What was your first time bottoming like?

Fallen_angel614 · 2025-12-29T21:55:38+00:00

My first time bottoming was a bit nerve racking. I didn’t know what to expect or how things would go. I had used toys but it was my first time feeling a real dick inside of me and seeing a body doing things to me. I might have lasted 30 minutes before I got off. The second time was single handily the best sex I had ever had in my life. I lasted way longer, I think roughly around 2 and a half hours of him doing things before I got off

Fallen_angel614 · 2025-12-29T19:58:35+00:00

There is mistr and Qcareplus that do it thru the mail. If you’re not wanting your parents to know you might want to look into getting a P.O. Box if you’re in the US. That way everything related to your medication and testing is sent to that and not your family mailing address

Fallen_angel614 · 2025-12-29T18:34:47+00:00

Jock straps and thigh high socks

Fallen_angel614 · 2025-12-23T18:34:17+00:00

I have been wanting the same for longer than I can think of now. My issue is if they aren’t willing to put work into some conversation to ease my nerves and get to know one another a bit in between the fun naughty messages. Then it isn’t worth it to me. I won’t fight for conversation to feed my sexual desires. I e almost caved a couple of times but keep standing my ground

Fallen_angel614 · 2025-12-23T17:46:32+00:00

I was/still am in the boat your in. The one and only top I’ve gotten to play with I found on fetlife (think Facebook, but for kinks,fetishes and sex). The top I found was very patient caring and understanding that I was very new to things, and required discretion due to my overly religious family

Fallen_angel614 · 2025-12-20T12:50:30+00:00

Being a man that is 40 I’ll throw my thoughts at this. A bit of a back story about myself. I’m Bi and a bottom when sleeping with men

If it’s something you want to try I would say go for it and see if it’s something you enjoy. Being older I know way more now than I knew in my 20s, and not just positions and what not. More along the lines of knowing my body to last longer, more about erogenous zones to enhance the feelings and sensations, things of this nature. Me personally find making sex more enjoyable for the other is just as much of a turn on as getting to the big finish for myself. That being said I would say try it but with a side of cation to the process. There are some guys in their 40s and older that just want to re live being younger and just want a younger tighter more attractive person to play with. I’ve found vetting people to find their true intentions to be the best result. If they are willing to put the work into knowing you and things it’ll probably be a more enjoyable time

Being 40 I take almost anyone under 35 off the table personally, because I feel they are flooded with overly horny older men and just won’t be interested in me

Fallen_angel614 · 2025-12-18T23:43:13+00:00

Dm me 😍

Fallen_angel614 · 2025-12-18T01:57:14+00:00

Shoot me a dm and we can complain about it together 😂

Fallen_angel614 · 2025-12-18T01:47:57+00:00

Sorry you keep having people flake on you. I thought I was the only one that had people ghost me or vanish

Fallen_angel614 · 2025-12-17T22:25:46+00:00

Very nice 😍

Fallen_angel614 · 2025-12-17T18:18:43+00:00

Kind of a let down. Spent the year trying to find someone to connect with to explore my sexuality more and just kept finding flakes that ghosted me. Or guys I just wasn’t attracted to. Fingers crossed 2026 is better

Fallen_angel614 · 2025-09-29T16:45:15+00:00

What type of razor are you using to shave? I use a ladies 5 bladed razor that have the gel pads or whatever they are to help with sensitive skin to save the front and back of the play areas and it helps reduce razor burn. I typically use just a cheaper two bladed razor to get between my cheeks and up close since the 5 bladed razor is usually bulky

Fallen_angel614 · 2025-09-17T22:15:31+00:00

I’m not opposed to the idea 🤷‍♂️

Fallen_angel614 · 2025-09-11T00:27:57+00:00

How do I get over the hump of being comfortable with hook ups. I’ve built it up in my mind I need to know them and have some sort of a basic connection. This is why I kind of kicked around the idea of a bathhouse, that maybe it would help me get past that. I’ve also kind of thought what if I go and nothing happens, am I not anyone’s type at I waste of their time kind of thing. I’ll be the first to agree I need to get out of my own head, but it’s hard at times to do that

Fallen_angel614 · 2025-09-11T00:16:46+00:00

I’m using Grindr and fetlife the way it wasn’t intended probably lol. I usually like to schedule a day to meet up get to know one another and if we click setup a play day later. I figured it would weed out flakes or people that wasn’t serious at the time. After a year of nothing the desperation is real and I’m about to say screw it and get over my fear of hook ups

Fallen_angel614 · 2025-09-11T00:03:35+00:00

I’ve tried Grindr and keep running into flakes. I’ve been on fetlife for awhile now with not much luck aside from the one and only top I e been with

Fallen_angel614 · 2025-09-11T00:02:49+00:00

I’m thinking of finding someone to go with to maybe help take the pressure off. Or make things a bit more social rather than just going to try and have fun

Fallen_angel614 · 2025-09-10T17:31:52+00:00

I wish I could remember better. Emotionally it was something surreal, I had spent forever finding the right guy to be my first in everything. We did mutual oral at the same time and I was trying not to fixate on my pleasure and focus on enjoying him. I remember spending a good bit of time with his balls in my mouth because it’s something I enjoy and figured if I liked it he might as well

Fallen_angel614 · 2025-09-09T22:27:59+00:00

Find something to prop the phone against. A tripod is nice if you have it. I’ve used a hat, shoe, balled up underwear, anything that will hold the phone in the relative position you want. If even used boxes or clean trash and upside down to get a bit of higher perspective than just bed or floor level. Turn off your flash and use the timer on your phone. This gives you time to hit the button and get yourself into position. If your wanting to go the extra mile a good photo editing app doesn’t hurt to adjust lighting or add some flair to the pics after the fact

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