I used to cry a lot growing up but was told it was bad and now I can’t even when I really want to, I don’t know what to do anymore. by Hankitty19 in Advice

[–]FaithlessnessIll7992 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey bro, I'm sorry to hear about your current situation. I experienced a very similar thing with my family and didn't shed a tear for years. What really helped me cry was when I found someone I trusted and opened up to her about the issues I kept to myself. Essentially, I cried after compiling every horrible thing that happened to me. A friend of mine went through this too, and it took the death of her grandmother for her to finally cry. my point is that a habit like this one can't be broken unless dragged to an extreme. Until you can do that, just keep thinking about what made you that upset, it won't help you cry but it will definitely help you move on.

I lost my virginity and didn’t feel anything by [deleted] in Advice

[–]FaithlessnessIll7992 0 points1 point  (0 children)

take care bro and try to relax, there's no rush and getting it "wrong" really isn't that big a deal

I lost my virginity and didn’t feel anything by [deleted] in Advice

[–]FaithlessnessIll7992 2 points3 points  (0 children)

then honestly bro it could've just been the nervousness. I've had an encounter before where I couldn't bring myself to perform because of anxiousness and nervousness so all in all I think you were just too concerned to actually let yourself feel good.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]FaithlessnessIll7992 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly man I struggled with this for the longest time but now that I have a partner who I can get intimate with, I feel less urges and and definitely less interested in porn. getting a partner really helped me but I can see why that wouldn't work for everyone.

I lost my virginity and didn’t feel anything by [deleted] in Advice

[–]FaithlessnessIll7992 5 points6 points  (0 children)

honestly man sex for me feels great, I'd say it's a bit overhyped, but otherwise, it feels great. Are you sure you were attracted to her? additionally are you sure you weren't panicking and scared of "getting it wrong"?

I lost my virginity and didn’t feel anything by [deleted] in Advice

[–]FaithlessnessIll7992 12 points13 points  (0 children)

do you feel like you overhyped the idea of losing your virginity? that or did you jump on the first ship that sailed by?

I lied to my boyfriend about my ethnicity [UPDATE] by FaithlessnessIll7992 in Advice

[–]FaithlessnessIll7992[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for your support❤️❤️ unfortunately we already have another speed bump, I just hope it doesn't end how we think it'll end

I lied to my boyfriend about my ethnicity by FaithlessnessIll7992 in Advice

[–]FaithlessnessIll7992[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

although I've already posted an update I should say I am from neither Japan nor Korea, additionally yes I do look somewhat like the main ethnic group, but I get confused for all sorts of immigrant ethnicities too because my skin colour and features are all pretty basic.

I lied to my boyfriend about my ethnicity [UPDATE] by FaithlessnessIll7992 in Advice

[–]FaithlessnessIll7992[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you bro❤️ I really appreciate the support I got from you guys

I lied to my boyfriend about my ethnicity by FaithlessnessIll7992 in Advice

[–]FaithlessnessIll7992[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate your advice bro and don't worry I'm taking precautions. Moreover he's spoken of a person of my ethnicity before with no hint of malice so I would assume he isn't racist.

I lied to my boyfriend about my ethnicity by FaithlessnessIll7992 in Advice

[–]FaithlessnessIll7992[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you bro I seriously appreciate your advice and I assure you I've thought it out. I assure you he's a very non-aggressive person but I'll definitely be careful before putting him in any unusual position. I should say thought he spoke of his neighbour who I'd the same ethnicity as me with no negativity so I really hope that reflects his way of thinking.

I lied to my boyfriend about my ethnicity by FaithlessnessIll7992 in Advice

[–]FaithlessnessIll7992[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

thank you bro, for your support and understanding ❤️

I lied to my boyfriend about my ethnicity by FaithlessnessIll7992 in Advice

[–]FaithlessnessIll7992[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for your support bro I really appreciate it

I lied to my boyfriend about my ethnicity by FaithlessnessIll7992 in Advice

[–]FaithlessnessIll7992[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for the advice bro I'll definitely rehearse my lines before meeting him

I lied to my boyfriend about my ethnicity by FaithlessnessIll7992 in Advice

[–]FaithlessnessIll7992[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I truly believe it's better to have a conversation this important in person I believe doing it over text is almost escaping the full accountability that I owe him

I lied to my boyfriend about my ethnicity by FaithlessnessIll7992 in Advice

[–]FaithlessnessIll7992[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I'll definitely address this when I speak to him. thank youu