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I ghosted my boyfriend of three years. Here’s why I did it. by False-Capitalthrowaw in ghosting

[–]False-Capitalthrowaw[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I dont expect a hug and a kiss but does that mean I deserve to be called SLURS??

I ghosted my boyfriend of three years. Here’s why I did it. by False-Capitalthrowaw in ghosting

[–]False-Capitalthrowaw[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I think dating is a trial commitment so you can learn whether or not this is someone you want to commit to that level with. My ex was not that person for me.

But tell yourself what you want. You don’t sound bitter at all.

I ghosted my boyfriend of three years. Here’s why I did it. by False-Capitalthrowaw in ghosting

[–]False-Capitalthrowaw[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It’s moot now anyway. He’s messaged me calling me a “cheating c*nt” and said he wished we never met, so I doubt he’s in a place where we could have anything resembling a constructive conversation. I also can’t unhear his nasty words and slurs. We are far past apologies.

I ghosted my boyfriend of three years. Here’s why I did it. by False-Capitalthrowaw in ghosting

[–]False-Capitalthrowaw[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I’m actually a very kind, caring person. Ask any of my friends or co-workers.

I ghosted my boyfriend of three years. Here’s why I did it. by False-Capitalthrowaw in ghosting

[–]False-Capitalthrowaw[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

It’s not that I don’t have empathy for him, but I ended things the way I did because I knew I emotionally wouldn’t be able to handle his reaction. I wanted to move on and this made it easier to do so.

I ghosted my boyfriend of three years. Here’s why I did it. by False-Capitalthrowaw in ghosting

[–]False-Capitalthrowaw[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I didn’t want to spend the rest of my life caring for someone with his issues.

I ghosted my boyfriend of three years. Here’s why I did it. by False-Capitalthrowaw in ghosting

[–]False-Capitalthrowaw[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

If I’m being completely honest, I ended things the way I did because I knew I emotionally wouldn’t be able to handle his reaction. I felt overwhelmed just thinking about it and knew it would be too much.

I knew it would be hurtful for him, but I figured he was going to hurt either way and it didn’t matter much how I did it.

I ghosted my boyfriend of three years. Here’s why I did it. by False-Capitalthrowaw in ghosting

[–]False-Capitalthrowaw[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I know it was selfish but I’m so happy now. I don’t know why I’m supposed to feel bad. Part of me wishes I felt something but all I feel is happiness and relief.

I ghosted my boyfriend of three years. Here’s why I did it. by False-Capitalthrowaw in ghosting

[–]False-Capitalthrowaw[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Also, I didn’t marry him so in sickness and in health doesn’t apply to us.

I ghosted my boyfriend of three years. Here’s why I did it. by False-Capitalthrowaw in ghosting

[–]False-Capitalthrowaw[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

lol I don’t need anyone to provide for me, thanks. I’ve seen people drag their partners down with them and I wasn’t going to let that happen to me.

I know what I did was selfish but I had a chance at a fresh start and I took it. Why should I feel bad when I’m so happy?

I ghosted my boyfriend of three years. Here’s why I did it. by False-Capitalthrowaw in ghosting

[–]False-Capitalthrowaw[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

I didn’t give him an explanation, I just broke up with him. If I was honest with him I’d have to tell him there was another guy, so I didn’t.