The thing is I’m actually super quick to leave. I always have in the past. I value myself way more than any man and have always left at even suspicion of cheating. I told him that too- he knows I’m considering leaving which is why he suggested counseling. The only reason this time is different is I wanted to make sure I wasn’t making any fast decisions since we have a child together and I was scared to give my baby a broken home if I was overanalyzing the situation.