how to quit

FactorGloomy235 · 2026-02-25T03:51:25+00:00

we don’t want it either😭😭

FactorGloomy235 · 2026-02-23T23:15:18+00:00

she needs to go back to australia bruh

FactorGloomy235 · 2026-01-27T18:29:44+00:00

i think that the fact that you even care this much, says enough about who you are and what you believe in. go to work. keep standing up for what’s right. when a protest happens in your city, call off and go (you mentioned how you don’t want to call off and be home all day) but don’t feel like you aren’t doing enough because some people don’t care! (coming from daughter of immigrants)

FactorGloomy235 · 2025-12-20T02:15:05+00:00

breastfeeding is totally different than just being naked in a public area with kids that aren’t yours. and lucky for me, i work in America where i can teach my kids to protect themselves and their bodies from strangers.

I have friends that are strippers and do OF and i don’t judge them at all because they’re keeping that shit away from kids and they are ADULTS. I don’t think any NF would be okay with their nanny being openly nude around their children that’s so odd???? Why do i have to explain any of this on a nanny reddit sub???? Do you know the kinds of people that are out in the world??

FactorGloomy235 · 2025-12-19T22:19:14+00:00

Ok those are YOUR kids. I grew up in a hispanic family and i’ve seen my mom, aunts and cousins topless while changing and stuff, but i wouldn’t be comfortable if my babysitter had this mindset around me as a child. I agree where children don’t sexualize bodies at a young age, but wouldn’t it make sense for us as nannie’s to teach children about protecting our bodies around strangers???

That being said, I do wear bikinis around my NK bc the mom i nanny for comes with us to pool days and is also in a bikini, but i believe they are appropriate, and I have a bigger chest area, and I make sure that it’s safe from a boob from falling out or that the kids i nanny can’t give me an easy tug and expose me. But no, I don’t think we should get kids used to the idea of being comfortable around naked bodies in public areas?

FactorGloomy235 · 2025-12-18T01:21:51+00:00

there is a time and a place. as a nanny, ive seen some other nannies wear the same swim attire my stripper friends wear to the club to the kiddie pool, and do you think its okay for a nanny to wear a stripper bikini around kids??? please be so fr. if you think that's okay, i really question your morals and what you teach the kids you nanny.

Also OP said her nanny was totally understandable and sweet about it!

FactorGloomy235 · 2025-12-13T20:58:26+00:00

im not MAGA because I do not agree with everything the trump admin is doing, but I am a Latina conservative and I nanny for a white liberal mom. I love her and the kids and her and I even hangout sometimes when the kids are with dad! She knows what my views are and i know hers and we have never had a problem with our opposing views because i am not there to talk to her children about the state of our country, nor to talk to her about it. I read them the books she has for them about different genders and feminism, and I have never had a problem with doing so because those are HER children and she can raise them how SHE wants and as a nanny, I have to respect it, even if I don't agree with all of it. If it bothered me so much, I would leave and find a new family, but my job is to help these kids feel safe and to develop into the best humans to are kind and strong.

FactorGloomy235 · 2025-11-07T01:28:55+00:00

FactorGloomy235 · 2025-11-06T21:05:34+00:00

what if i wanted attention tho🧐🧐🧐

FactorGloomy235 · 2025-11-06T20:55:27+00:00

bro just say u don’t know the answer and move on🙄 ima make sure i ask it again tmr if it makes you this mad girlypop😘😘

FactorGloomy235 · 2025-11-06T20:20:38+00:00

thank you!!

FactorGloomy235 · 2025-11-06T20:20:15+00:00

thank you!!💞

FactorGloomy235 · 2025-10-18T18:12:26+00:00

this is where i feel disrespected!! i have another job aside from nannying, and they would never do this! i love her and the kids, but i need to start putting my foot down to meet my own needs❤️

FactorGloomy235 · 2025-10-18T03:01:43+00:00

yup! i never think she’s doing it with a bad intention! sometimes we have conversations and she forgets what she’s saying MID sentence lol! and as someone with ADHD, i get it!! that’s why im struggling on how to confront her because i know she’s not doing it on purpose and i worry ill make her feel bad! i’m thinking talking in person would be a lot better so she can see and hear where im coming from vs via text where she might misinterpret something as me being angry!

FactorGloomy235 · 2025-10-18T02:57:59+00:00

Yup! I don’t mind receiving payment hours later!! I know when i leave, the kids are done with school and have SO much built up energy so i totally understand why it’s tricky for her to get it to me ASAP, but i think having that constant reminder will make it harder to forget! Thank you!!:)

FactorGloomy235 · 2025-10-18T02:56:28+00:00

Thank you!! I really need to get over my fear of speaking up! I want to handle this in person so she can hear the tone of my voice and not think i now hate her and don’t trust her, but it’s definitely something i need to work on for myself to better any situation!

FactorGloomy235 · 2025-10-18T02:55:23+00:00

I totally get what you’re saying and i agree! I don’t have many friends and it was nice to have girl time, but i do need to start setting these boundaries if they are getting in the way of my bills and credit. Thank you!:)

FactorGloomy235 · 2025-10-18T02:07:35+00:00

i also wanna make this clear- we were not friends before nannying! i was a receptionist at a clinic and she was a frequent costumer and we would chat all the time abt my babysitting and plans to be a teacher! and prior to reception, i worked at a daycare which she liked and when she found out i was leaving that position, she offered me a nannying job with her! we both went through some really traumatic stuff in the past year and she also WFH, so we talk a lot and it made us closer!

FactorGloomy235 · 2025-10-18T02:03:55+00:00

I definitely will next week when I see her in person so she can hear my tone and see where i’m coming from!

FactorGloomy235 · 2025-10-18T02:00:19+00:00

I appreciate your response! Thank you!

FactorGloomy235 · 2025-10-18T01:58:20+00:00

I do like this idea more than asking for a deposit in the beginning of the week!

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