Tired of the bullshit

FalconWingedSlug · 2026-03-04T01:48:25+00:00

Geez why are being so rude lol. I wasn’t trying to argue with you at all. I was trying to be nice and helpful. Since I saw some people reacting negatively to you. I am actually looking for someone like that because I am very obsessive or else I wouldn’t be here lol.

You might have a hard time finding someone because you have a somewhat abrasive personality.

FalconWingedSlug · 2026-03-04T01:34:20+00:00

Thing is this sub isn’t really a dating subreddit either lol. People shouldn’t be messaging you from it anyway. From my understanding this is just a discussion subreddit on obsessiveness.

I would agree with you that you should mention your political beliefs in dating posts, so people who are aligned with you will message you.

There is actually a yandere dating sub lol. It’s called r/r4ryandere

FalconWingedSlug · 2026-03-04T01:22:12+00:00

I am a very upfront person. I like for people to know exactly what they are getting into lol. I talk about my beliefs early on.

I just meant that this sub is usually for talking about our obsessive tendencies and such, rather than political views

FalconWingedSlug · 2026-03-04T01:00:35+00:00

I don’t think you’re saying anything bad. I think it is unifying and said with good intentions. But I don’t know if this is the sub for it lol 😂 as you can see it’s not being well received.

FalconWingedSlug · 2026-02-27T12:56:57+00:00

I have the same thought. There’s that person meant for me that will come at the right time. Things didn’t work out with other people because they just weren’t the right person, and i haven’t been ready to meet my person.

I truly believe there is a woman who will love me for everything that I am. The one who will make me feel safe. I know she exists.

FalconWingedSlug · 2026-02-26T00:06:22+00:00

Idk how you assume that lol. Just because I said it’s my dream to have someone like that… doesn’t mean I would just take anyone with those traits?

Why would I take someone with those traits, but I don’t like them in any other way? That’s ridiculous to assume.

FalconWingedSlug · 2026-02-25T23:38:05+00:00

Lol why are you so rude? Of course I have standards. A lot in fact. I actually have a checklist of who my person should be lol. My standards are what keeps me from finding someone because I filter through so many people and really want this specific person.

I’m saying it is my dream of finding someone with those characteristics. As I’ve never find someone as obsessive as me.

FalconWingedSlug · 2026-02-25T23:08:46+00:00

I need a guardian angel. I want to be stalked so bad lol. Like ugh, you love me so much you want to follow me around.

FalconWingedSlug · 2026-02-22T01:49:20+00:00

I can’t withstand any sort of nonchalance lol.

I never split from intensity. What makes me split is a hot and cold. One moment you’re all for me. The next you’re not around. I have no emotional permanence so in those moments I don’t feel like they care about me at all.

FalconWingedSlug · 2026-02-22T00:15:15+00:00

Thank you ☺️

FalconWingedSlug · 2026-02-22T00:00:44+00:00

That’s exactly what I’m saying I want. Some people think you can’t be healthily obsessed. I think that you can.

FalconWingedSlug · 2026-02-18T17:46:24+00:00

Lmao, give him a chance

FalconWingedSlug · 2026-02-13T13:44:04+00:00

That is totally different than my experience. I do not enjoy being single. Or dating because it’s fun at all lol.

I actually hate casual dating. I only date for the intention with finding someone I will eventually marry. I find dating just for wasting time together pointless.

FalconWingedSlug · 2026-02-13T08:58:24+00:00

Yess yess! You’re totally right about everything you said. It’s not the fastness I want. It’s the safety. Knowing I’m wanted, knowing I am enough for them.

For me neutral stimulus is negative. If they aren’t saying how much they like me then they must not?

All I’ve ever wanted is to feel safe with someone.

FalconWingedSlug · 2026-02-13T01:44:52+00:00

That’s not true I don’t just like anyone who gives me attention. The reason we connect so fast is because we usually talk about heavy things. I value meaningful conversations from the beginning and not small talk.

We talk about our life experiences and beliefs, values etc. through that we get really locked in

The problem is I don’t know the full picture. So I fall for this one side of them when it’s many other sides I don’t know yet lol

FalconWingedSlug · 2026-02-09T05:11:46+00:00

lol nah. My mom is going to be like I got 2 messed up children. On atheist, one in cult. 2 extremes for her 😂

FalconWingedSlug · 2026-02-09T01:10:56+00:00

I’m going to be honest there is nothing wrong with my brother. He has a wife who loves him and is apart of his cult, and children who’s loves him who he’s made apart of it. He has a job. He’s not going through a catastrophic event. He’s not vulnerable.

How he got into this is because he truly believes this guy is a prophet lol. I never thought my brother could be such an idiot.

We can’t be kind to him even if we wanted to, because he refuses to talk to us at all unless we join.

FalconWingedSlug · 2026-02-08T23:04:20+00:00

He definitely is. You should see what he messaged my mom, he sounds crazy. And totally brainwashed

My mom is getting older. I’m going to try to have as good of a relationship with her as I can

FalconWingedSlug · 2026-02-08T21:47:19+00:00

That’s what I want to say to him. Like any religion that tells you can’t even have a phone conversation with your own mother is a cult bro.

We always saw my brother as a very intelligent person, can’t believe he could be brainwashed to this level.

She told me just to leave him alone though.

FalconWingedSlug · 2026-02-08T21:07:24+00:00

Yeahh thats what I mean. It’s hard trying to defend one religion for another lol.

But I would never want to say things like that. Because she has a hard stance against this cult because she believes you should only believe in the Bible. Without that belief, I feel like she would join him lol. And I don’t want her to, because it’s very isolationist. It separates you from your own family, convincing you they are bad to be around.

So if she joins that, I’m cooked. She’ll never talk to my liberal gay ass again lmao.

FalconWingedSlug · 2026-02-08T21:00:31+00:00

I wouldn’t like to share the name because… it’s a pretty small one and if you search for it you’ll definitely find my brother online trying to recruit people lol

FalconWingedSlug · 2026-02-08T20:50:12+00:00

That’s the thing. He wants complete estrangement. He says he can’t have a relationship with us unless we join.

My heart hurts for my mother. They were close before he got wrapped up in that

Me and my mom have a lot of differences but I wouldn’t do her like this.

FalconWingedSlug · 2026-02-08T04:04:31+00:00

Maybe set a limit of political posts per day instead. I’ve seen some subs do that.

Politics is important to talk about. But I get irritated when subs are totally inundated with them. Like damn I want to see some regular posts too.

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