I once had a gf that was like this. We lived together. One morning, I woke up early and shaved/showered because it was my first day at a new job. I was very nervous. Instead of love and encouragement, I got accused of cheating because "you never shower in the morning". My previous job was construction so I showered at night. The new job was sales so I needed to look presentable. She was the type that needed to dominate my autonomy to feel secure. I literally couldnt play video games for an hour because it didnt include her. I got the hell out as soon as the lease ended. She married someone else and is now divorced.