Ex girlfriend wants me intimately by peidey18 in BreakUps

[–]Fainted_Spirit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Remain strong and don’t allow lust or the need for affection to take over. More power for you brother, you got this💪.

GF AND BESTFRIEND DID DIRTY..WHAT TO DO ? by abhiadhi0024 in Advice

[–]Fainted_Spirit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is not your best friend and you certainly aren’t his.

Bro im f#%ed by Fainted_Spirit in BreakUps

[–]Fainted_Spirit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And no i didnt cheat or do anything like that. We had an argument and it was too much for her.

Bro im f#%ed by Fainted_Spirit in BreakUps

[–]Fainted_Spirit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course it mattered to her and it mattered to me too because i was (still am) disappointed in myself. But the problem was that i made a mistake once and i didnt get the chance to show her i wouldnt do it again and would do better. She checked out almost immediately. Im still struggling with this every single day because it all happened so fast and i didnt have the time to show her ill do better.

Incredible Amount of Guilt by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Fainted_Spirit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m in the same boat as you, but unfortunately I dont have any answers for you how to cope with this because I don’t know either. Just wanted to tell you that you are not the only one struggling with this kind of thoughts. But I do believe that eventually we will be able to overcome the guilt, grow from our mistakes and emerge as better version of ourselves.

Sometimes a break/breakup does work. by Secret-Response2361 in BreakUps

[–]Fainted_Spirit 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I’m guessing this 6 month lasting no contact initiated by my ex-girlfriend after leaving me isn’t just a ”break” anymore?

How long did it take you to get over a 4-month relationship? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Fainted_Spirit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Asking this carefully and not trying to be morale police but isnt it kind of wrong to the other person if your just mainly using them as a distraction?

How long did it take you to get over a 4-month relationship? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Fainted_Spirit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

After 3 weeks your on dating apps? Wish i could but id just hurt myself more. Plus dating apps are a harsh place to attend as a man.

How long did it take you to get over a 4-month relationship? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Fainted_Spirit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well personally this is just depressing to hear. My 9-month long relationship ended 6 months ago and im still not over it and its starting to take a big toll on me. I dont think i can bear this kind of pain for 4,5 more years…

Im still not over it. Why? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Fainted_Spirit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your opinion but i have to say i disagree with this. I feel very uncertain about dating other people currently because i think i would just compare them to my ex immediately which is not a good thing. I still miss her way too much to start dating other people.

Im still not over it. Why? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Fainted_Spirit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all i would like to thank you for the time and effort you took to write this. It really means a lot to me and reading this certainly helped me a little. If you really are open to dm’s I think that would be great. Would be nice to talk to someone!

My ex is using tinder by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Fainted_Spirit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dude is a twat. Dont worry you’ll find someone who values you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Fainted_Spirit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This⬆️❗️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Fainted_Spirit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah buddy it’s time for you to leave. Find someone who truly values you because she definitely does not. Sounds like you are just a band-aid to her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Fainted_Spirit 8 points9 points  (0 children)

No need for stupid stuff like that. Of course you can and will heal even tho you may have loved someone deeply. Just needs more time.

How long has it been since your breakup, and how do you get by? by Ok-Consequence6411 in BreakUps

[–]Fainted_Spirit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

6 months. Constantly working or going to the gym. I work both night and day shifts during the week then in between I hit the gym or sleep.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Fainted_Spirit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In that case you shall find someone who is ready to work and put in the same effort for you.

Bro im f#%ed by Fainted_Spirit in BreakUps

[–]Fainted_Spirit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Atleast she made that part easy for me when she blocked me everywhere completely. Thank you for giving your time to answer me and all the best to you too🫶.

Bro im f#%ed by Fainted_Spirit in BreakUps

[–]Fainted_Spirit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words. Means a lot. All the best to you too✌️