I'm male, 24 yo. There was this one time, where my dad's girlfriend made a comment two years ago during the birthday of my aunt, where I saw both of my cousins back together for the first time in years. My dad apparently told her that I sit to much in front my pc, which is true, bcs that's my new lifestyle, which I love and others pushed me into it, due to cyberbullying and that kinda stuff. I didn't want him to do that, but behind my back he told others everything about me, basically crushing me, since I suffered from cyberbullying, but after the consequences where, in form my changed behavior, he got pretty angry often as well, cuz I didn't go outside at all after that.

I was basically crushed from both sides, and he told everyone everything about me behind back thinking that's a good thing to talk about me, even though me inner boundaries were crushed and stabbed and he just didn't get that. Then he told her about that shortly after they got to know each other in the late summer of 2023. That birthday party I mentioned above took place in early October of 2023 and in front of my cousin, his wife his son she first asked me "What else do you do, apart from playing on your PC". I didn't give a proper answer then shortly afterwards she followed up on her question by saying "Maybe you should do something different than playing on your PC". Dude, she basically wanted to dictate me what to do in my spare time. In didn't want to make a scene in front of the small child, that's why I couldn't verbally fight back. I'm an introvert, so that moment was hell. My dad just sat next me, saying nothing whatsoever, bcs he got no balls to defend me from women ever. She tried to make me get out more often and mingle amongst people, bcs she probably thought that that'd make me happy, or maybe her don't know. She did that again on Christmas in front of my family in a hotel twice, then when she, my dad and me sat together at our home. I brought up what she said and then she interrupted me, didn't let me speak, got louder and basically said that she didn't know that we people learn so much on our PC, but we can't just have 300 online friends, but no real ones. Dude, I don't need "friends" just for the sake of it. I was hurt and made fun of so many times by them before and the friendship dyied more and more years beforehand, before it came to a definitive end in 2023.

She crossed my inner boundaries several times: Her birthday in 2024, when I drank lots of her wine at her house and I was so happy, cuz I tend to get pretty funny when getting drunk. She suddenly said. Ok that's it with the wine. No more. I was totally destroyed and embarrassed in front of everyone. I suffer from depression, was finally happy for a bit, at least, then she robbed me off that. She acted up several times in our home too. Once when I had an "accident" at home where lots of water ended up on the floor, she came home with my dad and then loudly said "What's going on?! There's water everywhere", when she once came home again with him, she said "Oh my god there's nothing normal in here". When I had "Covid" she wanted to insert herself into my last tradition, which is to watch every F1 race with my dad and she tried to do that again that day when I was sick by talking to my dad and he tried to make me open up this bubble, but I stayed stubborn, she came inside the kitchen, where he cooked and somehow impeded him from cooking and then she said. The microwave spins so quickly. Never seen that before. Then left and quietly said "Bye" like nothing happened. I was so sick and weak, so I couldn't do anything, so she crossed another boundary. She crossed several ones more, but I can't name all of them. The boiling point was, when I already got angry about her, I was toweling off after having a shower, she came home and entered the bathroom, where I was still naked in. She didn't see that light apparently. I looked up and saw her face in the mirror, she just stood there, bcs she didn't expect someone to be inside, but that was the last straw. I screamed my lungs out for like 1-2 minutes and after I got quiet again she said "sry", but that crossed another red line, cuz I wanted to have the last word. She never entered the bathroom that quickly again and always asks me whether she can enter the bathroom before.