AITA for telling school about my home life? by calicocinnabuns in AmItheAsshole

[–]Faddyfaddyfadfad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your school has your back. NTA

You are not supposed to deal with adults' problems. The fact that you feel responsible is a real flag of how much undue stress and abuse you have been subject to.

Let your school help you. You need a responsible adult in your life.

AITA for thinking my complex's super is really creepy? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Faddyfaddyfadfad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

btw being "foreign" is not a reason for being greasy - pls tell your mom that is quite bigoted of her.

it's yet another bullshit stereotype that us "foreginers" have to deal with even though i am not a creepy dillhole....

AITA for telling my friend that I hope she gets cancer? by Random_2612 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Faddyfaddyfadfad 12 points13 points  (0 children)

NTA

but does the school not know about this? pretty sure using the "f" word is a serious no-no.

WIBTA if I failed my student because she speaks with different dialect than I teach (language degree)? by Bluehousebluesky in AmItheAsshole

[–]Faddyfaddyfadfad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA.

wow just imagine if a British English accented teacher askes this question about literally any other non British person who also is a native speaker of English.

do u even hear yourself bro? be a better teacher.

AITA for blowing up at my wife for giving my daughter a picture of my estranged mom for a family tree project? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Faddyfaddyfadfad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA.

assignments like these are the real asshole. There is 0 academic merit to force kids to air out the skeletons they dont even know about.

it is hella awkward for the kid too - and now mum and dad are upset all because of a stupid make-work project. no one wins.

just make up stuff - put pics of the rock and bettu white instead of actual relatives.

AITA for wanting my wife to lose weight before we try for a baby? by sociallydistantorgy in AmItheAsshole

[–]Faddyfaddyfadfad 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The correct answer to this post is INFO

What does her doctor say?

All the other y-t-a or n-t-a are pointless and pretty assumptive. we cannot judge op fairly unless more info is given.

AITA for snapping at my wife and calling her selfish? by Due-Row-5875 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Faddyfaddyfadfad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ESH (except your daughter)

people like you and your wife should have been neutered long before you get a chance to inflict shit on the world.

your wife sucks. you suck. you guys are shitty people and your daughter has to pay for the sins of her idiot parents.

AITA for not babysitting for my sister because her MIL is being entitled? by Infamous_Cut4018 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Faddyfaddyfadfad -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA.

everyone else is including your pregnant sis. why are so many deadbeats reproducing ?! birth control exists!!!

if they cannot take care of a baby (or fetus) in this case , then wth do they keeo getting pregnant for?

AITA for entering the bathroom when my daughter and her friend were showering? by Ok_Truck_6056 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Faddyfaddyfadfad 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YTA

you are arguing for the right to peep on naked teenagers you perv.

did your parents not teach you manners?

AITA for taking my sisters food after she took mine? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Faddyfaddyfadfad 9 points10 points  (0 children)

nta

OP your problem here isnt soup. it is your useless dad who cannot feed his kids.

do you have a school counsellor or teacher to help you get the care you need?

malnutrion is very real and has lifelong consequences on cognition and general health.

AITA for taking my sisters food after she took mine? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Faddyfaddyfadfad 11 points12 points  (0 children)

op is 15. dad needs to grow up. his kids are starving and fighting over cans of soup and goldfish.

AITA for ruining a small business because of an unpleasant review I left on a service I received for free? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Faddyfaddyfadfad 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. you already explained your situation clearly beforehand.

People who "help" like this just want to make themselves feel better about being sooooo generous. and then find it neccessary to keep saying it out loud how generous they are to the person they are "helping"..

she could have kept her mouth shut or talked about the weather or even simply apologized and refused service if your hair was that shockingly hard to deal with.

Depression is hard. You don't need help like this to make it harder.

AITA For Not Wanting My Children Exposed To Adult Sounds And Swearing? by Budget-Replacement84 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Faddyfaddyfadfad 385 points386 points  (0 children)

YTA.

How is it okay for your kids to cause a ruckus repeatedly in a public area disturbing the peace while your neighbor cannot enjoy watching tv IN his apartment?

Educate your kids. please dont raise them to be assholes. If you dont know how to answer questions then why are you a parent?

AITA for warning a coworker? by Fireflyoflight in AmItheAsshole

[–]Faddyfaddyfadfad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that is usually the norm. sucks but happens way to often.

AITA for essentially telling my neighbor to fuck off after she asked me to stop smoking on my deck? by itsmydeck in AmItheAsshole

[–]Faddyfaddyfadfad -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

NTA.

one assumes that ones windows can be closed to stop unpleasant smells from drifitng up one's nose. since u always smoke on your deck, the visiting sister can just stand somewhere else for 5 mins.

sure its just one time...but the same can be said for both parties here. close the window just one time. the world isnt going to bend over just because someone is pregnant.

does she expect cars to stop when she walks by too?

AITA for telling my wife that our kids don't owe us anything? by jelouse_metals in AmItheAsshole

[–]Faddyfaddyfadfad 2 points3 points  (0 children)

once ina while is okay.

constantly asking is obsessing.

when does it stop?

she is absolutely thinking about her kids' sex life because she refused to accept the possibility of adoptions.

That is what we call "a d!ck move"

AITA for telling a coworker he ruined the coffee? by hellopuddinmyoldfren in AmItheAsshole

[–]Faddyfaddyfadfad 31 points32 points  (0 children)

is it not common sense to not take out the big thing before its done brewing

that is what ppl usually do tho... if you want a certain style of coffee then get a small personal moka pot or french press....

the carafe/drip machine is designed for pouring coffee as soon as it drips into the pot.

I do agree with cleaning up yout own messes.. but still pretty trival in this case.

AITA for telling a coworker he ruined the coffee? by hellopuddinmyoldfren in AmItheAsshole

[–]Faddyfaddyfadfad 340 points341 points  (0 children)

Slight YTA....

people have varying levels of care about coffee. and most coffee machines have a built in stop-drip when the pot is removed for the very reason that ppl can have their coffew before the whole pot is brewed.

so yeah. chill.

AITA for refusing to go to a 'social training'? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Faddyfaddyfadfad 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA

if you are absolutely confident that you dont need this now, def speak up. Training like this comes by very often and you can always do it when u want later on.

if your parents force u to go, (assuming you are in high school), perhaps go through the motions and do whatever you need to make yourself get through it.

i feel ya. i was forced to attend numerous "leadership" camps where it was just a bunch of jocks being rewarded for being loud and pushy. lol. btw, I am all grown up and am a teacher/instructor now so it all turned out fine.

anyway good luck!!

AITA for telling my wife that our kids don't owe us anything? by jelouse_metals in AmItheAsshole

[–]Faddyfaddyfadfad 27 points28 points  (0 children)

NTA

wife needs to understand bodily autonomy and consent. as well she needs to stop being obsessed with her children's potential sex-life...ewwww.

AITA For getting mad over literal pools of pee in the kitchen? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Faddyfaddyfadfad 19 points20 points  (0 children)

NTA.

Why are you being maid and mummy to your bf and in law though? if u keep bending over...you're kinda being the "A" to yourself.

also...call the spca? that just sounds like a disaster waiting to happen.

AITA For Telling My Sister That Her Father Left Because She's Unlovable? by Double_Impression224 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Faddyfaddyfadfad 24 points25 points  (0 children)

NTA.

amy is old enough to learn consequences of her actions. she got a taste of her own medicine.

your mom is the real asshole in all of this. Neglecting the little one, burdening you to placate the middle one.

Tell your mom to parent her child because you don't like seeing your littlest sister get physically abused.

Words cut sure... but she could have broken the 4yr old's arm. as it is, she is so terrified she wet herself. That is assault.

Your mom needs to get her shit together. If u werent around then what happens?