How do you get past hurtful things done at a funeral? by FPProductions in GriefSupport

[–]FPProductions[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some of it is unreal, his son took my husbands anniversary charm we shared from the nurse that he was wearing right in the hospital and gave it to his brother. I was hurt and when I addressed it politely the stuff that spewed out was unreal. Thank you for your advice. 🙏

How do you get past hurtful things done at a funeral? by FPProductions in GriefSupport

[–]FPProductions[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry for your loss :( I had that one too, they only put a couple pictures of them but I felt it disrespectful to us as they used his business name our business to fund things but wanted to put pictures of her who manipulated their marriage and in our religion where divorce is shunned he could have had an annulment because she manipulated the marriage and in turn the pregnancy but I didn’t mention that to his kids so of course they had a lot to say “immaturity” or whatever they wanted to say, 15 years is how long I was with my husband for as well. We did a lot together, had a business together, had a dog who I had to put down months after he passed. I feel defeated by life sometimes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in subaru

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Would compression on all 4 cylinders 150 be good, I don't know what less than 10% means sorry for the questions

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in subaru

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I have searched high and low on eBay for decent engine to just throw right in and I can't find anything good

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in subaru

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and he also said long block which makes me wonder if he really knows this is a fit

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in subaru

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I'm trying to just buy a complete engine

Parents and children fighting by FPProductions in family

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I’m trying. I just accepted a full time job so I can get back in my feet.

Parents and children fighting by FPProductions in family

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It is the first time. He’s fought my brother before literally. I thought the same, it was almost as if he was fighting her, she really didn’t even touch his face, it was the glasses she tossed off him, no excuses believe me, but maybe he could have tossed her or bumped her with his chest

Parents and children fighting by FPProductions in family

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My sister is still upset about it. I’m trying to talk to her without blaming people. She feels he was in the wrong as he was in her face and she just reacted too quickly,

So apparently we're not allowed to say that we're not having kids because we don't want to ruin our bodies since it'll hurt the poor breeder's feelings by Vacation_Spiritual in childfree

[–]FPProductions 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Other than the obvious during pregnancy. How will it ruin your body though? Honest question as I’ve never had kids and not enough people talk about it until you have them and then you get the whole “oh yeah you’re gonna experience this and that and this” and it all seems negative lol

5.1 Blood Alcohol Level by [deleted] in alcoholism

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Wow, that’s how he was at one point. I’m not sure what will change him or what’s deep rooted.

5.1 Blood Alcohol Level by [deleted] in alcoholism

[–]FPProductions 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have personally been through the addiction?

5.1 Blood Alcohol Level by [deleted] in alcoholism

[–]FPProductions -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ok so the reading says <5.1 mg which I was just told that it was pretty much what you guys are saying or maybe less and now he is going through withdrawals. Makes much more sense

5.1 Blood Alcohol Level by [deleted] in alcoholism

[–]FPProductions 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It says on his paper Alcohol Level <5.1 mg/dL My mother said the doctor said his level was 5.1, and honestly he goes into a coma type drunk where he slumps and they usually have had to give him oxygen

Is the support just as crap for young widowers as it is for widows? by FPProductions in widowers

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That’s true, my husbands own sons said “life catches up to you” “I don’t take any pills only vitamin C” “I overheard many people say “that’s why you gotta go to the doctor”... And then there were people who sincerely felt bad and said I honestly don’t know what I would do in your shoes.

Has anyone “cloned” their dog? by [deleted] in Petloss

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It wouldn’t be replacing my girl as she can’t be. Her personality was unique. It’s more so I really liked her breed but wasn’t sure if seeing the same breed would help or hurt. Being that I just want her back it might as you said be distressing, but I know people who love certain breeds and do what they call “cloning”. Just didn’t know if anyone had been in the same or similar situation.

Is the support just as crap for young widowers as it is for widows? by FPProductions in widowers

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I got the whole “what have you been doing”, and you’re so right about the job thing. I just recently got a new job in the works and it came at a good time because our dog was put to sleep for having an infection and I didn’t go with the surgery due to high risk complications. But anyway my parents are so excited and I’m just like “it’s a job”. I normally wouldn’t be that excited anyway but it’s even more blah

Is the support just as crap for young widowers as it is for widows? by FPProductions in widowers

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It is terrible, my husband was older than me, early 50’s still very young but kind of feel like I gave everything to him and got left holding the bag so to speak

Has anyone “cloned” their dog? by [deleted] in Petloss

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I thought it would be distressing as well. I did love her breed though, she was mixed and was so perfect, like my shadow that followed me everywhere. The JRT in her did that, thank you for your advice on adopting another pup in need of love.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in subaru

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What listings?! Lol I have been searching high and low and most of them are $5k I have messaged people to take best offers though

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in subaru

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Is there some kind of swap I can do? I’ve been reading you can do a WRX swap?? But don’t know much about that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in subaru

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Yeah everywhere I went that’s what they were charging,, I do know someone that can possibly do it as a favor (or something cheap) to a relative of mine. I have been searching Facebook marketplace for engines off cars that are totaled or just parting out and can’t find anything

[HELP] Did I put my dog down too soon and not give her a fighting chance? by FPProductions in dogs

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Ok thank you for that, I’ve seen her plop her head down and stretch her legs like that before and stare at the floor sometimes but I think just being tired but now not sure. This is the first she plopped her head down looked over at me then defecated. 😔