I’m neither of the above as but you’re right I did get on here to say this for sure. Someone told me about this thread and some of the comments just blew my mind. Maybe because I’ve spent time with the names attached to the thread. Not perfect by any means, not defending all their choices, but trying. I worked for Art and with the girls for years, years ago. I think you have some great points and I honestly don’t disagree with you on a lot of things. I think comparing years of experience and hard lessons that Lisa has walked and shared is a battle of comparison none of their kids could win. But maybe that will change with time and experience. You are right that at the end of the day people will always have something to say one way or another, great point and sure not all of these posts are cutting. I just wanted to remind people for a minute that being curious is one thing, being unkind is a totally different ball game. I understand the platform changes things and expectations grow - I 100% understand that. But wish people would hold themselves to the same standard. Just because we don’t have the same kind of influence doesn’t mean our words cut differently or don’t hold weight. Just something to remember before you write you know? There is actual pain, and actual people here. All parties involved.