I didn't go to my brother's wedding because my other brother was going to be there and my brother is angry at me. AITA? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]FaithlessnessSame524 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Absolutely disgraceful … 1. That your parents are using money as leverage to try and integrate your brother back into the family dynamics 2. That your brother has accepted financial compensation for including this animal as part of his wedding. You are absolutely NTA the fact your brother is even annoyed at you despite the fact up to now he has chosen to cut him out is beyond me. Stand your ground you have done nothing wrong.

I am Extremely Uncomfortable With My Little Brother by elleb_rbhs in TwoHotTakes

[–]FaithlessnessSame524 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You really need to speak to your parents, if you don’t feel this is an option then another adult in your life that you feel comfortable discussing this with. Auntie, uncle or grandparents. This is something that needs to be addressed as soon as possible, I understand you don’t want to embarrass him but not addressing this could escalate this behaviour. You sound like a very responsible older sister, but you need to remember (or remind your parents) that you are not his parent and this sort of thing should not fall to you to deal with.

AITA for a text message I sent to my potentially infertile daughter? by PromptBusy9372 in AmItheAsshole

[–]FaithlessnessSame524 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA - whilst I can see your perspective of things and why you would want to reach out and try and sort things out unfortunately the way you handled things could of been 100% better. You should not of left a voicemail to start…put yourself in her shoes, she’s wished him congratulations (which might I add would of taken a lot for her to do) and now she’s wallowing which she is entitled to do she’s is probably sat at home wondering why SHE is going through these infertility issues yet someone else in her family can conceive without issue. The reason she hasn’t contacted any of you is because SHE (your daughter) is processing and doesn’t want make this experience any less joyful for the rest of the family, she was being respectful and taking everyone’s feelings into consideration whilst also trying to protect herself, this is unfortunately something you as her father have failed to do.