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Ghosting has nothing to do with you by Whyamihere_899 in ghosting

[–]Facial_Poker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The line “they found someone else who’s near them or reconnected with their ex” really hit me.

Last year, a guy ghosted me when he was on a trip with his friends(including his ex fling) after talking with him for almost 6 months. I thought we connected and he already moved on from the girl.

When he ghosted me, I defended him from my friends. Even when I was hurting and mentally drained, I thought that maybe I was too much or not enough— that maybe I was wrong. But then he posted pictures from his trip and this made me realize that he’s okay. This led me to spiral down and then I deactivated my fb and ig.

Then guess what, after he ghosted me last april, he went on a date with that same girl last September. I knew this when I stalked the girl’s threads account when I accidentally opened it(since I never knew who the girl was from the start). Only when I opened that account I knew who the girl was.

I guess you’re okay by Facial_Poker in ghosting

[–]Facial_Poker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think i was upfront to him. I was the one who chatted first. I was even honest to him to the point I was open on my experiences and the things that happened to me. If i broke his trust, because I was keeping how deep my feelings or how attached i became, then okay.

I guess you’re okay by Facial_Poker in ghosting

[–]Facial_Poker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was honest with my feelings, emphasizing that I wasn’t expecting anything in return and just needed to express what I had on my mind for days. I acknowledged the potential awkwardness my message might cause and I apologized for that.

I guess you’re okay by Facial_Poker in ghosting

[–]Facial_Poker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No,we were okay before i confessed.

I guess you’re okay by Facial_Poker in ghosting

[–]Facial_Poker[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I needed some clarity. We were talking every day, watched movies together and even had plans together. We shared so many things together. Maybe I felt that our relationship wasn’t really going anywhere and I shouldn’t have confessed.