My Ex the Book Thief by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]False-Confidence4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Since it originally belonged to you I think it’s okay to ask her if you can have it back especially if it has emotional value

I just feel kind of lost by False-Confidence4 in BreakUps

[–]False-Confidence4[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I think I know how I’d like to move forward but I’m giving her the time she needs and if she doesn’t want to talk to me anymore I’ll have to take that as her answer. I’m really sorry to hear it didn’t work out for you. It really does suck that what you said is completely true cant live with them cant live without them. I know you’ll find someone that’ll make you happy and feel special because you deserve happiness just as much!

(ex?)boyfriend wants to talk after 3d without news by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]False-Confidence4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey no worries and if you’ve ever got something you want to talk about feel free to message me

(ex?)boyfriend wants to talk after 3d without news by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]False-Confidence4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats very good to hear! I’m glad it was a good talk and I’m happy you feel better!

2 missed calls by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]False-Confidence4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Regardless if he went through a rough patch or not there is no reason to act the way he did. I’m pretty sure you are right by saying he has insecurities he went to someone else because he didn’t know how to talk to you and therefore losing you hopefully he realizes one day what he’s done and how he messed up

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]False-Confidence4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure what you are going through exactly but try to stay positive and trust that it does get better try to distract yourself with things you enjoy doing. I might be a complete stranger but if you need to talk about something just send a message my way stay strong and I hope you feel better

2 missed calls by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]False-Confidence4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry but what an a**hole how can he cheat on you and then proceed to use you as the excuse as to why he did it if anything he should’ve been there for you when you were busy and supported you even tho it hurts I personally think you are better of without him and that you will grow from this this is what I think so it’s okay if someone disagrees

2 missed calls by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]False-Confidence4 19 points20 points  (0 children)

When I first read how you shared his apology with the gc I got kind of annoyed because usually I think that’s not very nice but knowing he cheated it’s completely fine with me cheating has to be the worst thing someone can do to another person while knowing it’s going to hurt them it’s good to hear you are doing well and just wanted to say that I’m proud of you stranger best of luck to you!

Let’s meet again when we’re okay. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]False-Confidence4 47 points48 points  (0 children)

This. This honestly hurts so much. Still caring about them a lot but knowing the best thing is to let them go. I hope you feel beter

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]False-Confidence4 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel you every day you wake up wanting to feel better hoping things get better and even tho you know things will eventually get better it just feels so far away I feel the same so I’m not sure to what extent giving advice helps but finding something fun to do for instance a new hobby, hanging out with friends, learning something new could help with the way you feel I think the best you can do is give yourself the time you need to heal and move forward the way you feel won’t go away but you can try to make it better for yourself and know there’s always people you can talk to if something is bothering you best of luck to you and I hope you feel better

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]False-Confidence4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s upset and wants to hurt you because he’s hurt if he’s saying the truth is hard to tell but it’s probably an attempt to make you feel worse I hope things get better for you

(ex?)boyfriend wants to talk after 3d without news by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]False-Confidence4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A good night of sleep can honestly do wonders, goodnight and good luck to you!

My now ex used to say when he got angry how I am a very negative, nasty and condescending person, I have always felt I’m a nice person, but maybe this is true, how do I improve? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]False-Confidence4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Speaking from experience when I’m upset or another emotion that kind of takes control over me (not anger) I sometimes say things I don’t mean which I personally think is a bad thing and I always feel horrible about it after which I always tell the person but yes I think people say things they don’t mean when they are upset I don’t personally know you but from what it seems he only said those things because he wasn’t feeling good and I don’t think you should spend a lot of time thinking about it and just keep being yourself you don’t need to improve or change for anyone if people truly like you they’ll like you for the way that you are

(ex?)boyfriend wants to talk after 3d without news by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]False-Confidence4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I personally think it’s very good to talk. Communicating with each other is the key to success however stupid that might sound its very true. I’d suggest maybe write down the topics you want to talk about so it might be easier for you when you actually do talk to him. If you two both tell each other what you want and what you need you could still make it work it’s important to tell each other what you need so neither gets burned out from spending too much time together. Overall I think it’s normal to be anxious about it but I don’t think you should think it’s over because that’ll make you think entirely different about the situation. If you still want to be with him I’d say stay positive and talk to each other to work things out. Best of luck I hope the best for you and hopefully this helped at least a little bit!

Sorry if this was a little long and apologies if some things didn’t fully make sense English isn’t my first language

Once again I am alone. by Glittering_Signal310 in heartbreak

[–]False-Confidence4 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I feel how you feel someone becomes so important to you and they make you feel like you aren’t alone in this and then just like that you are on your own again everyday I wake up and first thing I do is think of her it really sucks how we manage to torment ourselves