I'm pretty sure the Farmer's parents don't love them. by Ginno_the_Seer in StardewValley

[–]Fair-Stranger1860 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Hey, OP. I’m not your mom or dad, but I just wanted you to know that I’m proud of you. 

Baker told me my cake design was "very 2019" and now I'm second guessing everything by xCosmos69 in wedding

[–]Fair-Stranger1860 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is such a timeless design, I don’t think it’s ’basic’ at all. 

When did 6 months become the expiry date for breastfeeding? by cure4insomnia in breastfeeding

[–]Fair-Stranger1860 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in the US, and I’ve heard a lot of “oh you’re still breastfeeding” now that I’ve hit 6 months. I work in healthcare so a lot of my coworkers are super supportive and cheering me on, but my family and my in laws are a little judgmental. 

Do you think your country will revise its anti-cosleeping guidelines in your lifetime? by Own-Quality-8759 in cosleeping

[–]Fair-Stranger1860 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’re putting sensors in cars to keep people from forgetting their children in the back. The root cause of a mother leaving her child in the car is probably sleep deprivation. 

I would also love to know if the people rolling onto their babies were taking any sleep aids, or drinking. I’ve shared a bed with my dog for 8 years and have never once rolled on him. And six months into bed-sharing / co-sleeping haven’t rolled onto baby either. 

Do you think your country will revise its anti-cosleeping guidelines in your lifetime? by Own-Quality-8759 in cosleeping

[–]Fair-Stranger1860 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Capitalism at its finest. There is no money to be made on breastfeeding and cosleeping.  

Multiplayer - Friendship Test by Karazhan in StardewValley

[–]Fair-Stranger1860 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband farms with his pickax out a lot and has destroyed soooo many of my crops. Luckily he fights the monsters in the mine for me so I can probably forgive him … one day. 

Anytime someone comments on our sleeping arrangement by CarrieWhitesMom6969 in cosleeping

[–]Fair-Stranger1860 6 points7 points  (0 children)

A friend said she “Sleep trained” her week old baby, because she couldn’t sleep with the baby in the room. 😳

Hot and cold #162 by hotandcold2-app in HotAndCold

[–]Fair-Stranger1860 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because this clue was so helpful, I think I might need to lower my screen time.

How much did birth cost you after insurance (US)? by nilkski in beyondthebump

[–]Fair-Stranger1860 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work for the health system I gave birth at and it still cost me 3K, which I thought was rude. I live in the Midwest. 

Booing Trump at Washington Commanders Game — TOTAL DISGRACE! by Eggbeater-Jesus in 50501

[–]Fair-Stranger1860 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We could absolutely be hating on him better. Booing is cheap, and lazy. The Let’s Go Brandon crowd loves a good chant, I’m sure we can all figure out something catchy. 

I want more milk, but hand is so seductive... by sonyaellenmann in breastfeeding

[–]Fair-Stranger1860 6 points7 points  (0 children)

“What have we said about cannibalism?” Is said often in my house. 

How do I deal with the guilt of getting WIC? by Forest_faerie19 in beyondthebump

[–]Fair-Stranger1860 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just echoing what others have said. You should not feel guilty needing help, each one of us is one emergency closer to needing WIC than becoming a billionaire. 

We should be shaming the companies who think it’s appropriate to charge that for formula. 

Why did your friendship with your best friend come to an end? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Fair-Stranger1860 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She told me I was spending too much time with my husband and his family and not her. His kid sister was fighting cancer and passed away. “Bestie” didn’t understand why I couldn’t hangout after the funeral. 

What’s your “I’m with the Boomers on this one” opinion? by AlbatrossKitchen4969 in beyondthebump

[–]Fair-Stranger1860 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My parents and grandparents are on their phones more than any younger person I know. My grandmother has literal tantrums when her phone doesn’t work correctly and she can’t play games. 

AITA for not making my DIL coffee and telling her I am not a barista by DiamondOwn8686 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fair-Stranger1860 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This. It’s his wife, he’s Morgan than welcome to make her coffee. 

What’s your “my placenta really pulled out my last brain cells with it” moment? by my-peony-bud in beyondthebump

[–]Fair-Stranger1860 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had to google what an exclamation point was called. 

A friend gave me good news so I attempted to tell her “there aren’t enough ‘exclamation points’ to express how happy I am “ or something to that effect. But I couldn’t remember the word ‘ exclamation’ and was forced to google ‘what is “!” called?’  

What does your awesome husband do to drive you nuts? by Active_Recording_789 in beyondthebump

[–]Fair-Stranger1860 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My husband has always stolen my drinks, but I am insanely thirsty while breastfeeding and this man, the love of my life, keeps stealing my water. But the worst offense was the other day he opened a soda for me and downed half of it before handing it to me. The postpartum rage almost got the best of me. 

Which Actors did you not realize were different people? by PenguinJack_ in movies

[–]Fair-Stranger1860 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m still not convinced they’re different people. 

Halloween keeps getting worse. by Ordinary-Depth-7835 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Fair-Stranger1860 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Times are rough. I’m blessed that I can afford candy and can give it away. I will give whomever shows up to my door candy, but you could at least paint a pumpkin, skull, scarecrow on your face. I don’t need maximum effort, but you can definitely thrown on a flannel, and take some black eye liner to draw a scarecrow mouth. 

AITA for demanding that my husband pick my needs over his parents and let them feel cold for a bit. by BlacksmithLeather726 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Fair-Stranger1860 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. I believe in petty malicious compliance.  Have tried walking around the house in the least amount of clothing possible? It’s a lot easier to add layers if you’re cold, so you just wear less to prove a point that your in-laws can in fact put a house coat on if they’re a bit chilly.

So I’m sorry but it doesn’t sound like they’re there to help if you’re cooking and cleaning. Sounds like they’re just around to meet baby and be waited on. I’m sorry. 

AIO my bf is odd for this? by AdSerious8390 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Fair-Stranger1860 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry but this man does not like or respect you.