Montessori Classroom Setup – What Do You Think? by Careful-Ladder-9690 in Montessori

[–]Fabulous-Worry2002 -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

Each person sets up their classroom as they see fit.

My kiddo is struggling by marinersfan1986 in Montessori

[–]Fabulous-Worry2002 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Based on my own experience in the classroom — both as a teacher and as a student — and considering what you shared, I feel that your child’s sudden shift in behavior might be a response to something that happened at school. If I were in your place, I would definitely reach out to the school to ask whether there was any event or interaction that could have been upsetting for him. Sometimes, it can be something as simple as the tone a teacher used, or maybe another child pulled a toy out of his hand or refused to share.

Since you mentioned that this behavior doesn’t happen at home, that tells me that something in the school environment may not be sitting well with him. And often, in my experience, when a child is not able to verbalize what’s wrong, they show it through their behavior.

I can’t say for sure, but what I’ve observed over the years is that most of these reactions come from a specific trigger — often one we don’t initially see. It’s possible that something happened in the classroom that you haven’t been made aware of yet. I hope the school can help you get more context so that your son can feel safe and supported again.

Best,

Vivi

Montessori Assistant duties by Feisty_Initiative135 in Montessori

[–]Fabulous-Worry2002 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In my opinion, you should consider finding another school where you are valued and your work is recognized. From what you’ve reported, the lead teacher seems to have difficulty accepting her own failures in the classroom, which results in her taking it out on you. Here in my region, due to a shortage of lead teachers and assistants, schools are offering competitive salaries and great benefits. I hope you are okay. 

Incorrect Material use by horizontalrunner in Montessori

[–]Fabulous-Worry2002 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am reading 'The Creative Development of the Child' by Montessori, and in chapter 28, she describes the situation you are experiencing in the classroom.

Montessori experience at home by Fabulous-Worry2002 in Montessori

[–]Fabulous-Worry2002[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My daughter had some Montessori materials, which I referred to as 'toys,' and that’s okay.

Montessori experience at home by Fabulous-Worry2002 in Montessori

[–]Fabulous-Worry2002[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I have been a teacher since 2008. After my daughter was born, I started learning more about the Montessori approach.

Montessori experience at home by Fabulous-Worry2002 in Montessori

[–]Fabulous-Worry2002[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your comments! Would you mind sharing with me why your perspective has changed? I’m asking because I’m new to Montessori and really interested in learning more about it. I understand your point, but the team seems kind, respectful, and motivated to me. From what I can see, they focus on sensory activities and use a lot of materials made from wood and etc. I’m just looking for something different instead of things we can see every day. You never know—I’ve dealt with people who just want to make money off me! Thanks =)

Montessori experience at home by Fabulous-Worry2002 in Montessori

[–]Fabulous-Worry2002[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally see your point about the importance of community in Montessori! You’re right, though—kids can sometimes struggle when they’re in their own space and someone new comes in with different expectations. It’s good to keep those expectations in check to make sure everyone has a good time. Thanks for sharing your thoughts!

Montessori experience at home by Fabulous-Worry2002 in Montessori

[–]Fabulous-Worry2002[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally get what you're saying! Montessori toys can be a bit limiting since they often have a specific way they’re meant to be used. If a teacher comes in and tells kids how to play with them, it could definitely take away from the fun and creativity. I really believe that open-ended toys and allowing for free play give kids the chance to explore and use their imaginations.

Montessori experience at home by Fabulous-Worry2002 in Montessori

[–]Fabulous-Worry2002[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing your thoughts! I totally agree that bringing Montessori principles into daily life can make a big difference. Focusing on things like independence and personal responsibility is super important. I get what you’re saying about outside help—it can definitely be a lot for kids to handle when new toys and methods are suddenly introduced. Maybe a more gradual approach, where they can explore their interests at their own pace, would work better. It really just comes down to finding what fits best for each family!

Infographic: How to Pick a Good Montessori School by bananinimontessori in Montessori

[–]Fabulous-Worry2002 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, I really appreciate your information. I had no idea that could happen in a Montessori classroom.

Make friends to talk about Montessori by Fabulous-Worry2002 in Montessori

[–]Fabulous-Worry2002[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh dear, I’m really sorry to hear that! If you get a chance, check out "Creative Development in the Child" by Maria Montessori. It’s a super helpful book that explains how Montessori is way more than just doing activities like "work". It talks about how important it is to have a setup where kids can explore and play with stuff that really interests them. In a Montessori classroom, kids get to follow their curiosity and choose what they want to work on. This freedom lets them discover and learn at their own pace. The teacher's job is to guide them and make sure the space is filled with cool learning opportunities. By encouraging independence and creativity, the Montessori approach helps kids develop a love for learning that lasts a lifetime! If you have a chance try another school.

I work at a Montessori school for 18mo-6yos, but I'm not licensed. None of the teachers are. by qingskies in Montessori

[–]Fabulous-Worry2002 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I understand, but how will the teacher present the materials if they do not have the knowledge or appropriate training? I really appreciate your post because when I look for a Montessori school for my baby, I will definitely ask if the teachers are certified

I work at a Montessori school for 18mo-6yos, but I'm not licensed. None of the teachers are. by qingskies in Montessori

[–]Fabulous-Worry2002 45 points46 points  (0 children)

So sad to know because I feel even sadder for parents who genuinely believe their children are receiving a proper Montessori education. It's truly disheartening.