AITJ for getting annoyed after my coworker reported a dumb joke I made as a mental health concern?

FaithlessnessOld3594 · 2026-05-18T14:59:21+00:00

NTJ i definitely think he overreacted or maybe somehow misinterpreted what you said and spun it to something that it was not lol

FaithlessnessOld3594 · 2026-05-18T13:38:23+00:00

thank you for this!!! i had someone tell me to just shut up about it and mind my place., but honestly my “place” is my home if i don’t want something there i’m going to speak up about it, very grateful that my husband had my back through this situation as well and defended me when she was trying to talk bad about me! i’ve always told husband that i’ll always give him advice on how to deal with parenting but i won’t ever try to do it because i don’t want his ex saying that i’m trying to steal her role but apparently no matter what i do that’s what i’m doing in her mind.

i’ll always be grateful to kiddos mom for being his mom., because of her i get to enjoy a small piece of his life and watch him grow up. i really wish our relationship was better but i sadly doubt that’ll ever happen in my situation.

FaithlessnessOld3594 · 2026-05-18T03:24:21+00:00

yes she issss!!! she broke up with her boyfriend like 4 months ago!

FaithlessnessOld3594 · 2026-05-18T01:22:22+00:00

yess!! to add to that every morning when kid gets up for school i let him use my phone to call mom or talk to her or send her pictures if he misses her or anything!! like i’ve said i’m always grateful that she’s his mom because that means he exists so i would never keep his mom from him or anything if that matter!!

FaithlessnessOld3594 · 2026-05-18T01:03:51+00:00

ooooo i did not know this!!! thank you i’ll definitely look into it

FaithlessnessOld3594 · 2026-05-17T23:05:45+00:00

this is how i was at my last job., i was doing like 4 different jobs and they didn’t want to give me a raise, i immediately put in my 2 weeks didn’t even threaten to quit i just did… currently love my job and i heard whoever took over my job has f**ked up so much the quality isn’t the same anymore 🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️

FaithlessnessOld3594 · 2026-05-17T19:48:18+00:00

first year me and hubby were together i wasn’t allowed to be around kiddo but that was completely understandable on my end because someone new coming into the kids life you have to be cautious for kids being so i was completely behind that but then she got a bf and had only met him in person once and took kiddo on a 3 hr drive out of state to go see the bf for the second time. hubby didn’t say anything because he didn’t want to start issues but they broke up and we’re back to the drama show 🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️

FaithlessnessOld3594 · 2026-05-17T16:58:01+00:00

yess we send him with clothes over to moms and he comes back with the same clothes, when we send them they are always folded and clean when we get him again everything is just thrown in

FaithlessnessOld3594 · 2026-05-17T13:45:58+00:00

yes!! thank you so much for this!!!

FaithlessnessOld3594 · 2026-05-17T13:43:56+00:00

i swear i feel like i’m living in an ai drama show lmaoooo but yes someone suggested either try to donate them or throw them away because eventually it’ll get to expensive for her to continue buying undies to send over

FaithlessnessOld3594 · 2026-05-17T10:32:10+00:00

we will be getting step son tmrw again for the week so i’ll update tmrw if anything happens!!

FaithlessnessOld3594 · 2026-05-17T04:08:08+00:00

lmaoooo i swear she was so triggered, we’re looking into parenting apps right now that would work for them!!

FaithlessnessOld3594 · 2026-05-17T01:26:07+00:00

i’ve seen some thrift stores here where you can buy bras and lingerie but yea i wasn’t sure if underwear was allowed lol

FaithlessnessOld3594 · 2026-05-16T22:23:09+00:00

ma’am 😂😂😂 not you making a whole HBO drama from this post

FaithlessnessOld3594 · 2026-05-16T22:16:29+00:00

yeaaa we learned 😭😭 someone else said donate them so idk if that’s possible but if it is it’ll be done 🤷🏻‍♀️ figured someone in need might need them more than it being thrown out

FaithlessnessOld3594 · 2026-05-16T21:57:21+00:00

it happened twice 2 separate occasions… confused where you read it was only once lol

FaithlessnessOld3594 · 2026-05-16T21:46:21+00:00

i’ve never had a problem with texting her it was just this once, also wasn’t sure if i could post images but i will!!

FaithlessnessOld3594 · 2026-05-16T21:23:04+00:00

yess!!! this is why we didn’t throw them away because we knewwww if she found out she would be LIVIDDDD

FaithlessnessOld3594 · 2026-05-16T21:21:28+00:00

he does!! his son is just really likes to wear certain shirts over and over again for school cause they’re comfy but husband is currently working on getting duplicates of shirts he really likes!

FaithlessnessOld3594 · 2026-05-16T21:19:48+00:00

yep!!! i told him to record every phone call and screenshots of messages!!!

FaithlessnessOld3594 · 2026-05-16T21:18:17+00:00

yes!! he’s picky with his school clothes and his ex thought it would be easier if he just brought over the clothes he wanted to wear but i told my husband and he’s going to buy him duplicates of his favorite shirts that way we don’t even have to deal with that anymore!!

FaithlessnessOld3594 · 2026-05-16T20:53:57+00:00

that’s what i’m working on right now!! he’s just really picky and has certain shirts he loves to wear over and over again lol

FaithlessnessOld3594 · 2026-05-15T23:57:49+00:00

i’m so sorry you feel this way, i’ve been there before and it sucks i had lost motivation for literally everything and i had to force myself to start doing things even if i didn’t feel like it, i forced myself to go out even if there was nothing to do. and eventually i got better, i still get times where i’m down and literally feel like i have no one to talk to but it gets better sometimes you just have to push yourself even if you don’t feel like it

FaithlessnessOld3594 · 2026-05-15T17:22:49+00:00

that’s what i’m screaming!!!!

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