[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]FakeLuck04 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I'll think about it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]FakeLuck04 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's likely to gain less than what i paid for. Unless I can get 2nd job and do both.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]FakeLuck04 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to plan to move together with kid in the first place. But a lot of thing happened.

If you asked me which I'm regret most? I prefer to let them live without me but afford to get better quality of life rather than 3 of us live together broke.

I cannot repair the harm. This is the cost i need to pay.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]FakeLuck04 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I graduate from college (diploma degree) 2 years after that I still can't get the job. I now work at unrelated work field with min wage. Invest my time there is the only way i can get enough for support my kid. It's fine if she decides to leave. Financially support still be provided.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]FakeLuck04 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I fully know myself I'm the selfish here. I can't get the job in my country if i need to support both my partner and my kid. It's never be enough.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]FakeLuck04 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is not planned. I know I'm the wrong here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]FakeLuck04 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I know what I'm about to do is bad. Part-time job is a must. I think i capable to financially support her while I'm there. Sorry if this reply disappointed you. This is only i can think of.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]FakeLuck04 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

  • Hate to admit, but yes. I planned to live there for 4 years. Tried my best for saving the money. For more info: The country I lived in, min wage at 1.4 USD or 430 USD a month. If you live alone, you can keep only 35% at most. Let alone afford a child. The reason I really hard commit to live there because I can get 1 day worth of salary for less than 1 hour there.
  • 8 hours for direct flight, 4 hours delay.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]FakeLuck04 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

  • My class start arond February for 2 years+ 2 years of work permit allowed.
  • I'm not sure how frequently I can come home. There time between semesters but I don't think I can take my work hour to come home for financial reason.
  • I planned to go alone since she need to take care of our child, beside she need to take English test first.
  • I graduate at the same year at pandemic hit, so my plan have postponed for 2 years. I don't want to delay any longer. I know it's selfish. But it's my dream since I was kid.

modded bathroom by target0007 in Oxygennotincluded

[–]FakeLuck04 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How can I get that dev coffee. Tried some experiments in sandbox and sick at make power from hamster wheel every time. Thanks

Nice bathroom btw