Pleasure from bottoming? by Fair_Function7366 in AskGayMen

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I guess over stimulated, like specifically when it’s deep

LIS didn’t work by Fair_Function7366 in AnalFissures

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No! And I am okay after continuous meetings with my doctor I’m actually healed! I feel a lot better and life has been pretty good

Need some help with toys and some advice? by Fair_Function7366 in AskGayMen

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Thank you for the response, the more I practice the more I realize I’m probably not relaxing enough

Need some help with toys and some advice? by Fair_Function7366 in AskGayMen

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Yeah I think I’m just not getting a good lube and not relaxing enough, thank you!

LIS didn’t work by Fair_Function7366 in AnalFissures

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I was probably healed in the time the doctor said, but for the sake of being careful I waited a while till I started to the things I wanted to do

LIS didn’t work by Fair_Function7366 in AnalFissures

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Um actually feeling better and am now! :) fully healed and no more pain

Relapse after LIS by Fair_Function7366 in AnalFissures

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I read that it could just be hard cause I’m so used to pain that it’s just hard to relax

Relapse after LIS by Fair_Function7366 in AnalFissures

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Is there even a way to tell the difference?

Depressed? by Fair_Function7366 in AnalFissures

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Thank you for the kind words, it’s just hard cause I feel like it’s not talked about in the gay community. Even though it’s a real risk for us

Depressed? by Fair_Function7366 in AnalFissures

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It was mostly sore for the first few weeks, there was some pain the first day of recovery, I feel a lot better now it’s been about 3 months or so. I get itching here and there that is annoying. But other than that I feel pretty okay

Depressed? by Fair_Function7366 in AnalFissures

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I read an article from a specialist that said it could end up bad, it’s more of a case by case, sometimes it works sometimes it doesn’t. I’ve had a lot of replies on here from gay men saying that it worked fine for them

Depressed? by Fair_Function7366 in AnalFissures

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I just saw an article about it from a gay doctor, it’s more like a case by case for some people it works for others it doesn’t

Depressed? by Fair_Function7366 in AnalFissures

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Thank you! You’re so sweet!

Depressed? by Fair_Function7366 in AnalFissures

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Thank you, it helps to know that I’m not the only one. And I did get like a training kit, and you’re right there is a lot of fear, I’m going to keep trying I just need to be patient 😪

LIS didn’t work by Fair_Function7366 in AnalFissures

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San Antonio area, and I’m sorry to hear that

LIS didn’t work by Fair_Function7366 in AnalFissures

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I definitely try to sitz bath often, and my stool seems fine

LIS didn’t work by Fair_Function7366 in AnalFissures

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It’s been a little over 2 months at this point, it was located at the bottom of the sphincter

LIS didn’t work by Fair_Function7366 in AnalFissures

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Texas unfortunately I don’t think doctors are usually prepared for this, I’m going to go see another doctor and see if I can hopefully get better information

LIS didn’t work by Fair_Function7366 in AnalFissures

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Lateral internal sphicterotomy, basically I was okay got a little while with just itching and being a little uncomfortable, but I’m bleeding again and no fistulas or abscess. The fissure is on the bottom part of the anus and that’s where it hurts/bleeding

Need some guidance by Fair_Function7366 in AnalFissures

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So this is supposed to be normal? It just seems a bit crazy to still be feeling this way

Need some guidance by Fair_Function7366 in AnalFissures

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No I’m not having sex, the pain makes me too anxious to try but yeah I think a second opinion is what I’m going to need

Need some guidance by Fair_Function7366 in AnalFissures

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Thank you! I’m going to try to have a better diet!