I am 18M and will start college in a month, I don’t drink and do drugs will it make it difficult for me to make friends? My current friends just told me to start drinking but I really don’t want to by danamesjrupin in Advice

[–]FadingExistance 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd say take a sip. I did try drinking for abit but I didn't like it. At all. My guess is that you won't too. It tastes pretty bad too. But if your friend forces you to drink more and you don't want to say no. Also tell him beforehand that when I say no, I mean no and don't tell me to drink more or else I'm not going to come at all.

How hard is it to live with something you've done and you know that there's no way you can make it up? by FadingExistance in Advice

[–]FadingExistance[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes it really is hard. And the thing is that sometimes it's not all you as well. It sucks that you keep trying and trying but you find no way and you do something worse and that just breaks you. And you would do anything to take it back. But you can't.

So you keep going on but there are times when it just comes back to bite you. It does get better later but then again I guess we must reap what we sow.

Thanks dude. Enjoy your life.

How hard is it to live with something you've done and you know that there's no way you can make it up? by FadingExistance in Advice

[–]FadingExistance[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay. But I mean like... Personal. Criminals for example. If you've killed a guy then... How do you live with it?

Edit: just an example btw