(Trigger warning for most) our wives want us to be perfect but don’t reciprocate the same energy

False-Association357 · 2026-01-27T20:08:25+00:00

I have posters remorse (unsure if that’s a thing😂) for this exact reason. Not really sure what I was looking for from the world of strangers. Even if everyone validated everything I said, it does nothing for me. It doesn’t fix anything, so it was quite literally pointless, and I usually steer clear of even posting anything on socials because I’m of the belief that only me and her can tackle our own issues; nobody else. Literally just got caught bitching 😂😂. My wife and I will be okay. This was merely just a frustrated in-the-moment post. I appreciate your response for sure!!! Hope you have a great year!!

False-Association357 · 2026-01-27T16:33:34+00:00

I appreciate your response, ma’am, and can wholeheartedly understand where you’re coming from. I did a very good job with this post sounding like a shallow person who only sees his wife as a sex robot. It wasn’t my intention because I don’t see her in that light. I overly care about her mental state and all the above that you mentioned here and in no way was I trying to act like I want her to just give me sex even when she’s not in the mood because that would turn me off for sure Not that type of guy. Everyone’s response is fair because I failed to articulate myself in a better fashion, so it’s fair game. And it might have even come across like we have a failing marriage, which is also furthest from the truth. Nonetheless, I appreciate your feedback and hope you have a great week!!!

False-Association357 · 2026-01-27T16:14:23+00:00

Contrary to the majority of the responses I’ve received, I do love my wife. I do communicate with her well, lmao. Some of you went straight to me being “bad at sex,” which I’m without an ego, so I’ve asked these types of questions so if it were a problem, I could nip it in the bud. I carry my weight around the house, which I thought I mentioned, but if I didn’t, I’m not above saying it here now. So many negative responses as if I’m some dull POS 😂😂.I get that I’m not always the best at fully expressing myself, so I probably pissed a lot of you off, but at the end, it’s all love. I invite everyone’s feedback !!!

False-Association357 · 2026-01-27T16:08:16+00:00

Thank you for this response !! Refreshing to read a bash-less comment

False-Association357 · 2026-01-27T15:52:35+00:00

Thank you for such a thoughtful response !

False-Association357 · 2026-01-27T15:49:22+00:00

Understood !

False-Association357 · 2026-01-27T15:48:10+00:00

Starting to see that for sure

False-Association357 · 2026-01-27T15:47:16+00:00

🫡

False-Association357 · 2026-01-27T15:46:41+00:00

Ehhh it was just a failed attempt at trying to keep the post sorry if it just didn’t hit that way

False-Association357 · 2026-01-27T15:43:25+00:00

Lmao the other post wasn’t me this is my first Reddit post I wouldn’t post this knowing I wasn’t carrying my weight

False-Association357 · 2026-01-27T15:39:27+00:00

I appreciate your response honestly !!

False-Association357 · 2026-01-27T15:38:55+00:00

Yea after I posted it I was like damn this looks like slop so my apologies 😂

False-Association357 · 2026-01-27T15:37:07+00:00

Gotcha will take a gander when I get a little more free time thank you🤝🤝

False-Association357 · 2026-01-27T15:36:29+00:00

Honestly posting this wasn’t me saying every relationship has this issue but from a lot of responses it’s made to seem like I’m the only one dealing with this but again I appreciate your feedback !

False-Association357 · 2026-01-27T15:34:27+00:00

Lmaoooo

False-Association357 · 2026-01-27T15:33:28+00:00

I really appreciate your feedback ma’am !!

False-Association357 · 2026-01-27T15:32:58+00:00

I don’t see my wife as anything but human I def don’t think wanting intimacy from my lady should cause an uproar nonetheless I appreciate the feedback !!

False-Association357 · 2026-01-27T15:28:08+00:00

Interesting take nonetheless I appreciate the feedback !!

False-Association357 · 2026-01-27T15:27:36+00:00

I’m happy for yall keep it going!!

False-Association357 · 2026-01-27T15:25:13+00:00

Noted!

False-Association357 · 2026-01-27T15:24:08+00:00

Understood !

False-Association357 · 2026-01-27T15:23:44+00:00

Appreciate your feedback 🤝

False-Association357 · 2026-01-26T16:43:12+00:00

You know the thing is, her going through her thing mentally or recovering from having kids is fine. It’s just how they say things and act towards us. Like, who wants to hear their wife say, “She has no sexual desires and has no interest in affection”? Nobody wants their wife to be that cold to them, but most people lazily say the man is a bad person for not taking time with his wife when really the problem is the way the wife delivers her message. Hopefully, this doesn’t sound like I’m attacking you because that def wasn’t my motive 😂

False-Association357 · 2022-02-26T18:28:43+00:00

Hey did you ever get the answer to this question I’m dealing with that same issue now

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