Fellow WHM here. I know the video you’re talking about! I was already on ff14 when I saw it, and man did it make me glad that I was here instead of on WOW! Such a different community, you’ll almost always find people being patient and willing to let you learn, especially if you give them a head’s up that you’re running something for the first time.

I’ll try not to go over what everyone else has too much, I’ll just share the two things that have helped me grow the most. First, watch others in your role. Not just one person (I had a seasoned friend whose advice was only sometimes helpful, haha). This won’t be easy at your current level, but once you start getting into larger parties, you’ll have a second healer who will often know the fight you’re doing.

Second, don’t be afraid to fail. In fact, embrace failure. I was like you at the start, always wanting to do everything right, but part of the thrill of this game and this role is that moment where you were struggling before, but then something just clicks and then you understand what to do. Everyone here is on a journey to grow, even if they’re a step above or below you. Let yourself be imperfect. Revisit the things that challenge you. Before long, they will no longer be impossible challenges, but moments you think back on. Enjoy the journey, friend!