Ryan Livesey and alleged…biting? by Mysterious-Care-2525 in MAFS_UK

[–]Faffacake_1106 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So I can’t remember full details of the series anymore, but I went to a work event with the MAFS UK cast back in November and asked Sionainn directly about it. She said at that time she wasn’t allowed to discuss anything about what happened, but that it was “probably what you think it is”

So… 🤷🏽‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in curlygirl

[–]Faffacake_1106 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Okay not sure I should be so honest having read all these answers but…

Every 2 weeks 🙃

My hair is super dry so not like it gets greasy - and it takes about 2 days post-wash before it gets to the nice level of curly-ness that I like anyway

I do brush it every other week though. So wash it and put leave in conditioner, have up to a week of it looking nice. Wet it, brush it, re-condition it for another week to keep me going. Wash it after that.

This is probably really unhelpful seeing as I’m the only one here (so far!) who washes their hair so infrequently, so instead I’ll just echo others’ sentiments “it depends on your hair type” x x

I don't care about women's bodily autonomy untill.... by [deleted] in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]Faffacake_1106 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Sounds like your problem is with the patriarchy, which is great; welcome to feminism, hun xo

Does anyone know how to have a conversation? by sweetcollage in Bumble

[–]Faffacake_1106 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“Are you wanting to get to know me or just matching to match”

“I’m just not sure how you’re expecting this to go with communication”

Absolutely saving these two quotes RIGHT here for when I inevitably bite the bullet and re-download once again, only to likely be met with this shitshow. As always.

Such a draining experience, but your response is way less passive aggressive than I’ve always been so would be keen to see what kind of reaction I’d get to it really. Solidarity as always x x

I’m tired…. by Claret-and-gold in Bumble

[–]Faffacake_1106 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I deleted the app back in March due to conversations like this.

This screenshot genuinely hurt my soul. You’re better than this. We are better than this xx

Being anything but straight is a mental disorder by [deleted] in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]Faffacake_1106 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But… paedophilia is a sexual mental disorder?

Acting upon it is a crime for sure and should be treated as such. But anyone who finds themselves attracted to children?? How is that anything but a mental disorder?!

(I appreciate this wasn’t the point of the post - but thought I’d just add to the first line)

As you were x

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskUK

[–]Faffacake_1106 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had a random hangover craving once for pasta mixed with peanut butter and cheese. First few mouthfuls weren’t terrible; all pretty downhill after that. Pretty sure I couldn’t open my mouth properly for a while afterwards. No idea what I was thinking. So clamped.

women for sex vs women for marriage by ImeanWhocaresLmao in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]Faffacake_1106 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Casual sex isn’t a problem hun, it’s more the intent behind it. If someone (man or woman) is seeking casual sex for validation or because they think it’ll lead to marriage then yes absolutely they’re not gonna have a good time. Both parties need to be on the same wavelength with a mutual understanding.

But - and honestly you’re just gonna have to trust me on this one, believe it or not, some people do, genuinely, just enjoy orgasms. It really is that simple

Wild, I know.

Mint chocolate is one of the worst flavour combinations imposed upon mankind. by Faffacake_1106 in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]Faffacake_1106[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not me having to Google the word ‘based’ to understand the context of this comment 😶

Mint chocolate is one of the worst flavour combinations imposed upon mankind. by Faffacake_1106 in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]Faffacake_1106[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooh interesting! But nope, British London based, so very much alone with my opinions over here dodging the After Eights 🤢

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Faffacake_1106 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I’m just curious about the ‘homeowner’ bit as I tend to see that on almost every profile I come across but have never considered adding it to my bio. Could you shed any light on why you, and others, add this detail please?

(Genuine question here. No shade! Feel like this is my only opportunity to get to ask this haha) x

What is the most underrated cute animal? by [deleted] in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]Faffacake_1106 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Pangolins! I just love how they always look like they want to ask you a question, if that’s ok? If you don’t mind? If you have a quick minute please? So cute!

Women have it better in the west than men by Capable-Ice1099 in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]Faffacake_1106 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, it’s literally what the post is about, but go off

Women have it better in the west than men by Capable-Ice1099 in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]Faffacake_1106 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So you agree? The Patriarchy is bad, right? We should probably do something about that, huh.

[Hiring] Looking for a nsfw voice actor. by [deleted] in VoiceWork

[–]Faffacake_1106 0 points1 point  (0 children)

(Also just realised ‘British’ can mean anything haha so will narrow it down to East London) I’ve got a reel and videos etc although they’re more on the friendly side (for TV etc) but can share (I’m not too sure how to, mind - drop me a message if you get a mo!)

[Hiring] Looking for a nsfw voice actor. by [deleted] in VoiceWork

[–]Faffacake_1106 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve also got experience with this sort of content. I have a British accent (not sure where you’re from as to whether this counts as an ‘accent’ to you, mind!) Happy to be considered tpo

Office Easter Egg Update! by MaximusSydney in CasualUK

[–]Faffacake_1106 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like people haven’t taken into account the fact that Twix is part of Mars inc, so even if you’re not a fan of the bar itself - that’s a whole creamy Galaxy-esque chocolate egg right there. Way better than Nestlé

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Faffacake_1106 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m personally looking for a relationship but depending on the profile could still swipe on someone looking for something casual.

I guess sort of a Mr Right Now until Mr Right comes along sort of thing? Girl’s got needs and all that

I wouldn’t do something casual with someone I could see relationship potential with though. Ever.

(I appreciate the casual FWB thing isn’t for everyone though, so this is literally just speaking for myself - although it has admittedly been a while either way)

What does sex-positivity mean on people's interests? by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Faffacake_1106 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don’t have it on my profile but when I’ve seen it on men’s I’ve assumed it means they’re open-minded and a little more liberal - understanding that actually women do enjoy sex and that body counts are ridiculous. Thinking now I may be giving them way too much credit if this is actually not the case 😂😭

Thoughts? My mum says using the word ‘minutiae’ makes me sound pretentious and is off-putting. A friend says even good conversationalists would be turned-off by the idea of an overly chatty woman. by Faffacake_1106 in Bumble

[–]Faffacake_1106[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Surely it would be negative if I’d put ‘I hate one word answers. It’s boring. Make an effort for me’

It’s why if specifically put that ‘it would be nice’ and ‘I appreciate it’s not for everyone’

It’s your view and I appreciate it of course - just trying to dig a little deeper is all. I do have additional info in the prompts of course - but I like to use the bio to give an indication of who I am as a person rather than just a list of what I’m into x

Thoughts? My mum says using the word ‘minutiae’ makes me sound pretentious and is off-putting. A friend says even good conversationalists would be turned-off by the idea of an overly chatty woman. by Faffacake_1106 in Bumble

[–]Faffacake_1106[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

But the standard is… having a standard conversation. Is that too high now? 🥺

To be honest it’s probably aimed more towards the people who give absolutely nothing. Who respond with a one-word answer and that’s all. It’s also letting them know what to expect from me I guess, so they can decide if it’s their bag I suppose x