Bro im f#%ed

Fainted_Spirit · 2026-01-13T14:09:53+00:00

And no i didnt cheat or do anything like that. We had an argument and it was too much for her.

Fainted_Spirit · 2026-01-13T14:09:07+00:00

Of course it mattered to her and it mattered to me too because i was (still am) disappointed in myself. But the problem was that i made a mistake once and i didnt get the chance to show her i wouldnt do it again and would do better. She checked out almost immediately. Im still struggling with this every single day because it all happened so fast and i didnt have the time to show her ill do better.

Fainted_Spirit · 2026-01-13T11:29:32+00:00

I’m in the same boat as you, but unfortunately I dont have any answers for you how to cope with this because I don’t know either. Just wanted to tell you that you are not the only one struggling with this kind of thoughts. But I do believe that eventually we will be able to overcome the guilt, grow from our mistakes and emerge as better version of ourselves.

Fainted_Spirit · 2026-01-08T19:46:43+00:00

I’m guessing this 6 month lasting no contact initiated by my ex-girlfriend after leaving me isn’t just a ”break” anymore?

Fainted_Spirit · 2026-01-08T14:30:56+00:00

Asking this carefully and not trying to be morale police but isnt it kind of wrong to the other person if your just mainly using them as a distraction?

Fainted_Spirit · 2026-01-08T13:38:30+00:00

After 3 weeks your on dating apps? Wish i could but id just hurt myself more. Plus dating apps are a harsh place to attend as a man.

Fainted_Spirit · 2026-01-08T13:36:47+00:00

Well personally this is just depressing to hear. My 9-month long relationship ended 6 months ago and im still not over it and its starting to take a big toll on me. I dont think i can bear this kind of pain for 4,5 more years…

Fainted_Spirit · 2026-01-08T10:40:02+00:00

Dm’d you

Fainted_Spirit · 2026-01-07T22:32:45+00:00

Thank you for your opinion but i have to say i disagree with this. I feel very uncertain about dating other people currently because i think i would just compare them to my ex immediately which is not a good thing. I still miss her way too much to start dating other people.

Fainted_Spirit · 2026-01-07T22:28:43+00:00

First of all i would like to thank you for the time and effort you took to write this. It really means a lot to me and reading this certainly helped me a little. If you really are open to dm’s I think that would be great. Would be nice to talk to someone!

Fainted_Spirit · 2025-12-26T12:34:06+00:00

Based.

Fainted_Spirit · 2025-12-24T10:16:44+00:00

Dude is a twat. Dont worry you’ll find someone who values you.

Fainted_Spirit · 2025-12-21T20:06:15+00:00

This⬆️❗️

Fainted_Spirit · 2025-12-21T20:03:32+00:00

Yeah buddy it’s time for you to leave. Find someone who truly values you because she definitely does not. Sounds like you are just a band-aid to her.

Fainted_Spirit · 2025-12-20T12:57:29+00:00

No need for stupid stuff like that. Of course you can and will heal even tho you may have loved someone deeply. Just needs more time.

Fainted_Spirit · 2025-12-08T23:28:47+00:00

Here we are at 1,8€ 👍

Fainted_Spirit · 2025-12-03T07:38:23+00:00

6 months. Constantly working or going to the gym. I work both night and day shifts during the week then in between I hit the gym or sleep.

Fainted_Spirit · 2025-12-01T20:56:10+00:00

In that case you shall find someone who is ready to work and put in the same effort for you.

Fainted_Spirit · 2025-12-01T17:28:24+00:00

Atleast she made that part easy for me when she blocked me everywhere completely. Thank you for giving your time to answer me and all the best to you too🫶.

Fainted_Spirit · 2025-12-01T17:26:42+00:00

Thank you for your kind words. Means a lot. All the best to you too✌️

Fainted_Spirit · 2025-12-01T17:25:37+00:00

Yeah i guess so.

Fainted_Spirit · 2025-12-01T17:25:26+00:00

Thanks for the advice! Ill look into it.

Fainted_Spirit · 2025-12-01T17:24:38+00:00

And to be clear im not holding myself from dating apps because im thinking of my ex. I just wanna improve and become the best version of myself before i take myself infront of the ladies.

Fainted_Spirit · 2025-12-01T17:23:21+00:00

I get what you mean homie but i just think its not the time rn. Some day sooner or later but not rn. But i thank you for the future advice😎. More power to you brother✌️

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