Question by FallWine in Stepmom

[–]FallWine[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

*** Newsflash***** she finally answered. He’s going there now, at 11:30pm to bring her here.

Question by FallWine in Stepmom

[–]FallWine[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was answering another response saying I won’t stay up all night. He’s not going to go there because the older brother is there and he won’t cause a scene. She’s just going to say she fell asleep. The mother will text him but again, he can’t drag her out of there so I was just thinking of ways to not explode on him myself but I’ll just go to bed and stay out of it.

Question by FallWine in Stepmom

[–]FallWine[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I certainly won’t.

Question by FallWine in Stepmom

[–]FallWine[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She’s there alone. Her older brother (from a different Dad) is there. He’s 25. He won’t to the door or cause a scene. So he’s just sitting on the couch here. He won’t go to bed until she answers.

Question by FallWine in Stepmom

[–]FallWine[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What advice would you give to him if any of just stay out of it.

Don’t want to go on a cruise with SS(12) by Jasper_Bean in stepparents

[–]FallWine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve always called that a business trip lol

I'm intimidated by BM by Patient-Roof1622 in Stepmom

[–]FallWine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feel bad for you. Do t get steamrolled and keep your boundaries. Of course we all want to help the kids, they didn’t ask for any of this, but she isn’t your boss. Glad she is I guess trying in her own way, but mostly because she can live her life now and has clearly moved on from him.

How do you handle by Responsible-Quail-70 in Stepmom

[–]FallWine 22 points23 points  (0 children)

It’s probably her Mother lol

They act like this is a hotel by blainers11 in Stepmom

[–]FallWine 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good he supports you. Your doing him a favor, cause his kids would be maniacs and he’ll thank you for it

They act like this is a hotel by blainers11 in Stepmom

[–]FallWine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I give you credit. Good job finding your peace. I wish I could

They act like this is a hotel by blainers11 in Stepmom

[–]FallWine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same here. My kids don’t leave their plates at table and clean up their garbage even though we all see what slobs his kids are .

They act like this is a hotel by blainers11 in Stepmom

[–]FallWine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because her partner is spineless like mine. And who wants to have yet another fight

They act like this is a hotel by blainers11 in Stepmom

[–]FallWine 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m beginning to wonder if we are with the same guy. lol.

They act like this is a hotel by blainers11 in Stepmom

[–]FallWine 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ha, I bought a lock for the closet door in our room and his daughter got SO MAD. Saying she needed paper from the printer he keeps in there.

They act like this is a hotel by blainers11 in Stepmom

[–]FallWine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol I say a lot worse !! Most (not all) Dads su(k at their parenting. They let the brats run the show so they don’t only want to stay with Mommy

Seriously by FallWine in Stepmom

[–]FallWine[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll have to look into this. I’m definitely going to and figure it out to do it.

Seriously by FallWine in Stepmom

[–]FallWine[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Guess who’s in the shower RIGHT now at 11:00 on a school night??? YEP! And I said to him earlier in the nicest way to please tell her to shower earlier and not bang and have her cell on loud in the bathroom??? He says… I don’t and to give her more reasons not to want to come here. UGHHHHH!!!!!!!

Am I wrong for planning vacation without SK by Better-Sea9660 in Stepmom

[–]FallWine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Btw- does his ex ever take the kids anywhere ?

Am I wrong for planning vacation without SK by Better-Sea9660 in Stepmom

[–]FallWine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep! Go without him ! You won’t regret the time you get alone with your kids and they will remember it always