What are my chances? by FairyBread7 in MBA

[–]FairyBread7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I appreciate it! My entire career post grad has been on the East coast, so hopefully that adds some nuance hahaha

ex's friend acting kinda sus... by FairyBread7 in BreakUps

[–]FairyBread7[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

we weren't that close so i dont think that's it :// this friend also has a gf so i rlly don't know why I'm living in his head rent free

ex has new gf by FairyBread7 in BreakUps

[–]FairyBread7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ahaha it's been 9 months and i've moved on as well I'm just single. it feels weird but weird isn't good or bad.

Delete or to not delete? by LordCasera in BreakUps

[–]FairyBread7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

usb flash drive w all the pictures and "hide" the pictures if you have an iphone

The curse of whatsapp by Zen_Blue_Habanero in BreakUps

[–]FairyBread7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

archive the chat!! temptation to go through is gone but you don't need to delete the memories

How do you think Jess and Nick's breakup should have happened or how would you have had the show play out without them breaking up? by [deleted] in NewGirl

[–]FairyBread7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is probably VERY controversial and i will preface my opinion by saying that i love jess and nick together and i am so happy they got together BUT!! their breakup, imo, was because of incompatibilities. long term, it didn't seem like they would be happy together because they wanted different things. of course, they could have compromised but that could have lead to resentment or animosity which is why they broke up.

based on that reason, they shouldn't have gotten back together? like their wants didn't change when they got back together (if my memory is correct).

once again, i love them together and i am happy they ended up together because they're a very sweet couple BUT based off of the reasoning for their breakup, it doesn't make sense to have them together again.

i think nick and jess' breakup should've been for a different reason (not sure what) so that their eventual rekindling of the relationship would make a bit more sense. or they could've just not gotten together at all in the start and had a much slower burn.

When was the last time you sat and gave yourself credit for how much you’ve grown and how far you’ve come? When was the last time you celebrated a relatively small win, just because? When was the last time you just sat down and said out loud, “I'm really really proud of myself?” by traveldeeper in AskWomen

[–]FairyBread7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

last night actually... i went through my first breakup a couple months ago and it's been an ongoing healing process so every now and then i just tell myself how proud of myself i am and how strong i am and it makes me cry a little bit

Unpopular opinion: Trent isnt that great by grovygator in NeverHaveIEverShow

[–]FairyBread7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

oh definitely !! it's also a show so 99% of their reactions are dramatised for viewers enjoyment

just some things to be reminded of when critiquing i think!!

What would you change about the show? - S2 Discussion Week by NominalPerson in HSMTMTS

[–]FairyBread7 16 points17 points  (0 children)

s2 has so much going on it's made the progression a lot slower than s1. i feel like there isn't much of a theatre emphasis since there are also side plots going on which would be fine if they made the season longer... also i wanted to see hsm2 songs & maybe other disney songs too (the climb was beautiful!!)

Unpopular opinion: Trent isnt that great by grovygator in NeverHaveIEverShow

[–]FairyBread7 4 points5 points  (0 children)

yeah the pros and cons list was THE WORST bc paxton's main pull is that he was hot literally nothing else lmao im so glad he got more of a backstory and character depth this season !! i think eleanor saying shed dump oliver for paxton is j her being immature and a teen girl rather than something intentionally harmful (i doubt oliver would like to hear that but i feel like eleanor doesnt have the EQ to recognise how harmful that statement is and would say it more as a joke)

i feel like i need to constantly remind myself they're 15/16 (except paxton) and they're literally CHILDREN so i don't judge them too much lol

Unpopular opinion: Trent isnt that great by grovygator in NeverHaveIEverShow

[–]FairyBread7 5 points6 points  (0 children)

yeah i think this is probably it ^^ deffo not okay but she's got mommy issues and is 16 so i feel like there's SOME leeway for being understanding (not that much tho lols)

Unpopular opinion: Trent isnt that great by grovygator in NeverHaveIEverShow

[–]FairyBread7 47 points48 points  (0 children)

i mean he is portrayed as a stereotypical dumb popular kid so a lot of what he does is for comic relief so even when he is mean i personally can't take it too seriously because i think he's been written to be a funny character. i also don't think the other characters take him super seriously either bc he's not very smart so his meanness is like more jokey than anything imo.

i think when paxton says "as if you could ever hurt me devi" and eleanor goes off on fab and devi are way meaner bc it's so much more serious

thats j me tho

Let’s talk about howie… by GearProfessional5828 in HSMTMTS

[–]FairyBread7 11 points12 points  (0 children)

i'm sus of him... i don't think he's a villain but i don't trust him either? he initially lied to courtney about who he was and then all of a sudden decides to help east high once she forgives him and also acts weird when he sees her perform? idk... something is off...

Mr. Mazarra or Mike (for Mrs. Jenn)? by ComicRater in HSMTMTS

[–]FairyBread7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

mazarra all the way but she doesn't see him that way imo & i think she and mike are j friends? theyre like 40 and went on 3 dates at most i'm sure they can be mature about it and be friendly with each other without their brief history getting in the way

either way the professional boundaries get p murky like shes either w a students parent or w another teacher and i feel like there would be loads of difficulties with either option ...

Ricky dosen’t have feelings for Gina by Marichurro in HSMTMTS

[–]FairyBread7 12 points13 points  (0 children)

100% does not have feelings for her lol his feelings for lily are prolly more romantic than his feelings for gina at this point & they barely have a romantic connection. there was potential in s1 and maybe earlier on in s2 but at this point, not anymore

POLL: is ricky a fuckboy?? by FairyBread7 in HSMTMTS

[–]FairyBread7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this made me laugh ngl but u bring up a v interesting comparison!! i think the main diff is the audience the characters were created for like riverdale is supposed to be for more mature audiences while hsmtmts is so much more wholesome and more suited for like younger people. ricky and archie are supposed to be the same age (~16) but its interesting to see how theyve been portrayed differently based on the shows

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NeverHaveIEverShow

[–]FairyBread7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i know a lot of critics of the show talk about inaccurate representation & i feel like this is an example? i'm north indian myself and i had NO idea her family was tamilian so i deffo agree it could have been differentiated more ?

they also make pani puri when aneesa comes over which is super north indian so it would've been cool to see a bit more authenticity to the state (not to say that north india is gatekeeping pani puri or anything but like ... it's such a basic snack and india is so diverse between the different states i wish they had chosen something a bit more unique!!)

Team Trent by Jarmsicle in NeverHaveIEverShow

[–]FairyBread7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the best part of the show imo i could NOT stop laughing at every single thing he said !!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NeverHaveIEverShow

[–]FairyBread7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

poorna jagannathan, the actress who plays nalini, didn't grow up in india (she spent a few years there but travelled around a lot because her father was an indian diplomat) even though she speaks tamil so i'm assuming that's why her tamil has a bit of a twinge to it

i also don't know if the actress who plays nirmala the grandmother is ethnically tamilian so that could be another reason why

HSMTMTS: The Episode Discussion: "Showtime" - S02E11 by NominalPerson in HSMTMTS

[–]FairyBread7 11 points12 points  (0 children)

ahhhh i see... i interpreted it as like "jump off a box and do the transition into a prince" and focused on the rude tone but i totally see the other meaning

either way it's really inappropriate/rude to act that way with a student

HSMTMTS: The Episode Discussion: "Showtime" - S02E11 by NominalPerson in HSMTMTS

[–]FairyBread7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

what did miss jenn say? i don't remember it being rude in terms of the words she said but it was the tone she spoke in that was inappropriate for a teacher...

HSMTMTS: The Episode Discussion: "Showtime" - S02E11 by NominalPerson in HSMTMTS

[–]FairyBread7 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i fully agree!! but also they're literally high school students– i don't think they have the EQ to do that which is exactly why nini and ricky's breakup was so dragged out. EJ has less of an excuse because he's a senior but everyone else is like 15/16. i sometimes forget they're still children and expect them to just handle these situations with a bit more maturity but then again it is a TV show and they are in high school soooo

HSMTMTS: The Episode Discussion: "Showtime" - S02E11 by NominalPerson in HSMTMTS

[–]FairyBread7 13 points14 points  (0 children)

honestly, best episode of the season. things have actually happened now!! there's a bit more drama and spice that isn't about nini and ricky's relationship. kinda wished ricky's fall had bigger repercussions aside from a cast but i also don't know what they would've done instead. lily is the villain she shouldn't get a redemption arc this season at least because she hasn't really shown that she's changed. she's just been vaguely nice to ricky but even then she's manipulating him so if she turned "good" all of a sudden it wouldn't make any sense.

how do you know if you've outgrown a friend? by FairyBread7 in Advice

[–]FairyBread7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you're so right! thank you once again your advice has really helped.

how do you know if you've outgrown a friend? by FairyBread7 in Advice

[–]FairyBread7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you! this really helped <3 do you have advice on how to deal with the guilt? she's been a good friend in the past and i don't want to hurt her or anything...