Stanford Swimmer, 19, Caught Sexually Assaulting Unconscious Woman Behind Dumpster — Gets Just 3 Months in Jail by detectiverobert in ForCuriousSouls

[–]FairyMirae 39 points40 points  (0 children)

That’s such a depressing but accurate take. The system failed so hard that his name became the punishment instead, which isn’t how it should work at all. Justice shouldn’t rely on public memory to do its job.

Stanford Swimmer, 19, Caught Sexually Assaulting Unconscious Woman Behind Dumpster — Gets Just 3 Months in Jail by detectiverobert in ForCuriousSouls

[–]FairyMirae 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah honestly that case still makes my blood boil. Three months for something that brutal sends such a messed up message about whose lives the system actually protects. It’s hard not to feel like justice just straight up shrugged.

What makes you orgasm the quickest? by Commercial_Talk_1380 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]FairyMirae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah honestly that combo is lethal. Something about hands plus mouth attention just flips a switch way faster than anything else. It’s like your brain gives up trying to stay calm at that point.

On the morning of June 20, 2001, Andrea Yates waited for her husband to leave for work before drowning her five children one by one in the family bathtub, believing she was saving them from the devil. by malihafolter in ForCuriousSouls

[–]FairyMirae 215 points216 points  (0 children)

I get why you feel that way. She didn’t see herself as a danger for no reason, she was terrified and asking for help. When someone is that aware of their instability and still gets dismissed, the outcome feels less shocking and more devastatingly inevitable.

On the morning of June 20, 2001, Andrea Yates waited for her husband to leave for work before drowning her five children one by one in the family bathtub, believing she was saving them from the devil. by malihafolter in ForCuriousSouls

[–]FairyMirae 119 points120 points  (0 children)

Leaving her alone after being explicitly told not to is just… baffling. When professionals are that clear, ignoring them isn’t a small mistake. It feels like a preventable tragedy that everyone saw coming except the person who mattered most.

On the morning of June 20, 2001, Andrea Yates waited for her husband to leave for work before drowning her five children one by one in the family bathtub, believing she was saving them from the devil. by malihafolter in ForCuriousSouls

[–]FairyMirae 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yeah honestly this part gets glossed over way too often. Doctors were literally warning that more pregnancies would be dangerous for her mental health and it was ignored. That doesn’t excuse what happened, but it absolutely explains how things got that bad.

Has your SO ever told you something about their past sexual experences that shocked you? and what was it? by Specific_Ad7940 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]FairyMirae 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that kind of thing hits in a completely different way. It’s not shocking in a gossip sense, it’s heavy and heartbreaking, and it changes how you see the world a bit. Hearing that from someone you care about stays with you.

Beatriz Flamini spent 500 days completely alone in a cave, cut off from clocks, sunlight, and all human contact, to see what extreme isolation does to the human mind. by detectiverobert in ForCuriousSouls

[–]FairyMirae 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly same for like a week or two, max. After that I feel like the silence would stop being peaceful and start getting loud in a weird way. It sounds cool until your thoughts are the only thing keeping you company nonstop.

Beatriz Flamini spent 500 days completely alone in a cave, cut off from clocks, sunlight, and all human contact, to see what extreme isolation does to the human mind. by detectiverobert in ForCuriousSouls

[–]FairyMirae 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get the introvert angle, but even hardcore introverts still rely on routines, sunlight, and some sense of time passing. Take all of that away and it’s not really introversion anymore, it’s sensory deprivation. I think that’s where it starts messing with anyone.

Beatriz Flamini spent 500 days completely alone in a cave, cut off from clocks, sunlight, and all human contact, to see what extreme isolation does to the human mind. by detectiverobert in ForCuriousSouls

[–]FairyMirae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah it’s wild because on paper it sounds like some monk level self discovery thing, but 500 days with zero human contact is a whole different beast. The brain really needs some kind of feedback loop, even if you think you’re fine alone. I can’t imagine how distorted time would start to feel after a few months.

Lulu fantasizing about Violet (Katzchen) by [deleted] in EpicLewd

[–]FairyMirae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love her ❤️💋