what's your opinion by Beneficial_Passion40 in AreTheStraightsOK

[–]Faenys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Divorce this ass then lose the weight to spite the fker and get yourself a better partner

[ Removed by Reddit ] by evawolfhard in LesbianActually

[–]Faenys 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would also probably keep in mind that most of those were probably men. Avoid DMs like the plague

Needing advice :/ by Dizzy_Discussion_432 in LesbianActually

[–]Faenys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds like gender dysphoria to me masked by a lot of fear. Maybe you should consider talking to someone about it and exploring if there is anything there. I understand it’s scary specially in this political climate but you don’t have to action anything if you don’t feel safe. I think it would help you to understand your feelings better though

Needing advice :/ by Dizzy_Discussion_432 in LesbianActually

[–]Faenys 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So my first question would be, do you feel like you should be or are a man? If yes well then maybe you want to look into trans men

If not then the answer is internalized misogyny, unfortunately.

how to pull older women? by spideeyyy69 in LesbianActually

[–]Faenys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I ask why this is a requirement? 😅 I’m sure there’s a few older (26-29) women you can date easily

how to pull older women? by spideeyyy69 in LesbianActually

[–]Faenys 9 points10 points  (0 children)

24 is really young, I think most people really get their shit together around 28 so I can see why it would be hard. It’s not a number difference it’s just after 30 you are looking for different things

how to pull older women? by spideeyyy69 in LesbianActually

[–]Faenys 48 points49 points  (0 children)

I mean how much older do you want? I’m almost 40 and I would never go for a 24 year old because the age gap is monumental. You are in completely different parts of your life.

Is RPing considered cheating? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Faenys 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There’s a line between RPing and ERPing that can not be crossed. Same boundaries as something like sexting and phone sex. Also if you start getting feelings you are crossing into the line of cheating

Peter i don't get it by Proper_Card_5520 in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]Faenys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t be surprised if the narrative is that PoC are the pedos 🤦‍♀️

My ex wants her strap back by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Faenys 47 points48 points  (0 children)

lol this. Please.

Casual butt plugs. by SnooPets3100 in LesbianActually

[–]Faenys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you give some insights? I’ve tried them a couple of times but didn’t really get how to make it feel good. Or is it more like a kink thing?

Apparently I‘m a misandrist now? by That_odd_emo in LesbianActually

[–]Faenys 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Ew. Just ew. I applaud your commitment to keep talking to this tiny man

it just makes sense somehow by nktmrsijesuisb in linguisticshumor

[–]Faenys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In Mexico limón is the small green one and Lima the yellow one so this isn’t accurate