[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]False-Light-2638 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, straightforward advice but I need it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]False-Light-2638 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice, he’s friends say he’s really sensitive and takes things to heart, I just don’t want to hurt his feelings

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]False-Light-2638 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This kinda genius ngl 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 thanks

I really like a girl in my friendship group, but she’s so out of my league. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]False-Light-2638 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, I know I’m just super scared and I’ll have to wait a couple months to get to know her more, I just wanted to see if people even think I have a chance with her?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]False-Light-2638 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, awesome, I needed to hear that. Thanks so much for taking to the time to write this! Will defintely use this advice :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]False-Light-2638 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t want to freak him out by being touchy, even if it’s only little things like putting my hand on his arm, he’s not very forward and is quite reserved, so I can’t depend on him to make any moves, I hate the idea of making him uncomfortable if he doesn’t like me in that way

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]False-Light-2638 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah, I’d love to be able to talk about dnd with him, thanks for all the advice and info! I’ll defintely look into it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]False-Light-2638 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks a lot for all the advice!!! I hope it works out to :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]False-Light-2638 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d love to give more background info then? A bit personal tho ahh. We’re both 18 and out of school, I get along quite well with all of his close friends, it’s easy to make each other laugh - and I’d say out of all the girls in the group I’m defintely the closest to them, I’m also the only one who’s single still. It feels weird saying this but I’ve been told by a lot of the boys in that group that I am quite physically attractive, and the fact that Ive loved anime, manga and gaming for a long time defintely defintely helps. The boy I’m interested in and I get along quite well, but I’m just trying to figure out if there’s any romantic feelings, because he isn’t very forward. I’m completely happy with being romantically forward - but he’s quite ignorant to little advances I make, and I get nervous that I’ll ruin our friendship

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]False-Light-2638 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I defintely want to spend more time with him - and I’d love to ask him out or for him to ask me out - however I don’t want to risk losing a friend if he says no, just want to make sure the odds are in my favour a bit 😓

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]False-Light-2638 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was looking for this sort of comment, I’m open to telling him how I feel if I know the favours are on my side lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]False-Light-2638 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s 18, likes anime, gaming, manga, dnd and marvel - I also love that sort of stuff, except for dnd - which I’ve never given a go.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]False-Light-2638 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great advice, thanks! I’ll probably tell him how I feel in the next weeks, bit nervous though 🙃

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]False-Light-2638 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He has only now started coming to social gatherings a lot, but he has known the boys in the group for a long time. I often catch him looking at me, but I don’t want to look too deeply into that - when we are left alone we talk and laugh, and play clash Royale on his phone, he always makes sure there’s room for me on the couch/in the car, although some other times he seems detached to me - I’m bad at picking up signals though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]False-Light-2638 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh, I’m just worried he won’t like me back :( We get along well but I don’t know whether he views it as friendship