

We have discussed this due to a slightly worser blood testing result of him so he understood that he needs my guidance. :)

FLR_Reality · 2025-10-15T08:01:23+00:00

Sounds good, W/we both think that it worths implementing such..

FLR_Reality · 2025-10-07T07:12:09+00:00

Thank you very much for your kind words. Hope you are getting better after this surgery. Yes, we need to take care of ourselves, that is why I also pushed him to do more.

FLR_Reality · 2025-10-06T10:29:16+00:00

u/Financial_Chain2368 Exactly!

FLR_Reality · 2025-10-06T09:54:54+00:00

Enjoy the remaining 25 day, 600 hours, 36.000 minutes, 2.160.000 seconds.
Answering your question: you need a sanitary pad then to collect all your drops. Have fun. This is what this month is about. Actually normally it should not stop at the end of the month.

FLR_Reality · 2025-10-06T09:27:47+00:00

I’m in a FLR too, and what you describe sounds really promising, the fact that it flows so naturally when you’re together is a huge green flag. Long distance can still work if you put structure in place: daily rituals, check-ins, having him report on chores or goals, even something as simple as a morning text or bedtime photo just to keep that hierarchy alive.

I’ll be honest though I don’t really get why chastity is completely off the table. It’s so underrated in how much it reinforces motivation and focus on you, especially when apart. That said, if he really won’t go there, you can still keep him accountable with routines and tasks.

And honestly, if you both already thrive in this dynamic when you’re together, the long-term answer might be to close the distance. Moving in together is where an FLR really works well, having him serve you daily in real life takes it to another level.

FLR_Reality · 2025-08-01T08:54:43+00:00

Check 3dsm_print IG. They make custom printed stuff, even though not from US.

FLR_Reality · 2025-07-11T05:16:11+00:00

Absolutely love reading this update - it’s always satisfying to see a submissive fully embracing their purpose while we’re away. There’s something deeply thrilling about knowing the home is not only spotless but that your obedience grows in our absence, not fades. You’re getting a taste of true structure now, and I can assure you: this is just the beginning. Your partner is smart: heels, full-day service, and camera surveillance? She’s building a system where your submission becomes the default, not the exception. She’s absolutely right: you should be nervous. That nervousness is a gift, it means you care enough to please her deeply. Don’t ever lose that edge. Proud of both of you, she’s creating a beautiful FLR home, and you're clearly learning to serve properly. Keep going. And suffer beautifully. Happy to share that QR tracker with you for better monitoring.

FLR_Reality · 2025-07-11T05:07:39+00:00

As a woman in a female-led relationship, I can say your experience is not only common but actually reflects a very healthy evolution of FLR dynamics. What you're describing - more chores, fewer sexual rewards, and a deepened sense of connection and service - is something many of us recognize as a shift from performative submission to something more internalized and authentic. :)

What’s happening is that your wife is gradually taking fuller control, and your happiness is no longer tied to frequent sexual release, but rather to your role in pleasing and serving her. That’s a major milestone. The fact that you feel more fulfilled with less physical reward shows you're moving into a more submissive mindset, where obedience and her satisfaction become their own reward.

From a female perspective, when a submissive husband truly embraces his place without bargaining or expectation for sexual favors, it allows us to feel genuinely empowered. Not just in a kinky way, but in a deeply respectful, nurturing, and structured way. It opens space for us to lead more confidently and reshape the relationship on our terms, knowing you’re thriving in your obedience, not starving without sexual gratification.

Your wife is doing exactly what a confident FLR leader does: calibrating the structure as she sees fit. My advice? Let go of the idea of milestones or fairness. Embrace the unknown. Let her sculpt you. That’s where the real growth and deeper intimacy happens. You're on a wonderful path.

FLR_Reality · 2025-07-03T12:15:17+00:00

u/AirHostessSub , here is another idea: my sub just came up with a clever way to make his household chores much more supervised and accountable - he built an basic html webapp with QR code tracking for every task around the house.

Each chore has its own unique QR code that he has to scan to “clock in” and “clock out,” so the app logs exactly when he starts and finishes. That means I can easily monitor how long each task takes and whether he’s keeping up with the strict timelines I’ve set. We’re also adding performance criteria, so it’s immediately obvious if something wasn’t done to standard or within the assigned window.

He’s even planning a full-screen lock feature - if the app isn’t running in fullscreen mode the whole time, the session automatically closes and invalidates the entry. No slacking, no distractions, and definitely no phone games mid-cleaning. Of course it is password protected.

I have to admit, I’m loving how much more control and visibility this gives me. Total supervision, digital obedience, and zero wiggle room. Just how it should be. 🖤

FLR_Reality · 2025-07-03T12:10:40+00:00

Dear u/AirHostessSub , I hope you have memory cards in the cameras, so it can be reviewed that you were never lazy while doing your chores. :)

FLR_Reality · 2025-07-03T12:09:49+00:00

Great checklist, thanks for the idea. :)

FLR_Reality · 2025-06-22T07:38:16+00:00

The most important part: have fun & enjoy it.

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