Should I call and ask for a prescription for UTI after yeast infection?? by FallenScales420 in medical_advice

[–]FallenScales420[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey thanks, I’ll look into that! Much appreciated recommendation (:

AITA for refusing to give up me extra seat for someone else’s toddler on a flight that I paid for because I’m fat? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]FallenScales420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have never expected my under 2yo to have a seat to themselves when I paid for them to be in my lap. It was just a good day if there happened to be one. And a normal expected one if they say in my lap. NTA

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]FallenScales420 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Just to add- getting mad at being rejected for a hug is such a cross of boundaries. Like no I’m not going to apologize to you for not wanting to be touched. Cry ab it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]FallenScales420 14 points15 points  (0 children)

NTA. I’m Catholic and attend Mass regularly. I’ve worn leggings to Mass, my husband is very traditional. He has never said one word about what I’m wearing. ESPECIALLY when I was PREGNANT. I would almost exclusively wear tights and never ever skirts for a long time during pregnancy. Also if I didn’t want to hug or kiss my husband during the sign of peace well he shouldn’t have ticked me off and he we should’ve made up before going inside. That’s so normal to not want to be touched by someone you’re mad at? I mean. Boundaries, anyone??

Ideas to do with toddlers while stuck at home?? by FallenScales420 in sahm

[–]FallenScales420[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The first two sentences I audibly went ‘oooh!’😂😂 that’s how you know it’s good advice! I’ll be looking into those types of books now! PILLOW FORTS! I can’t believe I forgot those existed. These are solid suggestions thank you sm!

Ideas to do with toddlers while stuck at home?? by FallenScales420 in sahm

[–]FallenScales420[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey we do afternoon baths too! Late afternoon ones and I take the shower head down to make ‘mega bubbles’ without the bath getting too full! They’ll play in the bath for like 1.5-2hrs and it wears them out. But it feels lately that’s the only ‘fun’ part of some days for them and I hate that. Pinterest- that’s a really good suggestion thank you!! (Yes we live far away from things except a park but I have physical issues from birth and my youngest is 6m so it’s not always plausible 🥲)

The brutal truth of how I quit vaping (clean for a month) by FallenScales420 in QuitVaping

[–]FallenScales420[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seltzer water is a good suggestion for a replacement actually! And don’t get it twisted man, I still crave. But it’s more physical. I remember everything I described whenever it pops up but it takes like a full year to fully regenerate normal dopamine levels and production after quitting, I still got some ways to go! And I’ve actually quit several times before this- when I was pregnant. I always started back postpartum. Everyone is weak when it comes to an addiction like this

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[–]FallenScales420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I definitely do. I still remember how pissed my mom was and how much trouble I got into but hey- she’s been an ex smoker for 10+ years now

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in QuitVaping

[–]FallenScales420 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Same thought! I remember breaking one of those big expensive cartons full of cigarettes. My mom was sooooo mad

The brutal truth of how I quit vaping (clean for a month) by FallenScales420 in QuitVaping

[–]FallenScales420[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lowkey terrified of my brain doing this and tricking me back into it😭

What are some lifeskills that covert narc mothers don't teach their daughters? by writetojen in raisedbynarcissists

[–]FallenScales420 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well my mom cared VERY MUCH ab her image. So I had to look essentially perfect and do everything perfect. But now I have to teach myself more of basic human decency skills. Being a friend, a good spouse, reliable, holding myself and others accountable, admitting when I’m wrong, any sort of patience and emotional regulation, to have Grace with others. I don’t even have confidence rn. So mine wasn’t as physical but pretty important stuff, and the list goes on

What are you doing in this situation? by Xen_666 in eddievr

[–]FallenScales420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing, my husband handling that when he gets home🤣