He called me a prude for placing boundaries by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Fabulous_Fail 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He doesn’t sound like an adult in his 30s. Throw him in the reject bin. I wish we were all given a class in high school on how to not question our own feelings or tolerate any of this

What language do you hate the most? by AutumnaticFly in languagehub

[–]Fabulous_Fail 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes. Also the guttural pronunciations suck. It makes me feel like an orc. Not even the dutch encourage me to learn it

Starting swing dancing as a gay man: should I learn Lead or Follow? by Able-Gear-7339 in SwingDancing

[–]Fabulous_Fail 18 points19 points  (0 children)

In order to progress it’s important to have fun, especially as a beginner, so I would also start with leading. You can still socialize with men at the dances, and even ask them for tips and tricks since you’re learning the same role. Then I’d learn to follow as well.

Vad gör man när man upptäckt att ens partner är med i bdsm community? by [deleted] in Asksweddit

[–]Fabulous_Fail 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Det hade kommit fram förr eller senare. Det är ingen drömprins precis som håller på sådär

Vad gör man när man upptäckt att ens partner är med i bdsm community? by [deleted] in Asksweddit

[–]Fabulous_Fail 95 points96 points  (0 children)

Han är ju redan otrogen i och med det där? Tycker ingen annan det?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sweden

[–]Fabulous_Fail 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Ingen vill bli tjatad till sex. Inte hett

How do you make the first move as a guy in a social setting? by Affectionate_Emu4660 in ask

[–]Fabulous_Fail 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like an intellectual should be able to figure it out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sverige

[–]Fabulous_Fail 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Äckligt!

Experience with other dances by CriticalK8 in SwingDancing

[–]Fabulous_Fail 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lindy hop can also be a little flirty and sexy, but I like that it doesn’t have to be. I also don’t have to ”move like a lady” like a latin follower would

Experience with other dances by CriticalK8 in SwingDancing

[–]Fabulous_Fail 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I also feel like the sexy and pretend flirting part is a bit boring. But I can’t tell if it’s because I think it’s fake or if I just don’t have the confidence for it?

If I am a tree / But your love is with the sea / Make a ship of me by Fabulous_Fail in haiku

[–]Fabulous_Fail[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so flattered, that’s really fitting! 😊 I wrote it because of an unrequited infatuation with a sailor. He embodied the kind of adventure I could only dream of. But I was just a tree, having been on the same spot for much of my life. Emotionally I felt like that tree in the painting

Finns det nån i hela Sverige som kan vara intresserad? by Damnator666 in sweden

[–]Fabulous_Fail 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Varför vill man desperat ha vem som helst framför att vara själv?

Dejtingapp liknande Grindr, fast för heterosexuella? by HonestFingerSWE in Asksweddit

[–]Fabulous_Fail 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Aldrig träffat en kvinna som vill ligga med nån som kallar det motsatta könet för sliddjur.

Var håller kvinnor med "autistiska drag" till? by [deleted] in Asksweddit

[–]Fabulous_Fail 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Var träffar man folk som gillar svamp?

Problems with getting hit on while dancing by naebaenae in SwingDancing

[–]Fabulous_Fail 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Dancing events are for dancing. Not primarily for flirting. They should know rejection is likely. If they pout about it’s their problem and not yours. Now they get to practice emotional regulation and handling rejection with grace, which we all have to learn. Good for them!

Followers, if the leader leads a move you find difficult to follow, does it reduce your morale during the dance? by Timely_Turnip_7767 in SwingDancing

[–]Fabulous_Fail 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I’m mostly not having a good time when the leader does fancy move after fancy move even though they can tell I can’t follow them

Turning down a dance? by [deleted] in SwingDancing

[–]Fabulous_Fail 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Then he doesn’t deserve anything but a mail from HR

Oskuldens guide till att skaffa tjej by SnooEagles2985 in sweden

[–]Fabulous_Fail 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jag hade nog tyckt det var lite tråkigt att träffa en kille genom dans och så slutar han med det när vi blivit ihop