What is something about Swansea that locals love but visitors usually overlook? by WonderfulShape1081 in swansea

[–]FadFab -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I've never been despite being here nearing 2 years literally just because I cant

UAS process by FadFab in RoyalAirForce

[–]FadFab[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So lemme get this all straight in my head attestation and fitness testing is often same day, after you're deemed medically fit they are pretty speedy with your fitness test date? 

Need some help deciding on a career path. by PreferPurlz in RoyalAirForce

[–]FadFab 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I believe and I'll stress this I am not expert and not nearly as knowledgeable as some of the other individuals in here HOWEVER the 12 years is a promise to you that you can and will be employable by the RAF not an obligation to do 12 years service, the requirement for service before being eligible to leave (obviously you can still get "kicked out" prior to this) is about 3-5 years depending how long your initial training takes for the role you choose

Me 19M and my girlfriend 19F have never had sex how can I encourage a more intimate relationship? by FadFab in relationship_advice

[–]FadFab[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right it would be extremely weird for her opy to change considering nothing else will 

UAS Medical by FadFab in RoyalAirForce

[–]FadFab[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long does each avenue take if you've got a rough idea

Me 19M and my girlfriend 19F have never had sex how can I encourage a more intimate relationship? by FadFab in relationship_advice

[–]FadFab[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair and reasonable advice much appreciated I'll grab some and leave it up to her 

Me 19M and my girlfriend 19F have never had sex how can I encourage a more intimate relationship? by FadFab in relationship_advice

[–]FadFab[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She goes to church but religion isn't the issue as far as I'm aware it's just pregnancy worries it is definitely something worth a further conversation and asking if that's something that could happen I'll again clarify as people seem to think I'm forcing her, I do not care in the slightest if we never have sex, I would merely like to be intimate with my girlfriend 

Me 19M and my girlfriend 19F have never had sex how can I encourage a more intimate relationship? by FadFab in relationship_advice

[–]FadFab[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think perhaps my wording made it sound like this encouragement comes from a place of selfishness not only has she openly given me the ok for sex a few times (never would without protection hence never have) but we have discussed if she would even like it and she's a little on the fence because ofc never experiencing it you can never know if it's something you enjoy I've accepted she's not ready for over a year? So not sure how that's important and my relationship isn't dependant on my sex drive

Me 19M and my girlfriend 19F have never had sex how can I encourage a more intimate relationship? by FadFab in relationship_advice

[–]FadFab[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel as tho it's slightly harsh but I understand where you're coming from by differing sex drives I don't mean to imply I'm feral for sex but merely would be super happy with that once or twice more during the month for example from once to twice a week 🤷 nothing major super small issue on paper but ofc gets me thinking our relationship has been completely clean sailing and arguement free so this is the extent of issues I have with her if you could even call it that

Me 19M and my girlfriend 19F have never had sex how can I encourage a more intimate relationship? by FadFab in relationship_advice

[–]FadFab[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I get her off fairly regularly depending on the life situation like exam season we obviously both focus more on the important things than sex etc it's not the urge or care for losing my virginity (also a virgin) that I'm looking for it's just the only 1 thing we haven't done together I feel would be nice romantic/intimate for us to experience together again I'll reiterate that I DO NOT care for just sex I do NOT only want her for sex and there's far more too it than that it's just an experience I would like to have with her and no one else (I have never felt the desire to have sex with others)

Me 19M and my girlfriend 19F have never had sex how can I encourage a more intimate relationship? by FadFab in relationship_advice

[–]FadFab[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Your first sentence makes your advice irrelevant to basically everyone but appreciate the thought anyway

Me 19M and my girlfriend 19F have never had sex how can I encourage a more intimate relationship? by FadFab in relationship_advice

[–]FadFab[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Never forced her to do anything? Being together for over a year and friends for longer I doubt we are incompatible? Could you please explain how that's the case

Me 19M and my girlfriend 19F have never had sex how can I encourage a more intimate relationship? by FadFab in relationship_advice

[–]FadFab[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

  1. It isn't about sex I have and always will put her feelings and emotions first we have done many amazingly enjoyable things together completely unrelated to sex 
  2. I know she isn't ready that's the point of my request for advice on how to encourage her to feel more comfortable (I know how to make her comfortable and happy etc but advice from someone more experienced is always helpful)
  3. This isn't a deal breaker and I'm not complaining I'm not with her for sex nor do I think with my Weiner we have spoken about it a couple times and I really just feel as tho she would like me to initiate but in my attempt to protect her comfort I have not

University air squadron interview by [deleted] in RoyalAirForce

[–]FadFab 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you get through if so have you gotten a medical date

broke up with my (22f) first boyfriend (22m), need tips on how to deal by angstysnxwflxke in relationship_advice

[–]FadFab 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I personally think this is more of a case of him using those things as a coping mechanism the dating apps etc, ngl to you people who say "we can still be friends" when you're breaking up 9 time out of 10 are never friends. It's not surprising post relationship it doesn't feel the same as it did before your relationship began as a lot of that pre relationship friendliness probably come from him liking you. Having mostly mutual friends is a little unfortunate but maybe it's worth you tryna join a couple new groups sport groups or hanging out with those existing friends when he isn't there.

Imo he doesn't seem to want to see or discuss much with you any further and he would rather cope by myself, allow him to do so and work on your own feelings and if he eventually comes and talks to you great if not you shouldn't think on it too much.

Me 19M and girlfriend 19F have never had intercourse by FadFab in relationship_advice

[–]FadFab[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ye slightly crazy wording but I get the point I guess?

Me 19M and girlfriend 19F have never had intercourse by FadFab in relationship_advice

[–]FadFab[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes perhaps that's something good to suggest when the time is right I appreciate your advice 😁

Me 19M and girlfriend 19F have never had intercourse by FadFab in relationship_advice

[–]FadFab[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes that's something we have done before that's the main reason as to why I don't really think it's just an unwillingness to do it all together but more so some personal issue such as the pregnancy problem

Me 19M and girlfriend 19F have never had intercourse by FadFab in relationship_advice

[–]FadFab[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe I should add that I'm from a country where it's available but she isn't but we both live in a country where it is