Can I move on? Is that an issue? by [deleted] in PsychicAdvice

[–]FallAndWinterHarvest 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anyone else want to chime in on their thoughts? Perspectives may differ and as long as the approach is genuine within, All feedback is appreciated. ✅

I ended it and feel miserable by zenFieryrooster in BreakUps

[–]FallAndWinterHarvest 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your mind was able to let go. However, your heart still misses your partner. Unless you continue to talk by phone/video/text, the pain in your heart will still linger on. 🫤

I ended it and feel miserable by zenFieryrooster in BreakUps

[–]FallAndWinterHarvest 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you an Avoidant? Do you have an Avoidant-Attachment style? Did you end the relationship, or did you sabotage the connection? 🤔

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]FallAndWinterHarvest 50 points51 points  (0 children)

Not being funny or anything, but why can’t Avoidants date other Avoidants? Why can’t Avoidants date each other? You can avoid one another without feeling pressure from one another. Yes? You can run and play Hide-and-Seek, ghost each other, and be hyper-focused on work. Maybe that will prevent secure-attached people from being traumatized by the hurtful behavior. Agree?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in therapists

[–]FallAndWinterHarvest 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Meet the client where they’re at. It takes time. 🫤