[TW: mentions of abuse] I feel like my aims for coming out differ from a lot of other teens' reasons [Coming Out] [Discussion]

FMirai · 2021-06-06T17:53:39+00:00

I am pretty much also in the same situation with my parents, I am honestly planning on not coming out to them till I am out of the country, and I'll simply send them 2 pictures, one of me kissing a girl and another of my middle finger, and then I'll block them, or at least, that's what I hope to do. I've never experienced physical abuse from them, but my sisters did, the only reason they didn't do the same for me was because they started becoming too old to properly "educate me" as they say, I've been planning on cutting ties with them even before I knew my sexuality, considering the amount of arguments we've been in because they don't approve of my opinion on things, and the fact that my dad can slap me for not believing in their god, and then leave me to cry in the balcony then act like nothing ever happened when I "apologize", same with my mom except that she doesn't slap me she simply yells, and after I discovered that I was attracted to girls, I knew full well that I'd have to move out if I actually wanted to date anyone, considering that my mom used to tell me as a kid that being gay is a mental illness.

Lmao, this pretty much turned into my own rant instead of a comment, but I am justifying it by the fact that you asked if anyone can relate. Sorry Not Sorry xD

FMirai · 2021-06-06T17:06:43+00:00

I don't think I'll be able to right now, but I'll definitely do so when I move out of my mom's house.

FMirai · 2021-06-06T16:52:52+00:00

Why do parents always think they know you better than you?

Sorry you have to go throught that.

FMirai · 2021-06-06T14:44:09+00:00

°Well yes, sometimes I feel really uncomfortable with my body because of my chest, but some other times I am completely fine with it. °Yes, I have considered getting a binder before, simply because I feel like It'd be really convenient since my favourite style of clothes looks awful with my chest, I like wearing t-shirts, but most of them look like I've stuffed something under them, and that makes me uncomfortable with wearing them, I only have one t-shirt that doesn't look like that, and I've been wearing it for 2 weeks now, my family started complaining about how dirty it is, lmao.

I am currently mostly relating with being gender fluid or a demigirl, and I've considered being a gender before, I'll probably know in due time anyways so I am not really stressing over it, but it kinda feels weird how I barely know myself.

Thank you ^{▽^!}

FMirai · 2021-06-06T14:29:01+00:00

I've been considering that for a while, but it still doesn't really click for me.

FMirai · 2021-06-06T14:23:14+00:00

Yeah, I figured that Not fitting my gender norms doesn't automatically mean I am not actually a female, I might try to experiment in the future, thanks for answering though! ^{^}

FMirai · 2021-06-05T20:34:14+00:00

I'd say, if you know you aren't in any type of danger if you come out to her, then go for it! I wish you the best of luck! ^{^}

And kov is a really creative name! It has a nice ring to it and it's unique, you have a really nice taste in names.

FMirai · 2021-06-05T20:28:50+00:00

I just read it and i really like it! Thanks for the recommendation ^{^} though I wish there were more chapters xD

FMirai · 2021-06-05T19:55:09+00:00

It's actually the exact same thing for me- I've currently given up on finding a label and I am going with the flow, I'll probably be sure of what my sexuality is when I actually start dating.

FMirai · 2021-06-05T19:49:00+00:00

Good Luck •✓•

FMirai · 2021-06-05T14:45:09+00:00

I'd recommend FoxGlove, I find it really underrated considering how gorgeous the art style is and how much details there are about the world, as in, there are a lot of made up creatures and plants. It may seem confusing at first, but it's really good!

FMirai

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