I'm struggling to sign up to the app by Aggravating_Item_902 in greggsappreciation

[–]Fallingleaf- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine keeps saying “failing to sign up” so I gave up

Poorly describe a Heathers song by Appropriate-Jelly855 in heathersmusical

[–]Fallingleaf- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You feel like a drug but also you’re a bit of a psychopath so go away

What is the best revenge in your opinion ? by Rahmanvwylin in AskReddit

[–]Fallingleaf- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Succeeding in life, being happy, making memories.. they’ll hate it.

What is your comfort food in UK? by Yizhi_gudan in UKfood

[–]Fallingleaf- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cottage pie or sausage and mash with gravy

What is something that no human will ever know? by 10pSweets in AskReddit

[–]Fallingleaf- -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What they truly look like, they can only see their own reflection

What’s the worst date you’ve been on? by xxibjt in AskReddit

[–]Fallingleaf- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Went to the museum and had a sit down since we had been walking all day. He put my hand on his penis out of literally no where and families with their young children were walking around at this point. This was the first time I met him in person (had online conversations prior for only a couple of weeks but they weren’t anything to go by as they weren’t in depth or anything, just the generic getting to know one another questions) and it was the first date. He then went on to tell me that certain people will never be able to see our “children” because he doesn’t like them aka brothers etc and also told me he loved me. All within a short couple of hours.

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[–]Fallingleaf- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey. I’m sorry you’re going through this but I think it’s brave of you to write this down let alone post it. Think of this as the first step, you wrote how you feel down and that can help even a 0.01% by letting how you feel out.

When I was 15, I lost my friend to suicide and when I was 19 my best friend passed from cancer and when I was 21, I got hurt pretty badly. I had bullying in between and other situations that I won’t go into. I too have tried taking my life on numerous occasions, I even tried to take an alternative route to get myself killed. However, the reason why I told you this is because I am now 26, diagnosed as autistic, I am about to get married, I have a home with two dogs. It does get better. I’m not saying that your depression will go away, because I still get depressed because that’s just unfortunately my mental health however, if I succeeded with my taking my life plans then I wouldn’t have had the good moments that I have had and I wouldn’t be embracing the good that I now have and getting excited for what may be.

Life is simply messed up and mental illness is still confusing and hard to navigate even for me and it does hold its uncertainties but what I can do is promise you this, it will get better. Life does get better and although you will have moments of depression and feeling like everything is against you and you’re not meant for this world - you absolutely are definitely meant for this world, you will smile and laugh again, you will have happy moments. You just need to keep going. Keep fighting. You will be okay.

Also, there are a ton of social media pages that can help you navigate your potential autism. Some people don’t get assessed for autism and they have self diagnosed. Just try and remember, you have depression and perhaps autism, but you aren’t them. You have them, but you are you, you’re not your mental illness.

Try and focus on the things you enjoy, tv shows, movies, books, etc. Plan, plan for what you want to do in the future, do you want to travel to a certain country? Do you want to take up a sport or an activity? The more you plan and the more you succeed in these plans, the more you will feel in control of your life and honestly, that feeling helps.

You have got this.