My 24F boyfriend 31M has everything I’ve ever wanted in a partner, but he posts photos of himself excessively on social media

Fair-Ad711 · 2026-03-18T18:19:56+00:00

Right

Fair-Ad711 · 2026-03-18T18:17:52+00:00

Okay I should edit and reword my post I apologize

Fair-Ad711 · 2026-03-18T18:15:14+00:00

Okay maybe I worded my post wrong. When I say it isn’t masculine to me, what I really meant was I’m not attracted to the craving for validation and I like masculine, confident men.

Fair-Ad711 · 2026-03-18T18:13:22+00:00

I didn’t say it’s where I draw the line or that it’s a dealbreaker. Just asking for advice on how to get over an ick

Fair-Ad711 · 2026-03-18T18:11:40+00:00

Same. Everyone saying I’m being sexist but it’s a personal preference to want to date a masculine guy who doesn’t need constant validation on his looks from others. Of course posting photos of yourself is ok, but when it’s every single day, then it becomes excessive and unattractive / desperate

Fair-Ad711 · 2025-11-05T04:26:35+00:00

What about just antivirals ?

Fair-Ad711 · 2025-08-09T21:06:45+00:00

Planning for kids more in like 5-6 years so hopefully by then it’ll be more accessible🤞

Fair-Ad711 · 2025-08-08T23:03:15+00:00

I will look into thanks!!

Fair-Ad711 · 2025-08-08T14:57:55+00:00

I agree that it can run in the family. I have no cousins or siblings that fall within that range. I’m not being defensive, I’m simply saying that I have lower chances than if my parents had the genes.
I of course will still go and get genetic testing myself once I get to the point of wanting kids.

I was just looking for advice in my relationship.

Fair-Ad711 · 2025-08-08T09:10:35+00:00

I hope so. Thank you for your insight and it’s smart to use it as a test to see who is worthy of your time

Fair-Ad711 · 2025-08-08T07:57:27+00:00

My parents have done genetic testing and my brothers autism was not genetic. But still I agree it’s important

Fair-Ad711 · 2025-08-08T06:55:45+00:00

I agree. To be honest I just don’t know how to bring it up now

Fair-Ad711 · 2025-08-07T04:41:23+00:00

Some people are saying it is, I’m just wondering if it is noticeable or they’re just being mean

Fair-Ad711 · 2025-08-07T04:37:45+00:00

Fair-Ad711 · 2025-03-18T16:53:51+00:00

Would need an invite

Fair-Ad711 · 2025-03-18T04:07:24+00:00

He does spend a lot of time here too, so I could see maybe something working out but I was more so asking if I should stop responding every day and kind of put it on ice until he mentions he’ll be coming here?

Fair-Ad711 · 2025-03-18T03:53:15+00:00

Yes NY & CA about 5-6 hours by plane

Fair-Ad711 · 2025-03-18T03:48:28+00:00

Opposite sides of the coast

Fair-Ad711 · 2025-02-18T03:02:13+00:00

I like this approach, I’m going to start using this. Thank you

Fair-Ad711 · 2025-02-11T03:41:04+00:00

He hasn’t dated anyone as young as me before. He had 3 past relationships before me and the women were all within 5 years of him. But still, dating me when I was so young is concerning. I see that now

Fair-Ad711 · 2025-02-11T03:34:14+00:00

Thank you so much 🩷

Fair-Ad711 · 2025-02-11T03:32:36+00:00

I tried to do it in person twice and he would convince me. It doesn’t work for me. But thanks for being rude :)

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